Depression Support Thread

shazrobo

(((big hugs))) Rebekah, i know how hard it is spending new year alone, this is the first time in a long while since i have had someone to share it with, hopefully your partner will be back in time to see it in with you.
shaz xxx

absolutebounder

razorbladekisses wrote: »

I really can't believe it. My Mum has returned home because the man that she was with has left her. This is the second time she's had an affair and the second time she's come back. I can't even look at her, let alone speak to her. I feel so sorry for my Dad because I just think she will do it again at some point and she's told us so many lies it's difficult to know what to believe. It was only 2 weeks ago she got my Dad arrested for taking some of her CD's :mad: She's said and done so much to hurt us all I just can't bear to stay living at home if she's here. Money is a problem, I just don't have enough spare cash to move out. I don't know what to do maybe my social worker can advise.

Sorry to hear about your woofer and Mum too. still when you mum has a go at you for not being perfect you can now at least fight back by mentioning her faithfullness and pot plus kettle and black in the same sentence:D
At least you can get all the crap out of the way in 2008 almost guaranteeing 2009 will be a better year for you.

absolutebounder

shazrobo wrote: »

hi katie, how are you hun?
i'm ok today, was really down last night, after a so called friend, who i have known since infants, accused me of being a lazy cow (worse, but i won't repeat), and said my new years resolution, should be to get off my fat !!!! and look for a job, instead of living the life of luxury on benefits.
let me just say, it is not a luxury being on benefits, and i would dearly love to be able to work, if there was adequate childcare facilities for disabled kids.
rant over lol, sometimes helps me just gettign these things off my chest, hope nobody minds
hugs
shaz xxx

Offer to swap lives with her for a couple of days.

slowlyfading

Thanks for the support guys, its been really hard

(((HUGS))) to everyone who needs them xx

shazrobo

i'd like to thank everyone on this thread, for all their support this year, and sincerley hope 2009 is a better year for all of us
big hugs
shaz xxx

alba37

shazrobo wrote: »

hi katie, how are you hun?
i'm ok today, was really down last night, after a so called friend, who i have known since infants, accused me of being a lazy cow (worse, but i won't repeat), and said my new years resolution, should be to get off my fat !!!! and look for a job, instead of living the life of luxury on benefits.
let me just say, it is not a luxury being on benefits, and i would dearly love to be able to work, if there was adequate childcare facilities for disabled kids.
rant over lol, sometimes helps me just gettign these things off my chest, hope nobody minds
hugs
shaz xxx

I know, I come and go a bit Shaz, but when I'm not around here, you can text/call me anytime for a moan. Your friend is talking through a hole in her ar**. She's not walking in your shoes, and has not right to say those things to upset you. Every one of us would not want to live on benefits if we had a choice, but life is different for everyone, I know most of us would give our right arm to change the cards we've been dealt.

You take care, and do your best to ignore those ignorant comments. Hope you're night goes well,

A x

alba37

RebekahR wrote: »

Hmmm he claims he will be back before 12. We shall see ... I've had my tears and actually don't care. It's only another night right? I'll shove myself in the bath with a good book and then watch a film and get fat(ter) on chocolate.
Who am I kidding! Not not got any one close except my dad and I don't drive so wouldn't be able to get home.

Aw, keep your chin up Rebekah, he may well be home in time. It's just a shame he's upset you today already. It is only another night... and tomorrow is a New Year, and hopefully it'll be a good one for us all.

Take care

A x

alba37

Just want to wish everyone here a Happy & Healthy 2009. I hope it's a better year for us all.

A x x x

Tulip

Happy New Year to all on this thread

Many thanks for all the laughs and tears thoughout 2008,You all mean alot to me in so many ways,I thank you for being my friends as without you all I would feel so alone with noone to chat to. I hope 2009 will be a better year for everyone healthwise and long may the support continue.I thank you all for your support over 2008 through one thing or another.

Better go now as I am out at Mums and staying over to let the New Year in.chat in 2009!

TO QWB a special mention,I think of you always and hope all is well,Happy New Year to you

love your ray of sunshine and I always will be,

Katie xxx

alba37

Tulip wrote: »

Happy New Year to all on this thread

Many thanks for all the laughs and tears thoughout 2008,You all mean alot to me in so many ways,I thank you for being my friends as without you all I would feel so alone with noone to chat to. I hope 2009 will be a better year for everyone healthwise and long may the support continue.I thank you all for your support over 2008 through one thing or another.

Better go now as I am out at Mums and staying over to let the New Year in.chat in 2009!

TO QWB a special mention,I think of you always and hope all is well,Happy New Year to you

love your ray of sunshine and I always will be,

Katie xxx

Well said Katie! I hope your night goes well.

A x