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Weekly Flylady Thread 11th August 2008

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  • AnW'sMum
    AnW'sMum Posts: 4,416 Forumite
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    serena wrote: »

    AnW's mum and jjef - oh, no, as if there isn't enough to do when you get back from holiday, with all the unpacking and washing!! I do hope it is sorted out soon, and I think you should both have a special 'back from holiday' treat!

    Woohoo now that sounds like an excellent idea :Djjef can I interest you in a glass of wine later? everyone else you are invited as well ;)
    Official Mascot and Chief Cheerleader for the 'Mortgage Free in Three' Gang :D
  • AnW'sMum
    AnW'sMum Posts: 4,416 Forumite
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    Mudbath wrote: »
    watch me get there and realise i've not packed underwear, suntan lotion, pjs etc .... you'll all be laughing your heads off at me when I get back! :rotfl: xx

    mmmmmm guess who forgot to pack pj's for herself :o ended up wearing shorts and a t shirt, glad we were in the caravan!
    Official Mascot and Chief Cheerleader for the 'Mortgage Free in Three' Gang :D
  • Davgirl1
    Davgirl1 Posts: 257 Forumite
    :wave: everyone
    Well I survived the injections - they were painful though but not as bad as I was expecting after I was told that I could have gas and air if I wanted :eek: . My back is now throbbing so I am taking it easy now.

    AnW'sMum- I can't join you for a glass of wine -I'm not allowed alcohol today so I'll have a cup of tea instead.

    Hugs to all with freezer problems - the smell is disgusting isn't it, when mine got turned off the smell made me feel sick.

    Mudbath - have a good holiday

    Pigpen - please may I be excused from cleaning tomorrow? - I can provide a doctors note lol
  • kazmeister
    kazmeister Posts: 3,338 Forumite
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    Hi peeps

    Didn’t update last night as had massive row with OH (we that never argue have a good one when we do!)

    So here’s last nights list – again after a full days work

    Tuesday Triumphs - Kitchen and Dining Room
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Clear and wipe kitchen surfaces[/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Sweep and mop floors
    Sort & clean oven and hob
    Wipe dining table.. (clean table cloth if necessary) [/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Dust any extra furniture in dining area, checking for cobwebs on way round
    Wipe and replace all those small appliances.. kettle, toaster etc
    Wipe & declutter all the windows sills in these areas!!
    Clean cupboard door fronts and fronts of appliances .. don't forget those kick boards..
    Check those washing machine filters and drawers for ickiness!! Tumble dryer, and dishwasher filters need to be done too!![/STRIKE]
    Extra
    Mission : help yourself
    1. [STRIKE]
    2. clean the fridge.. it is smelly
    3. Wipe down any tiles and shine those taps.. a toothbrush is great for cleaning away the gunk!
    4. [/STRIKE]
    5. 31 fling boogie..
    6. GO! buy yourself some flowers from the shop.. your reward for making the kitchen shine[STRIKE]
    7. !
    8. Empty the bin.. wash it out.. and make it smell SWEET[/STRIKE]
    Think I deserve a dog biccy again please miss pigpen.

    Found my list of replies from the last 2 days sneaking on at work so might as well add them

    From Monday!
    Hippy110 Thanks for asking, fri evening was lovely
    Welcome Tigerfeet/Greenbee/Jinky67 and any others I’ve missed
    Nicki Well done, amazing savings – feels good doesn’t it
    Serena Welcome back we're off to France BH weekend for a few days in Eurodisney then camping in Normandy
    JillDNice to see you around. Hows little one doing
    Jackielesley We love having French students and have been very lucky, no probs yet
    Sexymouse I’d tell him, you invited them you sort it
    VivwHope you feeling better
    MrsVWell done on house exchange
    Soappie, oh dear not again (cant remember what that relates too!)
    Mudbath Excellent news re finger
    Valli I like the mars ice creams. When we were kids our local shop used to stick mars and milky ways on lolly sticks and freeze before selling to the kids on hot days
    Rebekah Another Olympic challenge must try it tonight (obviously didn’t)

    From Tuesday
    Morning Vanilla Missed you for a bit. Wot a horrible time for you all
    RagzHope DS birthday went well
    Hotchick Welcome
    Pigpen thanx for my dog biccy
    Prettypennies Hugs for your dear nan, I lost mine earlier this year so my thoughts are with you
    Snowyowl Welcome

    From Today
    PigpenWish I’d gone down the pub with you last night, might have saved the row
    Vanilla Hugs for Bo and sending healing vibes too
    JillD Hugs
    Embb Congratulations what a beautiful baby
    Soappie I agree about the kids relationships, it hurts
    Anw’smum Welcome back hope you had a great time
    Tootifrooti that poem made me cry
    Froddington Good news bet you feel relieved
    Boddy I think I’d be hovering at 6am, and yes life is for living…….so why cant I do something instead of feeling like I owe it to my family to be doing X, Y and Z

    Ok so what have I been up to.

