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Trying For a Baby II

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  • smartie12 wrote: »
    I still have no sign of AF and boobs are hurting lots.

    I'm going to test again tomorrow if AF doesn't turn up today :)
    :j Good plan! I'm so jealous of you ladies testing today, Thursday seems *so* far away now. Plus my boobs are killing and feel really heavy, I may need a truss not a bra by then! I'm only 8/9dpo...
    Never argue with an idiot, he just brings you down to his level and beats you with experience.
  • smartie12
    smartie12 Posts: 7,658 Forumite
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    Stop bonk.gif ladies....

    and have a piece of my DSC00357-1.jpg


    :D:D:D
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  • kindofagilr
    kindofagilr Posts: 6,825 Forumite
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    YAY for EA!!!!!! Thats excellent, is she going to buy another test now?????

    YAY smartie I hope AF stays away!!!

    Bitzer Maloney, I am with you lol I am due to test on thursday/friday and its killing me lol Ive been tempted to test every day from now lol but I havent so far
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  • smartie12
    smartie12 Posts: 7,658 Forumite
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    EA is going to a wedding so not sure when she's going to do the test.
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  • B2B-2008
    B2B-2008 Posts: 178 Forumite
    Morning Girls,

    Good luck for all those testing soon.

    EA - keeping my fingers crossed for you but things are looking good.

    I'm on CD11 of the SMEP. We have followed it so far but I hate all this pre-booked in BDing and we are only on our third month of TTC!

    Sticky baby dust to all.
  • smartie12
    smartie12 Posts: 7,658 Forumite
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    Just had some great news from EA:j:j:j:j:j:j:j

    She's done the digital test:j:j:j:j:j:j:j

    BFP!!!!:j:j:j:j:j
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  • kencokenco
    kencokenco Posts: 120 Forumite
    YEY for Ea,
    Well my update girls is not as good as thought it would be. The consultant I usually see who is so lovely to me was off sick yesterday, so I was seen by one of his colleagues. To say he p****d me off was an under statement. He basically said I should go away and wait until NOVEMBER before being given chlomid. He said as I weigh 12 stone 13lbs he is unhappy giving me clomid, my consultant however was previoulsy happy to give it to me as he thought I had already lost an amazing amount of weight. When my pcos was really bad I soared from 10 stone to 18 stone 5lbs, in just over 18 months, it was horrible for me and I worked really bl**dy hard to get it down to where I am now. He said his words "I think if you go away and concentrate your effort on losing a further 2 stone, rather than trying to concieve you will see your periods come back so much quicker than concentrating solely on becoming pregnant."

    At which point I did become a little narky and say " so what your saying is im fat, ive lost over 4 stone in little over a yr and you have the nerve to sit their and call me fat"

    His response "im not necessarily calling you fat "no" but simply saying you would benefit from losing a further 2 stone."

    My response "you are calling me fat, never mind ive lost alot of weight and had to suffer some really nasty health problems in the last few yrs. I think you are very rude and will re-bok to see Dr W******** in november, as far as im concerned we have nothing more to discuss,"

    He then went on to apolagise for what he said, trying to backtrack me thinks as he could see at this point he had really annoyed me and hurt me.

    I have done so well with my weight and am proud to have got this far , then get some little idiot in a suit telling me im fat, and when I got home I checked my height and weight and im not at all really fat im 5,6 inch and 12 stone 13lbs.
    I didn't let on that I am still trying to lose more as would like to get to around 10 stone,but it really did hurt me, hence not coming on yesterday i was just upset I guess and couldn't face anyone, but im a little better today although the words fat keep popping up now in my devil head LOL.

    Well thats my rant done for the day hope we have some BFP this weekend ladies, goodluck to you all, and as for me I will carry on AGAIN as I was before, goodluck ladies baby dust to all.
  • kencokenco
    kencokenco Posts: 120 Forumite
    CONGRATULATIONS EA you deserve it, wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months:beer:
  • smartie12
    smartie12 Posts: 7,658 Forumite
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    (((big hugs)))

    You rant away girl!!!
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  • B2B-2008
    B2B-2008 Posts: 178 Forumite
    Congratulations EA fantastic news :T

    kencokenco - what an idiot he was, I'm so glad you stood up for yourself.
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