*Daily chat thread 1st Jan 2009 ** HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL

System

Right Peeps Im off out to bring in the New Year. Happy New Year everyone, I will no doubt get online after midnight and I will strongly resist the urge to send you all inane drunken texts at stupid o clock in the morning ok. Mrs S I hope things turn out to be ok and he's not stringing you along and hopefully BB things may be a little clearer tomorrow. Love you all Lenny x x x

skint_spice

Snaggles wrote: »

When I'm with him I never doubt for a second that he loves me, so why do I doubt it so easily every time something like this happens?

Because you are in love and it still all seems like it can come crashing down around you. Just try to relax and enjoy it! it's the scary, exciting new bit!

Bunnyinthelights

Sammy,
I have done Cambridge-lost just under 4 stone and promptly put it all on again-I know it works, and am seriously considering doing it again-but I don't know if it's honestly the solution. I know that sounds a s s backwards, it is but I will chat with you on Sat. And I know to do Sole Source your BMI needs to be certain percentage of which I am SURE yours is not.

There is a few different programs you can do...


Snags-I am at a loss at what to say my sweets. Give him the benefit of the doubt I guess.

I've jst ordered a chinese for tonight and the kids both fell asleep on the drive home from my friends so will be up with us tonight for a while-which is nice actually.


So, before I get drunk, let me say, I love you all. Thank you for standing by me throughout this horrific year. To my very special posse-(you know who you are) what can I say? Without you, my life wouldnt be the same. xxx

boredofbeingathome

Hellooo, just bobbing in to wish everyone a Happy New Year/birthdays for those lovely peeps whose birthday it is.

Just had to say Len you really are profound and lovely the way you have a nice take on things. I for one may actually be awake when you send your drunken messages, although it took me a few mins to get my head around the singstar ones.

Am off on the razz myself tonight will have to wrap up warm.

Have a good one!

Bob x

Pooky

Serial lurker here but just felt the need to pop in and say....

BB - I've read your posts for a while now, you've really grown in strength with your job and the teaching, you tackle so much work and emotion wise that you astound me. (You also seem to put up with alot of carp which you have your reasons for I'm sure)

If your OH doesn't want to go out tonight then don't pander to his whims and sit with him - do what you want - if he doesn't like it then what's he going to do about it? Fall asleep in front of the telly? Ah well - at least you'll get some peace.

As for the diet - if you're not ready to start it - don't.....if you know it's going to fail then wait until you're in a better place then think about it.

Life is far to short to put so many pressures on yourself, you seem like a fantastic, bubbly person and you really should think about the positives of the past year rather than already doubting the achievments of the year to come.


And Snaggles....I did the long distance - meet online thing - I was worried sick as you are everytime he didn't show/didn't phone/text and one day took the bull by the horns and told him exactly how I felt and told him straight that I needed the reassurance so if I rang and asked about something - it wasn't me being naggy/clingy, it was just me being me. I to, had 2 small kids to deal with and didn't want to be wasting time, effort and emotion. (we've now been married 7 years so it does work)

Hope you all have a fab new year.

Back to lurking

Snaggles

skint_spice wrote: »

Because you are in love and it still all seems like it can come crashing down around you. Just try to relax and enjoy it! it's the scary, exciting new bit!

I will do - he says he is going to come up tomorrow instead so I suppose we will see. Thanks hun x

whatatwit

Happy New Year, Lenny....have a great evening.

Bunnyinthelights

I would also like to raise a glass to absent friends-missed and thought of often-please feel free to add to the list...

Dear Wellar
Pap
Smashedbooboo
Marky

Cheers and here's hoping 2009 is a Happy one x

skint_spice

mmm...I have to go get ready to go out in a bit. any tips on what works well with a bright red nose????

spud30

Well, I cant think of anywhere I'd rather spend New Years Eve, than here with you lot

We're staying in, with a curry takeaway from Tesco, and no doubt many alcoholic beverages :beer:

So I'll say it now, before I get very drunk and lose the ability to spell. I love you all, I dont know what I would do without you and I cant wait to meet some of you for real in 2009 :T

May 2009 bring us all everything we hope and wish for (a lottery win would be nice ehh )