    Massive row was caused by something simple as usual. I normally have an old beach towel in front of the back door so catch muddy paws (and feet) as they come in but had removed it to wash (easier than door mats). I walk in from work to find a pale yellow tea towel on the floor which I obviously complained about!. His response was its my bl0ddy teatowel and my bl0ddy floor and if I want to put it there I will! I picked it up and walked off upstairs. Of course things moved on from there when we were eating tea, he’d made Bolognese and when I offered to help was asked to cook the spaghetti which I duly did. Eating tea he had a go at me for not cooking the bread! Well I saw it out! But he hadn’t asked me to do it. Went from bad to worse then when he said my DS couldn’t go with us on Sunday to his cousins 50th party so I said I wasn’t going. He actually had DD (aged 9) in tears being so nasty about him, she was screaming but daddy its my brother and I love him. He also went on to say that it was his house as well and he had a say in it – to which I replied perhaps you better have a go bl0ddy cleaning it as well instead of me all the time ripping the poster off the wall. His reply - well I never asked you to :mad: . I spent the rest of the evening consoling her while he sat in the living room in what I guess was a drunken stupor – well I found a bottle of red wine empty and another half gone. He never bothered coming to bed and has been a sulk ever since judging by the texts I’ve had today. Luckily he’s going in to do overtime tonight and I told him it was prob for the best that he wasn’t around. :D

    Anyway I will attempt to fly tonight after I have given both my kids a big hug and fed them their tea.

    Catch you all later
    Kaz
    Mortgage, we're getting there with the end in sight £6587 07/23, otherwise free of the debt thanks to MSE help!
  • froddington
    froddington Posts: 6,697 Forumite
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    Mudbath wrote: »
    Froddington - my ligament damage to my thumb has taken longer to heal than the broken bone BUT it's ok now and I did overdo it at the beginning. Please learn from my mistake and don't do too much. I know I felt like a fake not doing stuff in the beginning so did it anyway...I paid for it!! Ooooh, that was a lecture wasn't it....didn't mean it to be;)

    No worries! I won't do too much - the bones are actually still broken but the plates are holding so well that there's no danger of them moving and the consultant is happy for me to do some strengthening and resistance stuff. I can't move anything much heavier than a glass with that hand but am getting a good range of functional movement back - wrist and elbow still need work tho!! And it all aches so that stops me overdoing it! It has been 15 weeks though, so am able to do loads more than I was.
    "There's only one way of life and that's your own" - Levellers

    "I'm feeling like a Monday but someday I'll be Saturday night" - Bon Jovi
  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    (((HUGS)))) kazmeister - I dont know what to say except I am with you inthought and spirit - the same goes to anybody else having relationship problems just now. I am on my own but wish I wasnt even though I hear what some of you put up with.
    Take care honey
    TF xx
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    before I forget MUDBATH - have a great holiday - and bring some sunshine back with you!!!!:D

    TF xx
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    Davgirl1 wrote: »
    Well I survived the injections - they were painful though but not as bad as I was expecting after I was told that I could have gas and air if I wanted :eek: . My back is now throbbing so I am taking it easy now.

    Good girl - hope you are able to get a good nights sleep:D

    TF xx
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • froddington
    froddington Posts: 6,697 Forumite
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    serena wrote: »
    DS1 has just heard today that he can go to the Reading Festival - he applied to be one of the staff. Please don't let him trip over anything

    Serena, I worked there for the last 2 years - had to cancel my place this year cos of the broken arm :( It's great fun, you meet loads of people and everyone is really friendly. Feel free to ask any questions!!
    "There's only one way of life and that's your own" - Levellers

    "I'm feeling like a Monday but someday I'll be Saturday night" - Bon Jovi
  • soappie
    soappie Posts: 6,794 Forumite
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    Right, I've put some stuff up on ebay. Consoled DD when she popped round. She's being very brave. She said she's so focussed on holding everything together at work that as soon as she leaves, it all has to come out and she has a sob again. But, she seems to be coping. She's gone off to the gym.

    Welcome back AnW'smum - glad you had a lovely holiday - gross about the freezer!
    Welcome aboard FlipFlop
    Have a fantastic holiday Mudbath
    Kaz - big hugs on the OH front..

    Right off to forage for dinner. Stir fry methinks....
    I am the leading lady in the movie of my life
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