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In for a penny in for a pound! My diary.

Hello all. Had my lightbulb moment on the 29th October and here I am, a little overwhelmed, a bit scared, feeling a bit foolish, but with an over riding feeling of "Bring it on!"

I have been working part time for last couple of years, kidding myself that I was affording to do that, but every month slipping a little deeper into debt. I am a single mum, to one son aged 7....who has hollow legs!, a dog, cat and rabbit.

At the moment my figures are a good guesstimate and as new statements come in I will update.

I start a new job on Wednesday, but will not get this new pay until end of Dec! I will post my SOA soon but am unsure what my income will be as tax credits etc will all change.

Ok enough rambling for now. Any encouragement, brutal (ish) truths or advice will be warmly welcomed.
:o
LBM 10/08 £12510.74/
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  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,463 Forumite
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    Hello and welcome :hello: Please do try and post an soa, even if it is a temporary one for now, we love a new soa on here and can get cracking on trying to help you save some pennies straight away ;):D Good luck with your journey :D:D
    Mortgage Total: £49,992/ £75,000
    2026 Mortgage Overpayments Pot £579
  • Nomad25
    Nomad25 Posts: 1,995 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Welcome payback. Here's the SOA link:

    http://www.makesenseofcards.com/soacalc.html

    To get any constructive input, it would help if you complete [it can always be updated] and post.
  • :wave: Hello and welcome to the board. You certainly will get lots of help and support from the good peeps on this board and I wish you all the best in your quest for becoming debt free. Good luck!
    When you were born, you were crying and everyone around was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying! :rotfl:
  • That soa is very 'rough' and using figures for part time work which is what is the current state of affairs!
    LBM 10/08 £12510.74/
  • Nomad25
    Nomad25 Posts: 1,995 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Now your'e up and running, I'll check back later and bump you if need be.
  • font=courier new]Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 900
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 0
    Benefits................................ 300
    Other income............................ 108
    Total monthly income.................... 1308


    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 370
    Secured loan repayments................. 0
    Rent.................................... 0
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 82
    Electricity............................. 40
    Gas..................................... 25
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 35.68
    Telephone (land line)................... 0
    Mobile phone............................ 45
    TV Licence.............................. 11.61
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 0
    Internet Services....................... 38.24
    Groceries etc. ......................... 320
    Clothing................................ 20
    Petrol/diesel........................... 60
    Road tax................................ 15
    Car Insurance........................... 20
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 20
    Car parking............................. 0
    Other travel............................ 0
    Childcare/nursery....................... 80
    Other child related expenses............ 5
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 0
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 10
    Buildings insurance..................... 41
    Contents insurance...................... 0
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 0
    Haircuts................................ 0
    Entertainment........................... 0
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 0
    Total monthly expenses.................. 1238.53


    Assets
    Cash.................................... 1500
    House value (Gross)..................... 145000
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 2500
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 149000


    Secured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Mortgage...................... 88000....(370)......0
    Total secured debts........... 88000.....-.........-


    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    virgin.........................6000......30........0
    barclaycard....................1500......30........0
    halifax........................1500......30........0
    barclays od....................1300......0.........0
    halifax od.....................1600......0.........0
    Total unsecured debts..........11900.....90........-


    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 1,308
    Expenses (including secured debts)....... 1,238.53
    Available for debt repayments........... 69.47
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 90
    Surplus(deficit if negative)............ -20.53


    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 149,000
    Total Secured debt...................... -88,000
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -11,900
    Net Assets.............................. 49,100


    Created using the SOA calculator at https://www.makesenseofcards.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission.
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    ======== Enter any other useful information below ========

    e.g. the number of adults & children in the household, the number

    of cars included in the SOA or anything else that may be useful
    LBM 10/08 £12510.74/
  • Add to that £120 on cigarettes a month....yes i know i know i know!!!
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  • jenjade
    jenjade Posts: 8,418 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    your grocerys are very high and your home insurance seems a bit dear to me.
    me and my daugher shopping for food including household cleaning, cosmetics, shampoo etc comes to about £170 a month and i knew that is still a little high. so maybe you could look at reducing that?
    shop around for home insurance
    :j Proud mum to Jade age 10 years and Baby Ellie born Christmas Day:eek: with a broke heart :( Proven to be a little fighter and battling on with her heart condition :j
  • scaredy_cat
    scaredy_cat Posts: 7,758 Forumite
    the first thing which is very high is your groceries! Try to cut that down to about £200-£250! There are some people here with 3+ in their family only spending £200. The Money Saving Old Style board has lots of tips and advice.

    Also the smoking - that is almost equal to my grocery budget.

    Edit: jenjade types quicker then me!! lol.. i think to cut your grocery budget gradually you won't find it so hard!
    Cats don't have owners - they have staff!! :D:p
    DFW Long Hauler Supporter No 150


  • Prudent
    Prudent Posts: 11,697 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    I am afraid I agree with the groceries comments too. I feed two people and two cats a lot less. Amounts for last two months are in my signature.

    Internet is also high - I pay £9.99 a month for broadband.
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