Weekly Flylady Thread 15th September 2008

Flylady_Flower

Polka - does she go to the same playschool or anything as you? If so, can you leave it at the office for her? Or can you leave it with a joint friend or something? if you can, don't tell her what you're doing until you've done it, then she can't answer it with a no can she? Don't stress yourself about someone elses hang-ups - you've tried, she is a cow and that's that! Keep your spirits up girl, you're better than that and you need to remember it! Take care (and your meds if you still can!)

Well, I didn't think I had done much today, but have crossed off quite a bit -

Monday Mayhem - Living Room, Hall and Stairs
Have a bit of a tidy in the cupboard under the stairs.
Wash any cushions, throws or curtains that need it...
Tuesday Trauma - Kitchen and Dining Room
mop floors
Clean the fridges... get rid of all those furry things growing in corners!
Wednesday wobbles- Bathroom and Study/Pc Area -Pigpen, you are psychic – Desperately need to sort the office coz I’ve got everything out at the moment – Thank you!
Level One
Clean floors in these rooms
Level Two
Clean baths, toilets, don't forget the outside! and sinks... shine the taps with a toothbrush
Clear any clutter from desk
Level Three
Scrub down tiles in bathroom... defragment your pc while doing this.
Empty and clean out all the upstairs bins!
Collect all the dirty laundry Finally, I have all the washing from DS’s room!
Extra mission: Take your pick!
Fling all those empty bottles and tubes
Replace any sponges, flannels, toiletries that need it
My Dailies – Have decided to add these on as I do them every day now
WM
HHI Yes, I actually did some whilst watching H&A at lunchtime – mmm, this might be the best time for me I think…
DW
Vacuum hall/stairs/kitchen x 2 (Bl**dy dogs! J)
5 min CHAOS tidy
8-10 mins exercise
My Extras
Check back with child tax credits
Collect disc from Mick for printer

I'm off now to sort tomorrows list out and then bed (although I REALLY fancy some chips right now, might get the chip pan out - No, be strong, go to bed... )

polkadot

toottifrootti wrote: »

well done polkadot
that was just a brilliant email that you sent

you faced the bully head on and she didnt like it!!!!

:T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T :T

toots xx

You think so? Is that why her email was so long and mean... and the stuff about hurting her DD? Was that a reaction? I've never done anything like this before...I normally either just fade away, or take the blame for something so they have an excuse (yes, Ive had a few others like her-But Im learning so many new things about myself over the last few months)

toottifrootti

polkadot wrote: »

Oh I give up-Im so angry now (and realised just now Ive not had my meds today). Im not going to bother. I hate the whole situation-I feel cheated...Im always mister nice guy and yet Im always made out to be the one that caused the trouble.

Oh honey dont feel bad!!! With trash like her - its always the same - they twist things around to make people look/feel bad to hide their own crap behaviour. You are a lovely fantastic person.



I think I would be tempted to stick it in a post box without any stamps and then she can pay for the postage!!! get rid of it one way or another and get her out of your life - she is a mean wicked person and doesnt deserve any friends.

toots xx

Flylady_Flower

toottifrootti wrote: »

Oh honey dont feel bad!!! With trash like her - its always the same - they twist things around to make people look/feel bad to hide their own crap behaviour. You are a lovely fantastic person.



I think I would be tempted to stick it in a post box without any stamps and then she can pay for the postage!!! get rid of it one way or another and get her out of your life - she is a mean wicked person and doesnt deserve any friends.

toots xx

Excellent idea toots, that's exactly why we will miss you, you have such good ideas - she wanted to pay postage - well pay on delivery!

Also Polka, like you say, she knows your address, and if she's that bothered why hasn't she just sent it anyway? Don't waste your time and effort any more, get rid of it one way or another and st*ff her!

polkadot

Thanks Denise. Have taken my meds-no common activities (which I guess is a good thing). I'll just leave it where it is for now and see what DF thinks when I've got over my wobblies.
Triker You know how you always say "that Thang"...I know it sounds odd but thanks for saying it just now. Every time I read it I hear my dads voice. He also always calls things "Thangs", and especially when he's giving one of us a proud squeeze about the shoulders:). I miss him.
Oh dear Im all weepy now, Greenbee's not looking...may I PLEASE go have a cig now?

ETA And me with my minimals with Toots on her way into the hospital again, Im sorry. But you just reminded us again why 6 days will seem so loooonnng:)

pigpen

polkadot wrote: »

Oh I give up-Im so angry now (and realised just now Ive not had my meds today). Im not going to bother. I hate the whole situation-I feel cheated...Im always mister nice guy and yet Im always made out to be the one that caused the trouble.

Right.. now you listen here.. you are NOT allowed under ANY circumstances to let this person irritate you any longer..

Avoid that cigarette to spite her.. she doesn't want you to succeed in stopping smokingso she has upset you.. and it will irritate her more knowing that you don't NEED her any longer.. she has said she doesn't need you.. but you have a lovely guy there and your wee man and you don't NEED anyone but them!.. besides you have me...

Flylady_Flower

polkadot wrote: »

Thanks Denise. Have taken my meds-no common activities (which I guess is a good thing). I'll just leave it where it is for now and see what DF thinks when I've got over my wobblies.
Triker You know how you always say "that Thang"...I know it sounds odd but thanks for saying it just now. Every time I read it I hear my dads voice. He also always calls things "Thangs", and especially when he's giving one of us a proud squeeze about the shoulders:). I miss him.
Oh dear Im all weepy now, Greenbee's not looking...may I PLEASE go have a cig now?

ETA And me with my minimals with Toots on her way into the hospital again, Im sorry. But you just reminded us again why 6 days will seem so loooonnng:)

Flylady_Flower

pigpen wrote: »

Right.. now you listen here.. you are NOT allowed under ANY circumstances to let this person irritate you any longer..

Avoid that cigarette to spite her.. she doesn't want you to succeed in stopping smokingso she has upset you.. and it will irritate her more knowing that you don't NEED her any longer.. she has said she doesn't need you.. but you have a lovely guy there and your wee man and you don't NEED anyone but them!.. besides you have me...

And then everything everyone else has said just pails into insignificance - Spot on again Pigpen :T

pigpen

Triker wrote: »

Hi all, apologies for not being here today and prob yesterday, bit busy with the work thang, hoping to get on track tomorrow.

Plus got my DD's birthday to organise and it's the weekend after next.:eek:

Hope you all ok and having a flying day.:D xx

Liar.. you were just skiving!!

Come see my moggy!! :beer:

Assignment one is to be completed tomorrow afternoon... because I have a scary suspicion I will be landed with another in the morning!!

I've lost my list.... best go find it..

polkadot

pigpen wrote: »

Right.. now you listen here.. you are NOT allowed under ANY circumstances to let this person irritate you any longer..

Avoid that cigarette to spite her.. she doesn't want you to succeed in stopping smokingso she has upset you.. and it will irritate her more knowing that you don't NEED her any longer.. she has said she doesn't need you.. but you have a lovely guy there and your wee man and you don't NEED anyone but them!.. besides you have me...

Is that full moon still about? Last night you all had misers and I was feeling okay?
Thank you Pigpen, the voice has spoke...um, think I'll put home and away on instead-the boys are all tucked up but Im on the sofa again. DF still not feeling wonders. But I love the way they snore in concert:)