A Payment a Day Part 2!

Flower08

Ooh yummy thank you!! :j

I know what you mean about it being a psychological thing being paid it definatly is! When i moved from being a christmas temp to permanent my pay changed from weekly to monthly - nightmare!! But at least OH still gets paid weekly and he brings in the main bulk of the money.

Managed to get quite a bit of work done tonight, so quite pleased with myself , back at uni at 9am then i think i will stay there all day to get some more work done! It is an interesting topic but when i have such a hectic workload i start thinking i hate it :rolleyes:

How has your weekend been terri?

tomtombeanie

not sure why the pic didn't show?

clarissa_D

Fag_ash_lil wrote: »

Hi clarissa ....
Very sorry to hear about your old school friend ..... What did he / she die of ?
How come your other mates are upsetting you ? ...... I know women can be real b*tches when they want to be ......
It sounds like DD had a lovely birthday today ....
So try not to let everything get you down ...... you have been doing great with clearing your debts down ......
Perhaps you should think about the holiday , for a little while , before you make your mind up ? .....
Here you go , a drink and choccy to cheer you up ....

Take care ....

terri x

Hi terri, thanks for the comments she passed when she had a routine gallbladder op recovered, but later passed in her sisters arms so Massive shock, whats worst is she was an intensive baby care unit nurse - peadiactrics and when DD had borderline jaundice she helped make her better
and my "mates" 1 has a habbit of latchin on to other peoples friends and decided to arrange 2 weeks in a row to invite herself out and arrange nights out with my mates.... apparently i am bein childish but im a person that like diff sets of friends ... and if I have a fall out with 1 atleast I have another set of "mates" there to go out with or so I thought now i have like no mates :mad:
anyway atm I don't need the hassel it's my baby girls bday and not even a bday wish to her so they seald there fate.
I helped this 1 perticular 1 LOADS with her money probs and things now wishing I left her to it... but im not that kinda person,

Pottyr training is actuall on the toilet, she went out tonight with pull ups on and asked to go loo and no accidents but the number 2s Its soooooo frustraiting I could cry.
yes Terri I will have a SOA and see how financially sound we will be by May next year and if my sister who has a Brain Tumor and terminally ill if she is ok for me to go hate to think that we would of gone to Greece and I missed saying goodbye that I am jinxed with holidays, Last holidaay I went on 6 years ago my mum had Bowel cancer and was dying.. thankfully pulled through but has really scared me to going away again as much as hate being in UK with no Holiday.
sorry rambelings xx thanks for choccys xx

Fag_ash_lil

tomtombeanie wrote: »

not sure why the pic didn't show?

Hi tomtom .....
Am not sure why it didn't show ...... but here it is .....

Flower08 - I've had a really quiet and lazy weekend ...... but am going to get " cracking " this week with selling again on Ebay ...... so that's my mission for the week ! ....... being skint is motivating me ! ....

terri x

Flower08

Oh Clarissa so sorry to hear about your friend passing away. As for your other 'friends' surely they must realise it is a hassle you do not need at the minute?! Sending big hugs your way, oh and happy birthday to your DD - how old is she?
x

Flower08

Fag_ash_lil wrote: »

Flower08 - I've had a really quiet and lazy weekend ...... but am going to get " cracking " this week with selling again on Ebay ...... so that's my mission for the week ! ....... being skint is motivating me ! ....

terri x

I know what you mean! :rotfl:

I think sometime soon i should get on with some ebaying, any money i make can be put towards moving costs and it will also help reduce moving costs as i wont have so much [STRIKE]junk[/STRIKE] treasure to move! Why didnt i think of it before?

tomtombeanie

sorry to hear about your friend clarissa.
and about your "friends" - reckon you're better off without them!
sounds like you had a good day with DD xx

tomtombeanie

i noticed that we'd run out of cake...

Flower08

tomtombeanie wrote: »

i noticed that we'd run out of cake...

Ooh that looks lovely!! A moment on the lips, lifetime on the hips :rotfl:

Fag_ash_lil

clarissa_D wrote: »

Hi terri, thanks for the comments she passed when she had a routine gallbladder op recovered, but later passed in her sisters arms so Massive shock, whats worst is she was an intensive baby care unit nurse - peadiactrics and when DD had borderline jaundice she helped make her better
and my "mates" 1 has a habbit of latchin on to other peoples friends and decided to arrange 2 weeks in a row to invite herself out and arrange nights out with my mates.... apparently i am bein childish but im a person that like diff sets of friends ... and if I have a fall out with 1 atleast I have another set of "mates" there to go out with or so I thought now i have like no mates :mad:
anyway atm I don't need the hassel it's my baby girls bday and not even a bday wish to her so they seald there fate.
I helped this 1 perticular 1 LOADS with her money probs and things now wishing I left her to it... but im not that kinda person,

Pottyr training is actuall on the toilet, she went out tonight with pull ups on and asked to go loo and no accidents but the number 2s Its soooooo frustraiting I could cry.
yes Terri I will have a SOA and see how financially sound we will be by May next year and if my sister who has a Brain Tumor and terminally ill if she is ok for me to go hate to think that we would of gone to Greece and I missed saying goodbye that I am jinxed with holidays, Last holidaay I went on 6 years ago my mum had Bowel cancer and was dying.. thankfully pulled through but has really scared me to going away again as much as hate being in UK with no Holiday.
sorry rambelings xx thanks for choccys xx

Sorry to hear that you are really going " through it " at the moment ....
That's awful about your friend dying .....
As for your other " latching on mate " ...... well what can i say ..... I have got seperate sets of friends as well , so i understand what you mean ..... She could have at least wished your DD a Happy Birthday ...... Perhaps it would be a good idea for you not to contact her for a while and wait for her to contact you ? .....
As for the potty training ....... it is hard i know ...... but DD has been doing really well so far ....... it will come eventually ....... but it just takes a little time ..... I understand how frustrating it is for you , it's great that she is asking to go to the loo ....... she will get there ...... in her own time ! ....
What with thinking about your mum and your sister , everything is bound to get you down ........ But you are not alone ...... we are all on here for you, whenever you get " cheesed off " with everything .....
Take care of yourself ....
Keep smiling and don't let the bug*ers " grind you down " ! ....

terri x