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Daily Chat 06/08/08

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  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
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    people who've not got many friends don't know what it's like to have friends of the opposite sex, so they assume the worst.....

    considering he an Ste get on, then you've got nothing to worry about, as long as he trusts you that is the main thing....

    you don't need the trust of his family. Especially if he talks to them and then they come and give you a hard time (no matter how well meaning)... that's disrespectful to his talking in confidence to them, and to you as his wife....

    so "Ste trusts you" she makes it sound like a bad thing... where i come from that is a good thing......rise above it honey!
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    I know I should really. It just makes me think if other people are thinking bad of me for having a male mate!
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • Ellidee
    Ellidee Posts: 6,216 Forumite
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    Sar I was thinking of this quote for you yesterday, and it seems relevant today, so, 'Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind'.
    Nothing is so fatiguing as the eternal hanging on of an uncompleted task. William James
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
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    I know I should really. It just makes me think if other people are thinking bad of me for having a male mate!

    Is that you worrying what other people think? If Ste's okay and you're okay don't let it bother you. You know you're doing nothing wrong and you can't isolate yourself from people just because of what MIL/SIL may or may not think.

    Lecture over:o :rotfl: (All done in my poshest school teacher voice Maz...)
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    Lucifa73 wrote: »
    Is that you worrying what other people think? If Ste's okay and you're okay don't let it bother you. You know you're doing nothing wrong and you can't isolate yourself from people just because of what MIL/SIL may or may not think.

    Lecture over:o :rotfl: (All done in my poshest school teacher voice Maz...)
    I KNEW you were posh.. :rotfl: :rotfl:

    and to be honest what other people think doesn't really bother me.. I just don't like to think that they think bad of me for something that's complete rubbish!
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • Lucifa73
    Lucifa73 Posts: 7,726 Forumite
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    and to be honest what other people think doesn't really bother me.. I just don't like to think that they think bad of me for something that's complete rubbish!


    erm - I think that's a contradiction.:rotfl: - I don't mind what people think so long as they think nice things about me???:rotfl:

    Do you get on with MIL/SIL generally? Well enough to talk it through?
    26.2.19/14.1.19: T MC 3629.26/3629.26 : VM 0% 1050/13876.59 : W 0% 100/1485 = 4409.26/18990.85 =25.17%
    28.1.19/28.1.19 Hubs 0% £400/£2,977 =13.44%
    SPC 2019 #073


  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
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    Lucifa73 wrote: »
    erm - I think that's a contradiction.:rotfl: - I don't mind what people think so long as they think nice things about me???:rotfl:

    Do you get on with MIL/SIL generally? Well enough to talk it through?
    Oh yea good point :rotfl: I do get on with them well.. but just going to leave them to their over active imaginations I think. lol
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
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    families huh!

    so what plans for this evening anyone......?

    I'll be home, nursing a poor squirming tattoo'd big g.... apprently he was sitting for 6 hours, with occaisional breaks for fag/sandwich....

    I can't wait to see it! but i will play it cool..... i've bought the cocoa butter, so noone can say i'm not a caring woman!
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
  • System
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    On the subject holidays I have 2 Ryanair tickets to fly to Fredicshafen near Munich for 3 nights late Sep. It will cost you £80 per ticket to change the name. Anyone interested?

    trouble I have in getting rid of them is that you can book them cheaper on the website
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  • (Land_of)_Maz
    (Land_of)_Maz Posts: 11,738 Forumite
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    have just been invited across to a friends tonight for something to eat and a drink.... i declined, playing the "i need to spend time with Erin as she's been in daycare all day" card

    She's said bring Erin over too, to play with her son.... i said okay but don't cook or provide alcohol as will just drive....

    so i'm gannin oot the night.... Yay!!! poor G will have to rub cream on his own bits, poor lad!

    Lenny, flying from where? Is that for Ocktoberfest?
    I'm just a seething mass of contradictions....
    (it's part of my charm!)
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