My diary - My ups and downs

mum2one

Id report that bloke now to both ebay and contact paypal, as Im sure between ebay and paypal they can get ur funds released, he sounds a pervert and u shouldnt have to put up with it x

natsplatnat

Morning Smarties!!

Re the spreadsheet - it is different to the one on my diary. Its a bit simpler (I kind of borrowed some bits and made my own!)

I can email you a copy of mine if you like... Rags and Mum2one have had one.... Rags is using hers and Mum2one is going to have a look at the weekend - just PM me your email address!!

As for the pervey bloke I would get him to leave positive feedback and then shop him to ebay!!! What an oddball!!

smarties84

thanks guys, i am desperate for the money so won't report him till paypal release the money!!

I got my first payslip last month and thought i was been taxed to much but didnt say nething, i sent my p45 off the other day and got my second wage slip today and got paid even less than last month - i rang the wages dept and i am on the emergency tax code. I didn't get enuf money for my loans and rent and council tax etc that are due out this week. I have no free space on cc and the bank wont up my overdraft and i cannot possibly ask mum and dad for ne more. My fella has given me all he can but i am still short by about £200. I dont want to miss ne payments and i have no idea how i can get the money. i just feel soooo down, because its the end of tax year next month my wage dept said they cannot refund me and i have to wait till i get my p60 at the end of april and send of forms etc...god nos when ill get it, i am having lots of other problems in my life and i think i am depressed.... its so hard.... sorry to sound so sorry for myself. its my week off next week and i literally dont have £1 to take my daughter out, i cud cry. xxxx

mum2one

Its a long shot be re ur outgoings loan, credit cards etc, try ringing them explaining the situation and that due to circumstances beyond ur control ur payment may be not asmuch as expected, can u cover the minimum or is the £200 shortfall included as the mminimum.
Your main is rent, this months free of council tax, may help.
If u ring and say what the problem is Im surethat many of them would be able ot help xx

ragstoricheswannabe

Happy mothers day hun!!!!!! xx

natsplatnat

Hi Smarties - sorry, not been around as much of late - works too busy!!

I hope you are feeling more positive now?

If I don't catch you before, I wish you and your family a lovely Easter weekend.

Nats x

smarties84

Thanks Nat, you 2

I haven't been on for ages, i am sorry guys....things have gone t1ts up really. I am still getting paid emergency tax and i think i will again on my next pay day. My mum has had to lend me some money, i have maxed out my credit cards and they are over there limit and i haven't got ne money to get them back below it. I have to pay littlewoods £85 by the 14th, don't have the money....its my dads birthday on the 15th and i have no money to get him owt, i cud go on and on.....

Also i have had major or still have it headaches, dizziness, general fuzzy feeling in my head and i don't no why, sort of how i felt when i was pregnant, dp said do a test if i'm worried, i am worried but ain't doing a test!!! I cannot afford to pay the bills/debts i have now, imagine if i was pregnant, it doesn't bear thinking about.

So shall hopefully somehow get out of this deep hole, but i have no idea how!!!!

ragstoricheswannabe

Hey hun, first of all, BIG HUGS!!!!!!!!!!

secondly, ring the tax people on tues to try and get it sorted. may be quicker than someone at work doing it.

Thirdly, do a test!!!!!!!!! you may be worrying about being pregnant for no reason. This way you can be sure of the results before you worry. It may just be down to stress..........................

fourthly, im sure your dad will understand a late pressie/homemade cake or something if you explain that work keep messing your wage up with the tax, everyone knows emergancy tax is ridiculous amount!!!!!

keep smiling hun, everything happens for a reason, what doesnt kill us makes us stronger.

love rags
xxxxxx

smarties84

Thanks Rags, i went to the tax office in person and they were so not helpful - just said i have to write a letter requesting my tax back along with my p60 when i get it. I will be taking it in personally when i do get it tho.

Feel abit better today, i think its a virus or something. If i carry on feeling pants i'll have to do a test. Yes dad knows i have no money and told me not to get him nething, but i will get him something - i get my tax credits on Wed!!!!

I have borrowed £85 from my dp's credit card for littlewoods, i know its off one credit to another but i shall have to give him it back in the next couple of weeks. I am in a realy bad mood tonight with one thing and another.

Happy Easter everyone xxxx

mummy2mygirls

oh sorry you are having a hard time at the moe!! I really hope they sort out your tax soon - its not fair on you.
As for the test - im sure what ever happens it will be fine and you would cope if it was that you are pregnant!
hope things turn around for you soon and the debts will settle down soon.
xx