Abuse or Not?

dmg24

russboy wrote: »

It's not as eay as just kicking this lady out as I rather stupidly have put her on my mortgage. Something that I am begginning to regret.

Most of the time she seems and acts normal then she will do something really bizarre, like eating a full jar of branston pickle with a spoon.....something I am not used to wittnessing.

She is quite young and I am thinking this maybe just excentric behaviour...Like tonight when I arrived home she was in the bath with my dog !!!!!....He is a cute little yorkshire terrior....who looked petrified.....My ladyfriend again just laughed and said he needed his paws cleaning.

Any comments welcome.

People please don't waste your time giving concern to this idiot!

Cleaver

Comic genius!

Fran

Good story (well sort of) but surely you speak to her? There's no mention of either of you talking.

russboy_2

dmg24 wrote: »

People please don't waste your time giving concern to this idiot!

Thanks for your comments...However I would rather welcome constructive comments than mean ones like yours. This has been very difficult for me to post this.

searching_me

look mate its seems very clear what you have to do... if not for then for your dog dont know what legals you have to sort out but she is bad news and i wouldnt be suprised if you turned up in the paper notifing your whole family and friends that she suffericated you or worse... ditch her now before she has her claws in anything else x

sweetstudent

If this op is not "yanking our chains" then i would get out of the relationship asap, technically i suppose he could always involve legal action???? if his partner is not contributing towards the mortgage then the courts may look more favorably towards him, however this is just speculation.

searching_me

dmg24 if a female had put this would you still be posting the same

dmg24

searching_me wrote: »

dmg24 if a female had put this would you still be posting the same

Yes, absolutely. I have seen more than one man go through abuse. I find it sick that someone would make a joke out of such a subject.

krystal-divination

you know i read these posts and these ones of emotional trauma and marriage problems seem to be from newbies with only a couple of post and i just read and not comment, then in time it comes out its possibly a fake post.

i wonder how someone new can open up so much or is that easier for them ?

i hope these posts are genuine as we have nice people on here to want to help, but then again sometimes i hope they are fake as these problems are so dreadfull.

if you are genuine you know what to do, think of yourself and your safety.

searching_me

how do you know its a joke.... do you know this person this is meant to be a place of no judgement... i find you very rude if you dont like this post then dont read or post on ... simply move on to the next and let someone else answer