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Weekly Flylady Thread 27th October 2008

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  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    It's a tricky subject Valli. I'm sure if assisted suicide was made legal there would be people who would try and abuse it. I do think this woman's husband should be able to help her without fear of prison though. It's quite clear it's what she wants.

    My Mum suffered with Huntingtons disease and watching her suffer and change from the lovely Mum we all knew into a shadow of her former self was heartbreaking. She died at 52 of cancer so didn't become as bad as she could have. Had assisted suicide been legal and had that been her wish i think we would have helped her.

    When do you decide though? You would have to be sound of mind, what if you changed your mind? I really don't know if it should be legal or not.
  • nicki_2
    nicki_2 Posts: 7,321 Forumite
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    Just checking in before I head for a hot bubble bath and bed :D

    I managed to survive the afternoon, somehow, and then I got my "second wind" as ex says and when I got home I blitzed the house with DD :D:rotfl: I don't know what happened, I just went for it!

    Also had an Asda shop but next time I'm getting it delivered during the day when I'm off. I had problems with this order as well, 2 items missing (multi-pack of biscuits so DD is not going to be impressed and a packet of batteries where they managed to put one of two in :rolleyes:), and lots of substitutions (some much better though, like proper creamy butter when I ordered Willow :D ) but worst off was a bottle of Dettol multi-purpose (which was a substitute) had leaked over some of the shopping. :rolleyes: Refunded on the spot for that and the bottle of fabric conditioner that had also leaked. :T Checked the order, rang up and complained politely and got £7+ refunded, again :j I haven't had problems on orders I've had delivered during the day (except for one which they rectified immediately before I'd even unpacked and realised the error!) but the past 2 evening ones I've had have been missing items or the items have been damaged :rolleyes: Ah well. At least I now have a full cupboard x3, fridge/freezer, and stuff stashed as well :o It included this weeks shop so apart from picking up the couple of missing items on Friday on the way home from dropping my time sheet in, I'm done :D

    So whats left on my list
    • Thursday - Placement. DD NEEDS TO PACK
    • Friday - DD OWN CLOTHES for school (needs a tin for Xmas sale) Time sheet in, Poundland, Asda DD AWAY 4pmish
    • Other
      • Scanning of pics for 6B
      • Autobiography for 6D
      • OU - T175
        • Block 1
        • TMA 01 (CUT OFF NOW NOV 6th)
      • Sewing repairs/adjustments
      • Check DD's Xmas hamper (double check catalogue orders for items to arrive from Avon & Brownies)
      • NVQ
        • Unit 001
        • read through paperwork from last week & complete

    Monday Marvels- Kitchen and Dining Room
    Level Two
    mop floors
    Level Three
    Clean cupboard door fronts and fronts of appliances .. don't forget those kick boards..
    Extra Mission : help yourself
    1. 37 fling boogie..
    2. Empty the bin.. wash it out.. and make it smell SWEET
    3. CLEAN WINDOW & DOUBLE GLAZE
    4. DEMOULD
    5. CLEAN WM DRAWER
    Tremendous Tuesday - the Land of Spare Oom and the Kids Room of Doom!!
    Level Two
    Change the bed sheets.. and the duvet cover if it needs it. PUT QUILT UNDER BOTTOM SHEET
    Wipe the paintwork.. skirtings door frames etc ...
    Level Three
    Wash the windows
    Extras!!! - 'cos I know you did all that lot super-duper fast!
    1. Finish any homework ready for back to school next week!
    2. One for mum... or older offspring.. HHI... :T
    3. DOUBLE GLAZEFILM THE WINDOWS
    4. CHANGE CURTAINS
    Wonderous Wednesday - bathroom, study, pc room, loo
    Level One
    Empty bins and clean them out
    Level Two
    Wash windows
    Wipe over the paintwork
    Level Three
    Wash mats, curtains etc that need doing
    Extras - You know you want to!
    1. Delete 10 dead links from your favourites
    2. Sort out coats and shoes.. and bags.. and brollies.. *FLING*
    3. BACK UP COMPUTER
    4. DEMOULD BATHROOM
    5. DOUBLE GLAZEFILM WINDOWS
    Thursday Thrills - Master bedroom and landing
    Level Two
    Wash the windows
    Level Three
    Clear out one cupboard/wardrobe that needs it
    Extras - Pick a few!
    1. Wash any curtains/duvets/cushions that need doing!
    2. CHECK FOR MOULD
    3. CLEAR OUT AIRING CUPBOARD
    Right, that bath is calling me. Yes I know its late - but I need a bath to relax me.

