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**Daily Chat Thread Mon 21 Dec 08**

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  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Bunnyinthelights wrote: »
    I think I am truly one of the most high maintenance women I know-is it normal to seek constant reassurance?

    You sound just like me :o
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • System
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    Afternoon all, did some mention forum lesbian loving? If so I would like to volunteer :D Hey young fella is ok, doc reckons it is a post viral rash and he should get better as the week goes on. Hey Bunny, at least your getting some :D
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  • System
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    I am very low maintenance :D
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  • System
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    Oh and we had a great train ride too; all 4 minutes of it lol
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  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    Afternoon all. :hello:
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Afternoon IA, how're you today hun?
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
    :smileyhea
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  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    It's very definitely a sign that your self esteem is low hunny. :grouphug:

    When I'm really lacking in confidence I do the same.....I also do that 'pushing him away to see if he comes back' thing, which isn't very nice at all.

    And the neediness makes people back away, which makes you needier still and even more in need of reassurance, so you push a bit harder, so they back away a bit more, and it becomes a vicious circle.

    If you work out how to break it, you WILL let me know, wont you. :o
    that sounds so much like me it's untrue.
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • Caroline73_2
    Caroline73_2 Posts: 2,654 Forumite
    Afternoon all.

    Don't you all love school holidays?!!!! Little one is still at preschool until tomorrow but he didn't want to go as his big brother is off school!

    Roll on Christmas Eve when hubby is home!

    Bunny and Snags - I have really low self confidence and always need reassurance, I have stopped 'testing people' though (the whole pushing away thing!) Hubby knows me better than I know myself and is fab at giving me reassurance when I need it before I notice it!
  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    Afternoon IA, how're you today hun?
    Getting on with it. I've been a miserable cow all weekend so going for the positive thinking approach and getting on with life.
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • Caroline73_2
    Caroline73_2 Posts: 2,654 Forumite
    immoral_angeluk wrote: »
    that sounds so much like me it's untrue.
    I suppose the answer is for you all to marry my hubby...I'll pop him on ebay when I've finished :rotfl:
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