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  • jacklink
    jacklink Posts: 778 Forumite
    Again How On Earth Would He Have £90 Spare ?
  • jacklink
    jacklink Posts: 778 Forumite
    what sell the gifts and in the future let the kids think they never got them anything ? ok, they have £1000 worth of 8 year old girl things and also 17 year old things you wana buy them, how do you think this man feels, heartless? they are his daughters and his daughters gifts from him,

    again what should he do, it seems there are no real solutions

    question still stands,

    £180 a week wages
    £65 csa
    £75 rent
    £25 council tax
    how does one live ?
  • pink_princess
    pink_princess Posts: 13,581 Forumite
    £180 minus half rent ,half csa ,half coucil tax.
    I use the sky as an example you s don t want to pay csa ,i don t use sky or want to pay for it .OH uses sky so we half the bill.
    You don t always get the benefit of things you have to pay for ,sometimes we pay things for the people we love.
    Life is short, smile while you still have teeth :D
  • pink_princess
    pink_princess Posts: 13,581 Forumite
    I find it more heartless that money isn t provided for food and bills for the children.
    Life is short, smile while you still have teeth :D
  • jacklink
    jacklink Posts: 778 Forumite
    em excuse me csa has nothing to do with me , nor any of the payments, i am nrpp, simple as, i didnt bring these kids into the world, why should i pay, i dont and i wont, i have my own kids, and i dont expect anyone else to pay for them. would you expect anyone else to pay for yours ?
  • jacklink
    jacklink Posts: 778 Forumite
    say i got with your husband, would you expect me to pay for your kids ?,, that is the scenario you are giving
  • jacklink
    jacklink Posts: 778 Forumite
    and that is the factual scenario,
  • pink_princess
    pink_princess Posts: 13,581 Forumite
    Yes i expect my partener to help support my children (he s their step parent)
    One minute your a friend next a nrpp which is it ?
    Life is short, smile while you still have teeth :D
  • pink_princess
    pink_princess Posts: 13,581 Forumite
    Households work when each person contributes to the bills ,why are you saying only one person will pay the bills?
    Life is short, smile while you still have teeth :D
  • Households work when each person contributes to the bills ,why are you saying only one person will pay the bills?

    I was wondering the same thing:confused::confused:
    Men think monogamy is something you make dining tables out of-Kathy Lette;) :D
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