DFW Chat 26 November

Burlesque_Babe

Morning all!

Just munching on some oats and golden syrup and then off to work.

Hope everyone has a good one.

schoolrunmum

Today,I shall be mainly worrying about my husband who is stuck in Bangkok. He's BA crew and should have gone to Sydney already but all flts canx.....oh, and having a piano lesson, making an advent wreath for DDs school, smashing the mole hills the little bu**ers have made in the garden, and catching up on ironing....have a good day all.....SRM x

sallyx

Morning BB
SRM I hope your DH is ok, have been watching the news this morning and it looks awful. Have fun taking your frustration out on the moles!

Busy day here for me again today. Off for a 6 mile run in a mo once I have dropped DD at pre-school. Have just been reminded that its 5 months today until the marathon ahhhhhhh.
DD has ballet this afternoon then need to tidy this pigsty of a house up again!

System

Morning everyone. Its a bit dull down here. SRM - will hubby be in a hotel? If so at least he will be comfortable I suppose.

Lucifa73

Morning all :hello:

Not much to report up here. Payday today:j and I'm loving my post payrise salary:D . Need to set aside Xmas money and b'day present money and get shopping.

Also counting the hours until I'm off - 30 hours and 40 mins to go...:p - and then no more work until Wednesday next week :T

E-bay_queen

Morning all,
Really dull and cold this morning. Been up most of the night thinking,
Was talking to my hubby last night & i thinking bout doing a course in book keeping to get myself a careen path. But all i get from him neg things bout it. It like he dont want me to better myself. I change the subject this morning at breakfast bout maybe i just take a hobbie up like dress making something i would love to give it ago. But then again all neg things to say bout it.

I feeling bit like i going alone and he dont want to help me one bit

Lucifa73

E-bay_queen wrote: »

Morning all,
Really dull and cold this morning. Been up most of the night thinking,
Was talking to my hubby last night & i thinking bout doing a course in book keeping to get myself a careen path. But all i get from him neg things bout it. It like he dont want me to better myself. I change the subject this morning at breakfast bout maybe i just take a hobbie up like dress making something i would love to give it ago. But then again all neg things to say bout it.

I feeling bit like i going alone and he dont want to help me one bit

:grouphug: - have you told him how his comments make you feel?

E-bay_queen

Yeah he know how i feel, I said last night all this neg feeling making me feel so low and not worth anything then he just walk away Why is he being like that?? anyone lol

Sometimes i think it wrong to have dreams cos i feel like that at moment.

Lucifa73

E-bay_queen wrote: »

Yeah he know how i feel, I said last night all this neg feeling making me feel so low and not worth anything then he just walk away Why is he being like that?? anyone lol

Sometimes i think it wrong to have dreams cos i feel like that at moment.

Aw hun. Maybe he walked away because he doesn't know how to make you feel better and he can't cope with that.

If I were you I would do a bit more research about the things you are interested in doing and present him with a plan. Blokes tend to be better if something is presented as a plan or problem than an abstract 'what if'. Plus if he can see you're keen enough to follow up on things he might be more supportive.

Also, actually getting out there and doing something positive towards making your dreams happen can make you feel more positive about yourself and lift you out of the blues and will also let you see how realistic your ambitions actually are.

Good luck
Luc xxx

System

Hi ebay queen, he should be encouraging you. Maybe he's got insecurities?? (Dont mean that to sound horrible btw)

binty

Morning all!!

Hpe everyone is having a reasonably good day. I'm not up to much, work later, but aiming for 3rd NSD in a row