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Weekly Flylady Thread 13th October 2008

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  • Valli
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    boddy wrote: »
    I am going to a greatgrandma again this will be the third.

    I am both pleased and annoyed. Annoyed for lots of reasons. One being that GS should not be having anymore children. For reasons I cant go into. Dont get me wrong he loves his two DDs and does his best. But its done and the baby will be loved very much.

    Valli Yes its a voluntary job.

    Off to bed soon as Im back at work tomorrow.

    Well done on the voluntary job - doing something on a regular basis and being relied upon - you are the type of person that is the bedrock of the voluntary sector...there are clearly nice bits to the job like baby holding though! Congratulations on the 'pleased' bit...always difficult to know what to say when news like this isn't quite wanted IYSWIM
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • greenbee
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    Valli wrote: »
    And who had a birthday the other Friday and is, therefore, ALSO LIBRAN

    your own...your very own VALLI

    Like I said - be afraid be very afraid :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

    I was going to say that maybe you're the exception that proves the rule fear.gif but then I thought about you, Toots & Supergirl and realised... you all have SO much in common scared.gifscared.gifscared.gifscared.gif


    hgballoons.gifTootsforyou.gif - have a fabulous bday2.gifbirthday.hbsong.gif Treat yourself to a day off bdaysurprise.gifand a cake.gifbirthday cake bdaycake2.gif(and I'll nag you about the energy bill stuff again on Thursday... in fact, if you haven't done it by then, I'll do it for you myself over the weekend as your birthday present hapbirth.gif

    Thanks for the recipe Pigpen. No time to make it tonight, but I will test it soon :p

    Hugs to all who need them... I've skimmed through at various times today, but not really remembered what needed saying to whom, and I've done no flying at all! However, my kitchen tiles are now sealed and ready for grouting, the new platform for the water tank is under construction, the boiler has had all its safety bits added, and I swear the place has been left cleaner than when he started :rotfl:
  • Valli
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    bet Toots is panicking now she realises she and I have something in common... bet she's checking her planetary aspects to see if pegs are in the stars...:rotfl:
    Up until now she thought she was safe and sane!

    BTW Greenbee how do you envisage this cleaning product spreadsheet then - columns for rooms/job and rows for products with a how to in the appropriate cell if the product is relevant for the room/job?

    I could do it...

    I've had a go but it won't copy and paste.


    You wouldthink I have nothing better to do!
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • soappie
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    Boddy - congrats on being a potential ggrandma again - even if the circumstances aren't exactly right.

    I am wondering why I do 'community' stuff. The phone has been off the hook again this evening and I've been advising and suggesting. Ahhh me....

    But, good thing (I think!) is shower will probably be fixed soon. Phoned DiL's parents this evening but got through to the answerphone. Didn't leave a message. Mentioned it to DS and then the chinese whispers syndrome starts. DiL's Mum phoned and left a message whilst I was on the phone doing 'community' stuff - "DS tells me you phoned about the shower and left a message on the answerphone. I haven't got it perhaps you could call me"

    So I call back and say actually I didn't leave a message but hey, how's DiL's father fixed to looking at the shower? Seems he's more than happy to - and pay for it and not take any money. I feel I'm going to have to be really assertive here and say yes, please, come and look and QUOTE - I don't want, nor need a freebie! But I fear it may fall on deaf ears. Anyways, he's coming tomorrow at 6pm to inspect. I have to think now of ways of making sure he's not out of pocket.

    But enough - I'm off to bed.

    Sleep tight ladies
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
  • pigpen
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    Congratulations Boddy.. I am sure it will all be good in the long run.. there are worse things to bring into the world than a baby! Get knitting then!!!
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • pigpen
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    soappie wrote: »
    I feel I'm going to have to be really assertive here and say yes, please, come and look and QUOTE - I don't want, nor need a freebie! But I fear it may fall on deaf ears. Anyways, he's coming tomorrow at 6pm to inspect. I have to think now of ways of making sure he's not out of pocket.

    A bottle of whisky and some chocs??
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • :mad: why do we have men :mad: he drives me absolutely batty sometimes :mad:
    he left work late & got stuck in traffic so was in a bad mood when he got home, moaned when i asked him to watch dd2 for me then disappeared off to relax in the bath for an hour cos he was tired!!!!! like i'm not, i've also done a day at work then come home, fed dd2, helped dd1 with homework, prepared & cooked dinner, changed dd2 into pj's & given her last bottle, put washing on airer, made lunches for tomorrow, done dishwasher, done bottles for tomorrow (cos when i asked df he said he was too tired)
    :eek: :mad: :eek: :mad: :eek: :mad: :eek:
    ok rant over, sorry ... but if i tell you guys i won't moan at him :o

    updated list
    Monday Misery - Kitchen and Dining Room
    Level One
    Level Two
    Sweep and mop floors
    Wipe dining table.. (clean table cloth if necessary)
    Level Three
    Dust any extra furniture in dining area, checking for cobwebs on way round
    Wipe and replace all those small appliances.. kettle, toaster etc
    Clean cupboard door fronts and fronts of appliances .. don't forget those kick boards..
    Empty all the drawers.. shake out the crumbs and put back only the nice things
    Extra Mission : help yourself
    1. Slop over the oven and hob
    2. Take one small electrical appliance and give it a thorough cleaning.. the toaster or the kettle or the microwave.. or whatever you like..
    3. 37 fling boogie..
    4. Empty the bin.. wash it out.. and make it smell SWEET
    Tuesday Terrors- Living Room, Hall and Stairs
    Level 1

