Abuse or Not?

russboy_2

I am thinking that my lady friend may need to see a doctor or seek some advice....but how do I tell her this......I love this lady very much......I just am worried about her sometime strange behaviour.....and yes I am worried for myself if I am honest.

Somebody mentioned formulating a plan.....but this sounds like a last resort to me....if I am honest I would feel like a bit of a falure......As I said she is a really nice person most of the times but just has some really perculiar moments.

alwaysonthego_2

russboy wrote: »

I am thinking that my lady friend may need to see a doctor or seek some advice....but how do I tell her this......I love this lady very much......I just am worried about her sometime strange behaviour.....and yes I am worried for myself if I am honest.

Somebody mentioned formulating a plan.....but this sounds like a last resort to me....if I am honest I would feel like a bit of a falure......As I said she is a really nice person most of the times but just has some really perculiar moments.

I think I am going to watch Neighbours now, better entertainment value!!!! Good bye :rolleyes:

Mark7799

Having read this thread all the way through, does anyone else think the Op's style of writing is similar to Student Phil's?

mouseymousey99

Nope, sorry nice sometimes doesn't wash....either you have concerns or you don't? Its New Years Eve - I want to help - but frankly I am now thinking this is 'wrong' - if someone tried to hurt my dog/cat/me I would send them into next week.

parisjordana

mmmmmm all the best !!!

gordikin

Edinburghlass wrote: »

So someone with an abuse problem automatically thinks ah yes a money saving forum is the right place to post on NY's Eve, I suggest the OP goes back to the chat forums he (allegedly) met this young lady (allegedly) and plays his game there.

A Board Guide with a good B******t meter...I like you! Shame there isn't more of you. Is Fran still around?

gordikin

Mark7799 wrote: »

Having read this thread all the way through, does anyone else think the Op's style of wriing is similar to Student Phil's?

No chance, Phil's way more entertaining than this!

Edinburghlass_2

Thats cos I've seen at least 3 alleged newbies, who aren't, on the boards today wasting everyone's time.

Tia_Maria06

God, I'm stupid, was sucked in by the story.. even though it was OTT... note to OP, get to the doctors yourself, you sound as though you need serious help!!!

russboy_2

The reason I put it on a money saving board is that there are financial concerns..i.e. mortgage now in both names and she is an additional credit card holder on my account.

However I asked for comments as I am hoping I can sort all of this out without parting company with her and wondered if anyone thought there may be mental health issues. I believe mental health issues can be dealt with.