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Trying For a Baby II

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  • **confuzzled**
    **confuzzled** Posts: 4,228 Forumite
    scotsgirl wrote: »
    Looks like I'm joining you confuzzled - my AF has just shown up too. Slightly concerned since that means my LP is only 10-11 days?!Oh well!
    BOOOOOOOOOOO!
    scotsgirl wrote: »
    I'm currently tucking into lots of chocolate to make myself feel better!
    SNAP - I even made some chocolate cornflake cakes:o trying to decide whether to try and find something for dinner or should I let oh fend for himself and continue with the mandatory monthly chcolate diet:confused::D

    Took Patsy(my cat) to the vets earlier and shes got a viral infection and has to be kept indoors:( Might have to find her harness so I can let her out in the garden without her running off.......can't have her cooped up indoors she'll be bored stoopid! She doesn't like it but I'm sure she'd prefer being outdoors than chasing flies through the window:rolleyes:
    And yes, for those who are wondering, she is my surrogate daughter:p:D

    Its cd1 for me tomorrow think it'll be cycle 6....already:eek: Thats gone so fast:eek:
    1.11.09 - debt = £45k:eek:
    [STRIKE]Car Loan = £0[/STRIKE] CCCS Total = £30,246.88 Total Debt Paid off - 32.78%
    DFD [STRIKE]Nov[/STRIKE][STRIKE]Sept[/STRIKE]Aug 2018:o Only 75 payments to go:)
  • scotsgirl_3
    scotsgirl_3 Posts: 1,618 Forumite
    edited 26 June 2009 at 9:01PM
    OOOH, I have chocolate and rice crispies.........Baking alert!

    Let him fend for himself - if he's anything like mine he won't get why you're feeling down anyway! I'm not as bad, only cycle 3 but still depressing espec as if nothing happens next cycle we'll need to stop for a wee bit or bubs would be showing up in the middle of my final exams!

    Hope your kitty is ok - I have 3 and they are also my surrogate babies. They don't get out but they were going crazy chasing a fly today - I'm contemplating getting a harness and taking them to play in my MIL's garden.
  • emmzy
    emmzy Posts: 428 Forumite
    Im not allowed chocolate :( All this TTC stuff is ruining all my fun! No fat food because the doctors going to tell me its because Im too fat even though i know loads of people worse than me with kiddys, no smoking(well supposed to be), no drinking and no exciting things because if i want a baby and a wedding i cant afford much more than to feed us and save :(

    If you cant tell.. Im miserable today for no reason, FF says i OV tomorrow, I was sure it was earlier in the week, is anyone good at sorting cycle day things out ? Im a bit confused after counting through my diary

    Jan - 25 days, feb 24 ,march 30, april 33 ,may 27, june 29 and im on CD 16

    Is that normal? and where abouts in there do I OV? I thought I had it down with the CM and mood changes ect but Im thinking im wrong now?
  • Evansangel
    Evansangel Posts: 6,791 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Photogenic Combo Breaker
    Hey everyone, still no sign of AF which is good. Im pretty sure she's due 2mrw, so im testing 2mrw. Will be going to bed soon so i can sleep the night away quickly :)

    Snugglepants - Thanks :D As of next year though it will be changing to Mrs Valentine, and OH doesnt want to have Valentine-VonDoom lol.

    He said the initals VVD sound like a disease :confused:

    Damn, all these celebs dying. Is it something in the hollywood water? Well tbh i think MJ's death tops everyone elses this year, he was more adord. He stole everyone elses thunder lol.

    Leopardlady - I have just got some cramps to, cant tell if its just wind or not though lol.

    I am so desperate to test, so i drank loads of flat diet coke so its "watered down" my wee lol, and have told myself it will be a waste of a test.

    I've just finished packing my bag for our car drive to OH's cousins wedding tomorrow, i found my travel sickness tabs to, means i wont die in the car :D

    I should be ok to take one if i am PG right?

    My dress i am wearing for the wedding broke today, so i was sewing the strap back on earlier. Lucky i tried it on today.

    Has everyone had a nice evening? I just finished watching 'Jumper' Was ok :)

    x
  • scotsgirl_3
    scotsgirl_3 Posts: 1,618 Forumite
    emmzy wrote: »

    If you cant tell.. Im miserable today for no reason, FF says i OV tomorrow, I was sure it was earlier in the week, is anyone good at sorting cycle day things out ? Im a bit confused after counting through my diary

    Jan - 25 days, feb 24 ,march 30, april 33 ,may 27, june 29 and im on CD 16

    Is that normal? and where abouts in there do I OV? I thought I had it down with the CM and mood changes ect but Im thinking im wrong now?

    Are you taking your temps as well? It can be hard to tell from CM etc because your CM can change as OV approaches but you may not actually OV - I think this happened with me this month. Your temp chart is the only way to really tell if you have OV'd.

    The average Luteal Phase is 14 days but apparently healthy is anywhere from 10-16 so just counting days might not give you enough info.

    Hth
  • emmzy
    emmzy Posts: 428 Forumite
    No I dont temp OH laughed at me and told me it was creepy when I suggested it :mad:
    Hes on one of his stupid "leave it to nature" p*shy people


    EA Good luck tomorrow!!! Either way enjoy the wedding
  • scotsgirl_3
    scotsgirl_3 Posts: 1,618 Forumite
    Sounds like mine! He is being ignored now - he was adamant it was "nonsense" until I said to him this morning that AF was on her way, cos my chart said so, and it was right, lol.

    All you can do is watch you body as closely as possible - I looked like I'd ov'd on day 19, but temp didn't go up enough, and sure enough I had a second patch of EWCM a week later, with a proper temp rise. So it's sometimes hard to tell.
  • smartie12
    smartie12 Posts: 7,658 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Ooooo first one on:D

    Got a message from EA on facebook....

    She got a faint positive:j:j:jShe's going to get a digital one to double check:D

    Hopefully she'll get a definite positive!!!!
    BLOWINGBUBBLES:kisses2: SMARTIE12
  • Just logged in to check on the potential bfps, looks like it might be a good day for EA, fingers crossed for everyone else today and sticky baby dust!
    :)
    Never argue with an idiot, he just brings you down to his level and beats you with experience.
  • smartie12
    smartie12 Posts: 7,658 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I still have no sign of AF and boobs are hurting lots.

    I'm going to test again tomorrow if AF doesn't turn up today :)
    BLOWINGBUBBLES:kisses2: SMARTIE12
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