The Compers Inn - Part 8

easter65

Flick, I'm not gonna give advice...After all I think people do what they want in the end...All I'll say is..." It'll end in tears "
I wouldn't even entertain someone singing to me while is GF is in the audience...Sorry but he sounds a Jerk..

At the moment no ones hearts been broken...If you let anything happen someone's heart will be;)

James240

Happy_shopper wrote: »

Afternoon, James. Are you going to be our resident agony uncle and offer a male perspective on Flickering Ember's dilemma? (I'm assuming that everyone else who's offered advice is female...)

fill me in whats the situation :think: havent read through the back pages as im at work and near the end of me lunch break

Happy_shopper

James240 wrote: »

fill me in whats the situation :think: havent read through the back pages as im at work and near the end of me lunch break

The quickest way to fill you in - read post #2107 on p.106.

ThinkingOfLinking

Easter, he doesn't sing to me when his GF is there. We don't do any of that when she's there. I wouldn't want to rub her nose in it.

James240

Flickering_Ember wrote: »

OK gert, and everyone. I would love some answers here. Firstly, nothing has happened physically with this man who I am going to talk about, other than the hug I'll explain later.

Going back to the summer, I'd nipped into a venue he was playing at to quickly ask a mate who worked there a question. I then left and when I came back later, I saw the man who'd been on stage, on the stairs, and he'd noticed me dash in and out. It was one of those instant moments and he began, not in an arrogant way but trying to impress me, telling me the songs he can perform etc and promising me a favourite of mine (not saying which!)

I came the next week and he dedicated that song to me and smiled lots and I decided to tell him I am interested, something I've never done before. He seemed thrilled and said he is "flattered to f**k" although he did tell me he is taken.

There was this nasty girl at the venue a lot over the next few weeks, who began spreading rumours and internet stalking me so badly I deleted most of my friends off Facebook and then beefed it up so you cannot search for me or message me or anythig if you're not on my friends list.

I kept away from him thinking she was his GF and she was jealous although nothing had happened. He saw me a few weeks later and asked what was wrong so I explained but she is not his GF, just some silly bird obsessed with him.

She then moved to the other side of the world so I am back. He began singing to me, as his GF was not there, and there was loads of banter, and we just spent the evening talking, drinking and flirting and he admitted he was interested.

I then saw him on my birthday and again he sang to me and dedicated songs to me and was lovely as his GF was not there.

On Friday, same as above, and even when I put on a green cardie he started playing Greensleeves. He knows he is the only guy I have ever liked (as in more than just fancy because he's hot), and that he is not even my usual type but there is something inexplicable drawing me to him. He was upset aout something and confided in me; I hugged him but he held me really tight and it was more than platonic, and we also kissed on the cheek in a more than friends way...

I know this is harsh but he has crossed the line in his mind and he is clearly not as happy with his GF as he could be with me. There are no kids involved, so I am wondering how to, without obviously saying anything or hinting, get him to leave her for me.

I can give him everything she can and more. I just currently am there a lot, looking good and having fun especially as often I am the only lively one there.

Simple advice is ............................. Dont do it You have no idea whether his relationship with his GF is on the rocks/rubbish/carp/etc. Random nasty girl could be a "groupie/girl he has done this to before"....... bad signs all over this if you ask me, go and find another guy who isnt attached Plus if his GF is the extremly jealous type you may find yourself with an unwanted fight on your hands...................... easiest thing to do is find a guy thats unattached

James240

p.s. kips i loooooooooooooooovvvvveeeeeeeeeeeeee yoooooooouuuuuuuuuu (no idea if she will see this post :rolleyes: :rotfl: )

littleholly

James240 wrote: »

p.s. kips i loooooooooooooooovvvvveeeeeeeeeeeeee yoooooooouuuuuuuuuu (no idea if she will see this post :rolleyes: :rotfl: )

You big softy!!!! :rotfl:

Rock_Chick_Bird

Sorry FE, but I agree with all the other advice - if he was so unhappy with this girl he should grow a set of b4lls and end it with her - not flirt with you - that's just being cruel to her - which doesn't make him sound very honourable or trustworthy at all.

If you ended up being with him, how secure could you feel with a man who could behave like that towards someone he supposedly cares about??


JAMES - Kipper WILL see it - she's all seeing, all knowing!!

James240

littleholly wrote: »

You big softy!!!! :rotfl:

I know

kipper_2-2

James240 wrote: »

p.s. kips i loooooooooooooooovvvvveeeeeeeeeeeeee yoooooooouuuuuuuuuu (no idea if she will see this post :rolleyes: :rotfl: )

Yeah I've seen it... unlike someone who ain't reading their texts :rolleyes:


:iloveyou:


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