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  • fiveyearplan
    fiveyearplan Posts: 10,145 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I would change bank account to the Coop or Barclays basic. Take all your money out of RSB before you go bankrupt that way it will be safe and you won't have to wonder about it. If asked, you needed it for basic living expenses.

    :j :j


  • silou
    silou Posts: 88 Forumite
    Thanks for the responses.
    Dalip-I think with all the worry about the negatives of going BR its only jut starting to dawn on me that there might be a positive side as well, I've not been able to consider leaving the job because basically I couldn't afford to but you're exactly right and it might give me chance for a fresh start with that aswell. Thanks.
  • dalip
    dalip Posts: 7,045 Forumite
    He He very apt my real name is dawn.lol

    For us it went tits ups as we are both unemployed now. With this credit crunch the new company we went to work for cut back and we had to leave. That said i have an interview tomorrow for a job i have always wanted to do. Now i can do a job for love not money,fingers crossed.

    GO FOR IT. THIS IS A SECOND CHANCE GIRL DON'T WASTE A MIN.d
    Free impartial debt advice available from: National Debtline - Tel: 0808 808 4000 | The Consumer Credit Counselling Service (CCCS) - Tel: 0800 138 1111 | Find your local Citizens Advice Bureau
    Laugh at yourself and others laugh with you.Laugh at others and you laugh alone. BSC No 107:D
  • dalip wrote: »
    He He very apt my real name is dawn.lol

    For us it went tits ups as we are both unemployed now. With this credit crunch the new company we went to work for cut back and we had to leave. That said i have an interview tomorrow for a job i have always wanted to do. Now i can do a job for love not money,fingers crossed.

    GO FOR IT. THIS IS A SECOND CHANCE GIRL DON'T WASTE A MIN.d

    Hi Dalip

    Not been on much (doing home improvements, ho the joy of decorating!!) just wanted to say hi and good luck tommorow, fingers crossed and all that.

    :hello::hello::hello:
    "Well, that sounds like a pretty good deal. But I think I got a better one. How about I give you the finger, and you give me my phone call"
    "There is no spoon
    "

    ~~MSE BSC member #172~~
  • dalip
    dalip Posts: 7,045 Forumite
    Thanks shadow. Noticed you had not been around much. That will be our downside to getting a job,we will have the funds to be able to decorate:p ,that and that fact daughter starts a job today at a well known DIY store;) .Cheers for the goodluck.Dx
    Free impartial debt advice available from: National Debtline - Tel: 0808 808 4000 | The Consumer Credit Counselling Service (CCCS) - Tel: 0800 138 1111 | Find your local Citizens Advice Bureau
    Laugh at yourself and others laugh with you.Laugh at others and you laugh alone. BSC No 107:D
  • were lucky because were in council and were having a new bathroom and kitchen fitted (hopefully only a few weeks away) they give you a disturbance grant so its kind of a free decoration, but I did a preemtive strike and decorated before the work, then I will just do cosmetic and touch up stuff when its all finished.

    sorry to hijack thread!!!
    "Well, that sounds like a pretty good deal. But I think I got a better one. How about I give you the finger, and you give me my phone call"
    "There is no spoon
    "

    ~~MSE BSC member #172~~
  • silou
    silou Posts: 88 Forumite
    Hijack away shadowdragon and Dalip good luck for tomorrow!
  • dalip
    dalip Posts: 7,045 Forumite
    ooops sorry we kinda got lonely:o
    Free impartial debt advice available from: National Debtline - Tel: 0808 808 4000 | The Consumer Credit Counselling Service (CCCS) - Tel: 0800 138 1111 | Find your local Citizens Advice Bureau
    Laugh at yourself and others laugh with you.Laugh at others and you laugh alone. BSC No 107:D
  • silou
    silou Posts: 88 Forumite
    Don't be sorry, I think the mood needed lightening a bit!
  • silou
    silou Posts: 88 Forumite
    Blimey, what a day! Have spoken to both CCCS and National Debtline today and the end result is that I'm even more confused (if thats possible!) CCCS didn't really seem to grasp what I was concerned about and kept reiterating that as it stands at the moment my debts aren't that bad and would be clear in 3 years if I continue as I am and that in worrying about the house I'm looking at what might happen and not what is happening cuurently, whilst I can understand this the fact remains that I'm throwing good money after bad in keep repaying the mortgage but she didn't seem to think the OR would see it this way (which might be right). National Debtline seemed slightly more sympathetic to the situation but still felt that I would need to demonstrate beyond all doubt that I cannot afford the mortgage at the moment to satisfy the OR that I had no choice but to allow repo on the house. I can understand all of this and realise that BR is not something to be done to get out of paying debts and as I have said before on paper I can just about afford all my payments each month but it leaves no spare money for contingencies (ie the loo sprang a leak recently and no way could I afford a plumber-nice! had to rely on some diy but god knows how long that will last). I fully understand that I would get an IPA after BR and have no problems with that. I suppose the question is will the OR really take that dim a view of the situation, I realise thats probably anyones guess but just wondered if anyone else had had any similar experiences that they wouldn't mind sharing.
    Thanks for reading.
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