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The Great Declutter - 18 months on
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IN:
free copy of moneywise magazine
2 flatpack bookcases (beech)
karcher washer (sort of in - lent it to Dad and now it's back....)
steamer (was in shed but has now made it into the house)
OUT:
old steamer - to Dad - he has same model but his trays are cracked....:rotfl:
Daughters also cleared out the rubbish that has been accumulating in the car :A- didn't get round to washing it though...:o
essexgal;)old enough to know better, young enough not to care;)0 -
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Spices for cooking from scratch
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Recycling paper and plastic/glass
Not much else!final unsecured debt to repay currently £8333Proud to be Dealing With my DebtDFW Nerd 1154 Long Haul 1550 -
In:
Few bits of post
Food shop
2 veggie plants from a work colleague
Out
Most of the bits of post into shredder/recycling bin
Mug and tissues back to work
3 ebay parcels to post officeInitial Mortgage January 2024 - £160,000
Initial Mortgage free date - January 2058
Mortgage as of 1st February 2024 - £159,134.98
Overpayments to date - £79.62
Current Mortgage free date - January 20580 -
Can I join?
I am a hoarder by nature, and single parent to two children who seem to find getting rid of even obviously useless stuff even harder than I do.
Today I am having a particularly bad day with clutter, because I haven't just got too much of it, but it's all over the place. I was avoiding dealing with it and then I saw this thread...
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OK so since typing that I have symbolically thrown something away - a stupid board game that wasn't much fun to play (even for the kids) and hadn't got all its pieces anyway.
In the morning (well, it is morning now, but YKWIM) the kids and I are going to try to have a house sorting out day for half term. I'll post to say what we manage to get rid of.
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Tyre performance in the wet deteriorates rapidly below about 3mm tread - change yours when they get dangerous, not just when they are nearly illegal (1.6mm).
Oh, and wear your seatbelt. My kids are only alive because they were wearing theirs when somebody else was driving in wet weather with worn tyres.0 -
Good luck Lydia
Don't know how old your children are but my youngest is 7, and what I've found works best with her is if we sort through (for example) ALL the cuddly soft toys - and for every two she keeps, she passes one on - and then at the very end she's allowed (as she's been so good), to take one back out of the 'passing on' pile. She feels she's gained an extra (and I feel that we've thinned them out considerably). I now have a sack of cuddlies in the shed ready for the school fete....:j (we had over a hundred....:o:o)
I recently had a good book sort out too - we got rid of four boxes of books/videos at the guides jumble sale - and bought one really nice dinosaur book (30p:D) as our 'exchange'.
essexgal;)old enough to know better, young enough not to care;)0 -
Good luck Lydia. I am the same. Like mother like son. Two hoarders living together.
We have come up with a plan! We are going to carboot the old toys/clothes etc and I have told him I will double the money it makes (could be an expensive mistake) and he can spend that any way he pleases.
Good Luck with you sorting today...I'm finding it very therapeutic.LBM 10/08 £12510.74/0 -
I really need to get back into this thread. I have clutter everywhere in my house and it never seems to get any better no matter how hard I try.
Today I haven't brought anything into the house but nothing has left either, so will try to rid the house of a few things tomorrow without buying more.0 -
Someone might find this useful.
http://www.flylady.net/pages/FLYingLessons_Declutter.asp
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wood cleaner
dishcloths
freezer pots
whoopsies for the freezer
OUT
Various spiders abodes (sorry spiders)
1 bin bag of assorted tut (in the woods of Sir Alan Sugar)LBM 10/08 £12510.74/0 -
in a fish supper
out nothing :-("The purpose of Life is to spread and create Happiness" :j0 -
In:
Replacement Freeview Recorder
Jigsaw puzzle from charity shop
Out:
Old, useless, paperwork in my maiden name
Recycling
Jigsaw puzzle to charity shopDebt-free day: 8th May 2015 "Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck," Dalai Llama0
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