*Daily chat thread 1st Jan 2009 ** HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL

System

spud30 wrote: »

Not yet....why, am I doing drunken typo's already

Yes I once downed a bottle of Port

Snaggles

spud30 wrote: »

Snaggles, when he was 'ill' last time, have you since found out he wasnt ill? I dont think I was around when that happened, so not sure what went on, sorry

Tell me to eff off and mid me beeswax if too private

No, it's not too private - but will PM you because it's a bit too in depth to be posted on here - basically he 'needed space' last time, although he was also ill.

spud30

lennymfo wrote: »

Yes I once downed a bottle of Port

I took a glass to bed last night, with a chunk of stilton.....yummmmmmm

Snaggles

lennymfo wrote: »

Ok can I say at least then he isnt dumping you. Or perhaps he is gonna suprise you? x

If he has lied and gone out with his mates, he wont NEED to dump me, believe me!

(and no to the surprise - we both HATE that sort of surprise so it's not his style)

sammy115

Snaggles wrote: »

No, it's not too private - but will PM you because it's a bit too in depth to be posted on here - basically he 'needed space' last time, although he was also ill.

Snags...apologies too...if this comes across as harsh, do you think it is too soon after the breakup for him....i am not sure I could be so cruel as to leave someone alone on New Years Eve....

I think I might delete this it sounds harsh.....

Burlesque_Babe

I'm suddenly feeling very 'odd'

I feel as if I want to cry, but at the same time feel scared about the future....my weight, my unravelling financial situation, my relationship.....

the awful thing is, and this is hard to describe, it's as if I've lost the ability to cry these days. I get to the point of 'explosion' but the tears won't properly happen......I have no idea why. i've just eaten 3 wagon wheels, all one after each other and could probably eat the rest of the packet.

System

sammy115 wrote: »

Same as me toto, I like my tea and coffee too. I am the same size now as when I had Chloe:eek: and I can't go on like this....especially as my brain refuses to accept the weight gain and still buys clothes in the old size....

My Dad went on the Cambridge diet about 12 years ago and lost about 6 stone and he has kept it off ever since but he looks after himself now. He had a heart valve problem which may have been associated with his weight prior to the Cambridge Diet, but I know there was some controversy surrounding it wasnt there. Diets, I dont know, I need to go on one but I know the best diet is Willpower, I aint got it. Diets are a short term solution to what should be a long term self perpetuating goal. I think SW is the best if you can be arsed to cook everything. I think with weight you have to find a weight that YOU are comfortable with and if you are not comfortable with it then you have to ask yourself why you want to lose the weight, looks, finding another partner or for health reasons, choose which one it is and find someway of reminding yourself why you want to lose weight, imagine yourself at your IDEAL weight and go from there. You should be happy with the weight that makes YOU feel comfortable for the right reasons. Of course I practice none of that.

System

Snaggles wrote: »

If he has lied and gone out with his mates, he wont NEED to dump me, believe me!

(and no to the surprise - we both HATE that sort of surprise so it's not his style)

Ok, ask him outright then maybe? x

System

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

I'm suddenly feeling very 'odd'

I feel as if I want to cry, but at the same time feel scared about the future....my weight, my unravelling financial system, my relationship.....

the awful thing is, and this is hard to describe, it's as if I've lost the ability to cry these days. I get to the point of 'explosion' but the tears won't properly happen......I have no idea why.

Oh BB dont feel odd, i think we all have moments like this but something to repolarise us and put things into persepective. What do you think it is that has knocked you out of sync?

spud30

BB, it's the time of year for feeling like that hun. I think most of us are wary of what lies ahead for us in the new year, whatever our circumstances :grouphug: