PPI Reclaiming discussion Part III

dreamer33

di3004 wrote: »

Its just not fair is it?
They should have really checked first to see if your eligible, like almost all of them, they do not do that.......:mad: .

I hate comments from them like "it was your responsibility" and so on where I made comments back to tell them it was their responsibility to make sure that I the product was suitable for me before I signed, as you are the sales person and so on!!!

When I first called the broker that sold it to us to complain because he did not explain penalties or anything else, (we only found out because we were going to move and expected the settlement figure to be less) he turned around and said "i'm not a mind reader, did you tell me you were going to move" his whole attitude was totally different, before he was our best friend, urghhhhhhhh:mad: Con man comes to mind, I can send my letter to you if you wish to read it

marshallka

di3004 wrote: »

Lol, my routine with me here is that I am normally out of bed by 6 or 7 am, I have to get up early to give myself time to get motivated, then its making sure my youngest especially is dealt with as the older one is old enough to deal with himself lol. I tend to get the washing machine on as soon as I get out of my shower, then have brekkie, about 3 cuppa's lol......:D , making sure my son is fed washed and dressed properly.
While hubby is home he has been pretty handy, when he returns to work I may not have time to post so much on here.

I pop off in between in the day to sort out dinner, then the cleaning gets done, then back on here and so on.
I make sure my son is occupied too.;)

Honestly Di, if anyone looked at my times of posts they would swear I was neglecting my family... I do all that too but they are able to do these for themselves... I just do it as a mother and feel I have to...LOL and with my older son of 21 too. I just love being mum... I miss it lots at the moment but really cannot settle. I want to get back to being me.. I want my house secured again and then maybe i can think of other things..I am spending too much time on here and not enough time doing the things i SHOULD be doing.

I don't want the money back for anything else other than to pay some off the mortgage so we can afford to pay the mortgage...

dreamer33

marshallka wrote: »

Honestly Di, if anyone looked at my times of posts they would swear I was neglecting my family... I do all that too but they are able to do these for themselves... I just do it as a mother and feel I have to...LOL and with my older son of 21 too. I just love being mum... I miss it lots at the moment but really cannot settle. I want to get back to being me.. I want my house secured again and then maybe i can think of other things..I am spending too much time on here and not enough time doing the things i SHOULD be doing.

I don't want the money back for anything else other than to pay some off the mortgage so we can afford to pay the mortgage...

Would you like to see my letter too marshallka see what you think, eveytime I read it I'm impressed, I am also aware it might not go anywhere, got to keep my feet on the ground

di3004

marshallka wrote: »

Sounds like you would miss your hubby then when he goes back to work maybe... if he helps out lots now..

Yes I will miss him, but I will have to get used to it again......I suppose.:o
To be honest I know he has been a good help here but the sooner he goes back to work the better really.;)

di3004

dreamer33 wrote: »

When I first called the broker that sold it to us to complain because he did not explain penalties or anything else, (we only found out because we were going to move and expected the settlement figure to be less) he turned around and said "i'm not a mind reader, did you tell me you were going to move" his whole attitude was totally different, before he was our best friend, urghhhhhhhh:mad: Con man comes to mind, I can send my letter to you if you wish to read it

OMG.......:eek: , what a con man, he just wanted to fill his pockets and it was all for his own ends with no interest of his customers.....:mad: , so you still have that letter then do you hun?

marshallka

dreamer33 wrote: »

Would you like to see my letter too marshallka see what you think, eveytime I read it I'm impressed, I am also aware it might not go anywhere, got to keep my feet on the ground

Yeah, show it us dreamer, have to post it now though as need some shut eye... get it posted

dreamer33

di3004 wrote: »

Yes I will miss him, but I will have to get used to it again......I suppose.:o
To be honest I know he has been a good help here but the sooner he goes back to work the better really.;)

It will be good for him too.

dreamer33

marshallka wrote: »

Yeah, show it us dreamer, have to post it now though as need some shut eye... get it posted

Gonna pm it if thats okay

marshallka

di3004 wrote: »

Yes I will miss him, but I will have to get used to it again......I suppose.:o
To be honest I know he has been a good help here but the sooner he goes back to work the better really.;)

It will be better for him too...

di3004

marshallka wrote: »

Honestly Di, if anyone looked at my times of posts they would swear I was neglecting my family... I do all that too but they are able to do these for themselves... I just do it as a mother and feel I have to...LOL and with my older son of 21 too. I just love being mum... I miss it lots at the moment but really cannot settle. I want to get back to being me.. I want my house secured again and then maybe i can think of other things..I am spending too much time on here and not enough time doing the things i SHOULD be doing.

I don't want the money back for anything else other than to pay some off the mortgage so we can afford to pay the mortgage...

I know your a very busy bee hunni, between trying to fit in with family and getting your finances sorted out, this is why I'm trying to make the most of it while I can.
I love being Mum, but I know sometimes my youngest tells me to leave him alone as I am babying him........:eek: , so it will do him good to have a little independence, although he us not to be left alone sort of thing, he fused the electrics out at one point as he was angry, we are all lucky to still be here, he was trying to yank the plug in socket off his bedroom wall, he does not understand the dangers as such...... , so as much as I adore my kids like we all do, if you have things to sort out, you do not settle until its resolved, its so hard to relax........:rolleyes: