The Compers Inn - Part 8

ThinkingOfLinking

PS, HappyShopper, no, he does not sing to anyone else or dedicate things to anyone other than occasionally the sound engineer (who is male and in his 50s!) I've been there at times when he did not know I was there, eg I was in a back corner with a friend.

Happy_shopper

Then maybe you've got competition from the sound engineer too. Wow, this gets ever more complicated.

James240

Afternoon all

toniq

happyshopper u hit the nail on the head xxxx when i met paul i wasnt on the lookout for anyone, it just all fell into place xxx though i was in my early thirties and at last could actually say "yep! ive found mr right" xxxxx
.................he is in bed "dying of man flu"...ive left him to it and he seems to be making some sort of recovery!?!?xxx

Happy_shopper

Afternoon, James. Are you going to be our resident agony uncle and offer a male perspective on Flickering Ember's dilemma? (I'm assuming that everyone else who's offered advice is female...)

bella165

why is life so bloody hard!!!

Happy_shopper

toniq wrote: »

happyshopper u hit the nail on the head xxxx when i met paul i wasnt on the lookout for anyone, it just all fell into place xxx though i was in my early thirties and at last could actually say "yep! ive found mr right" xxxxx
.................he is in bed "dying of man flu"...ive left him to it and he seems to be making some sort of recovery!?!?xxx

In one way, it's galling isn't it? Because you can try and try and spend hours worrying and yet there's nothing you can do about it; the right person is out there and they come along only when it's right for them to come along. It's like some big cosmic joke. But on the other hand, it's wonderful - there's nothing you can do about it, what's the point in worrying? They'll come along when it's right for them to come along and all along they've been the right person for you.

Get well wishes to Paul.

Happy_shopper

bella165 wrote: »

why is life so bloody hard!!!

Aww, bella! *hug* You lie on that sofa with a duvet and your favourite films / TV (and, of course, a laptop ). Hope you're feeling brighter soon.

iwannabeonthebeach

how do you know he is being honest with you??? I think he's shown he's not an honest person, or he wouldnt be saying these things to you when he already has someone else

ThinkingOfLinking

iwannabeonthebeach wrote: »

how do you know he is being honest with you??? I think he's shown he's not an honest person, or he wouldnt be saying these things to you when he already has someone else

He is being honest with me...just not with her, clearly. I know there is something there more than just a physical attraction as it wasn't even about that when I felt something just click.

I don't know...I'm seeing him in a few days time so I'll see how the land lies but I'd not ask him or put him on the spot. I just plan to continue as I have been and see what happens.