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Abuse or Not?

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  • gordikin
    gordikin Posts: 4,422 Forumite
    I think Broken-Hearted from last week's wind-up has returned with a new name and a new story.
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    he never said it was abuse he said he found it strange ... the bruising and holding someone nose and mouth til they cant breathe now that is what he was asking was abuse which it is
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • dmg24
    dmg24 Posts: 33,920 Forumite
    10,000 Posts
    yes but this is a place of advice not judgement

    OK, my advice to the OP is not to take the p*ss out of such a sensitive subject. It is sick.

    Thank you please. Goodnight.
    Gone ... or have I?
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    either way til its proven so its not fair to put all newbies as fakers
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • gordikin
    gordikin Posts: 4,422 Forumite
    either way til its proven so its not fair to put all newbies as fakers


    Nobody has said all newbies are fakers...where did you get that from?
  • So someone with an abuse problem automatically thinks ah yes a money saving forum is the right place to post on NY's Eve, I suggest the OP goes back to the chat forums he (allegedly) met this young lady (allegedly) and plays his game there.
  • windswept
    windswept Posts: 1,412 Forumite
    I would have her cases waiting the next time she has gone out - bizarre doesn't begin to cover her behaviour, what if she had drowned your dog in the bath?
    You could try talking to her and tell her that you find her behaviour unacceptable to say the least - is your dog scared of her? They are normally good judges of character. If she thinks her behaviour is normal then she could have mental health issues ( or could simply be a nasty piece of work).
    It all depends whether you intend to sleep with one eye open for the rest of your life - you can't possibly trust her?
    "There is a light that never goes out"
  • searching_me
    searching_me Posts: 18,414 Forumite
    i give up... op if your fake then jog on if not leave before she kills you and your dog and eats you for dinner either way im done
    :)Still searching .....:)
  • Well I hope it is a joke, but just (free advice only being worth what you pay for it).
    Personal safety is no joke - and in the circumstances described you need to seek advice from the Police and a doctor ASAP (I think you know this anyway). Legal matters can wait until you have sorted that out.
    Are we talking drugs or drink here? It doesn't really matter, as the first call has to be safety. Please don't leave your dog alone with this lady if you think there is a chance of it getting hurt - that’s being irresponsible.
  • I am with dmg he is a troll, as simple as!!! His story is too far fetched and frankly bordering on insane.
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