    Vacuum floors and sofas
    Level 2
    Dusting, even if around everything
    Remove clutter making sure stairs especially are safe
    Clean TV, other electricals and cabinets
    HHI
    Level 3
    Put all your hotspots in one pile and work your way through it..
    Vacuum under furniture you can manage to move without hurting yourself
    Extra Mission: Pick one or more of the following tasks –
    1. Clean windows & any other glass like mirrors, pictures etc
    2. Wipe down any paintwork that needs it.
    3. Binbag dance.. Get a binbag.. fill it and bin it!!!
    Wednesday Whoopees!!- Bathroom and Study/Pc Area
    Level One
    Clean floors in these rooms
    Level Two
    Clean baths, toilets, don't forget the outside! and sinks.. shine the taps with a toothbrush
    Clear any clutter from desk
    Dust PC and desk and wipe off those cup rings!!
    Wipe keyboard, house phone, sockets, switches and mouse etc
    Level Three
    Wash your bathroom mats, nets, clean blind/curtains etc
    Wipe down tiles in bathroom.. defragment your pc while doing this.
    Empty and clean out all the upstairs bins!
    Clean shower screen/curtain if you have one/if required
    Collect all the dirty laundry
    Extra mission: Take your pick!
    1. Wipe the skirtings, door and window frames in these rooms
    2. Fling all those empty bottles and tubes
    3. replace any sponges, flannels, toiletries that need it
    4. Clean the fluff from the fires so they are nice and clean for using.. have those services been arranged on boilers and fires yet??
    My extras this week
    wm (done - Tuesx1
    td/airer (done - Monx1/Tuesx1)
    dw (done - Mon/Tues)
    packed lunches (done - Sunx2/Monx3/Tuesx2)
    bottles cleaned & sterilised (done - Mon/Tues)
    dd1 bag packed & uniform ready (done - Sun/Mon/Tues)
    dd2 bag packed (done - Sun/Mon/Tues)
    dd1 homework done (done - Mon/Tues)
    pack dd1 stuff for weekend away
    Wedding stuff:

    1. check numbers
    2. make more invites
    3. write & send more invites
    4. ring jewellers to check rings in
    5. shopping list for extras
    6. make little cards for photos
    7. word order of day (not service cos not church)
    8. buy table confetti & choccies
    am off to bed now (not cos i'm tired of course cos i don't get tired, i'm superwoman!!!) see you all tomorrow.
    Hugs to everyone & sorry to rant & run!
    Lou x
  • Am going to work on the bathroom tonight and then off to bed. Not sure how much cleaning I'll get done tomorrow as I've got lots on. Thanks for all the good wishes for hubby.

    Goodnight everyone!
  • Valli
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    Hey Loopy-loo that's what we're here for - you let off steam at us - we can take it - lots of ducks backs here so it washes off IYSWIM and you are happier and he doesn't get the brunt of it...smiles all round.
    This thread is also good for those of us who don't have a DF OH or whatever because then we don't blow up at whoever is around or bottle it up if we're all alone - we all need to vent sometime - and you have been heard - I have every sympathy because it must be so hard working when there are littlies involved... (((hugs)))

    BTW I am missing Polka - not heard from since her anniversary - is that right?
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • greenbee
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    pigpen wrote: »
    http://www.closeronline.co.uk/RealLife/Reallifestories/benefit-scrounger-family.aspx?dateonline=Monday+13+October+2008

    You'll like this... it isn't directly christmas related though does have a vague reference

    Pigpen - you've got nearly as many kids? How come you can't work the system like this ;)

    Tooch - congrats on the weightloss :j :j

    Rach - I'm careful even with my private appointments, I'm never sure who can see what, and I'm pretty sure my team (mostly boys :rolleyes: ) who have full rights to my calendar can see all the private stuff in great detail :o .

    Emily - best of luck to you and DH for tomorrow

    Holly - smileyhug.gif

    Lil_me - thanks for the link. Good to see so many of us have signed the petition! Where do you get all this information from? You seem to know everything :D

    Boddy - I hope it all works out well. Congratulations on the good stuff, and I hope you can enjoy the new baby.

    Valli - I'll PM you about Pigpen's spreadsheet... I have a feeling we need to do all sorts of exciting things with pivot tables! If we can work out what we want to do, I'll see whether I can bribe one of the boys with Pigpen's chocolate cake/jelly (yes, strange). Then we just need to find somewhere to keep the spreadsheet where we can all access it. Can we post attachments on the yahoo group?

    Polka - hope you're recovering OK smileyhug.giftake it easy

    Apologies if I've forgotten anyone.
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