    Goodnight all :wave:
    Creeping back in for accountability after falling off the wagon in 2016.
    Need to get back to old style in modern ways, watching the pennies and getting stuff done!
  • kazmeister
    kazmeister Posts: 3,338 Forumite
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    Evening all you lovely ladies

    Am not doing well at the mo as I miss you peeps and just cannot keep up with the thread so lost all motivation this week (again!!!) Have managed to read the first 8 or 9 pages of the thread which is appalling so havent got a clue whats happening altho I did see the piccy of the meet and wish I could have gone. Someone mentioned a meet in the summer hols next year, what about somewhere like Alton Towers, plenty of space and lots to do?

    I have my DS (krewmate and my rock) away on his school trip to Italy at the moment and have not heard from him since he went on Saturday so I'm a bit down in the mouth but know he's OK as no news is good news.

    Had a good day shopping yesterday with DD, we didnt argue once which was a miracle and she came home with a few treats for being good. Spent far too much money in Lush altho some of it was Christmas presents and now realise I must seriously be an addict as have spent the best part of £400 on it this year and only about £100 is presents. Tell me - why do i have to collect it and why do I just open the boxes, smell it and put them away again. This is not normal !!! Thank goodness the nearest shops ar 35 - 40 miles away.

    OH and I have spent about 3 days reentering our spends on the computer as managed to get different versions on the laptop and the PC and he'd been updating one and me the other so had to back track about 3 weeks. Hopefully all OK now and back on track.

    We didnt get DD's room finished at the weekend so thats still a big challenge altho we do have bags in the process for charity/recycling/rubbish and keeps. The keeps has next to nothing in it!!!

    Right best go and get the tea things loaded in the dishwasher :o and get an early night !!!

    I will try and catch up better soon with both flying and thread

    Lotsa love to all

    Kaz
    Mortgage, we're getting there with the end in sight £6587 07/23, otherwise free of the debt thanks to MSE help!
  • Evening all, well nearly morning but never mind, struggled with the list today spent time with sis and clearing up after her little one when they left
    .
    Have scanned the list and want to send hugs to those ill or injured, and there are lots who need a hug!! Must be the weather (as dad says) so big hug, hot waterbottle and a lemsip or something stronger if needed:Dto all and a hug for spotty poppy!

    Well have got some stuff done today:
    Washing off line and on airer in front of burner as was still wet and freezing cold-it's bitter out there.
    DH's packed lunch made.
    Gloves/hats/scarves washed and sorted for keep/chuck
    Downstairs hoovered
    Charity stuff collected
    PC desk tidied
    As for tomorrows list have done a few things already but my bedroom carpet is screaming out for the hoover:eek:
    Thursday Thrills - Master bedroom and landing

    Level One
    [strike]Remove wash and replace with clean the bedsheets and duvet cover[/strike]just done
    Open the window and let in some fresh air! no chance it's freezing
    Level Two
    [strike]Clear the floor of clutter.. the landing too![/strike]
    Wash the windows
    [strike]15 minutes floordrobe clearance[/strike]
    Level Three
    [strike]Clear out one cupboard/wardrobe that needs it[/strike]
    Turn and vacuum the mattress will next time I do the sheets(takes 2 it's a super king and I cant lift it;))
    Dust all those spider webs away.. I don't care if they are your halloween decorations!
    Extras - Pick a few!
    1. [strike]Fill a binbag for charity shop![/strike]have filled 2
    2. Find 5 things to ebay
    3. List those 5 things on ebay.. no escape this time!
    4. Wash any curtains/duvets/cushions that need doing!


    My M.A.C.A.W challenge this week is..............
    ..Stick to 20 points a day
    WW lost 33 lbs so far, [strike]13st1lb[/strike] [strike]12st13lbs[/strike] [STRIKE]11st12.5lbs[/STRIKE] 11st11lbs
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,582 Forumite
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    Just to reiterate and reinforce Kaz
    That's a definite - no news IS good news...because I know what it's like to worry.

    Much as my 2 drive me mad I start fretting if they are home late form their Dad's - and they so often are.
    he doesn't seem to realise I wouuld worry. He lives 10 mins drive away so after 10 mins late I begin to fret - even if they DO drive me mad when they are here...and I got my solicitor to write to complain about his erratic timekeeping...to almost no avail...
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,582 Forumite
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    Right I am off to put washer on. Though I haven't done much the washing and ironing are up to date ***glow***and the house is not bad at all and can cope with a modicum of neglect
    Gotta feeling Triker will like that word
    modicum
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,582 Forumite
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    Oh and I have been to a food tasting and earned a sneaky £5 so a boost to the bathroom fund there...
    and it STILL hurts despite anaesthetic

    (Nottage Hill :wink:)
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    galantvr4 wrote: »


    My M.A.C.A.W challenge this week is..............
    ..Stick to 20 points a day


    When i first read that i thought it said 20 pints:eek: :eek: :rolleyes: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,582 Forumite
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    One track mind?:rolleyes:
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,582 Forumite
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    off to my pit with my aching face now...
    I wish I had a fluffy hotty botty or a warm Poppy Puppy...
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
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