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Husband called me a thief because of my debts

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  • Thank you all so much for the lovely well wishes.

    You have totally restored my faith in mankind - or womankind whichever one is appropriate to you.

    Hope you all have a good day today,

    Love and kisses
    NorthernFilly
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
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    Hi nf,
    good for you, I think you've turned a corner there.

    He needs to know that you will not be spoken to like that. Sounds like he didn't like the taste of his own medicine.
    keep us in the loop nf.
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • sitcom123
    sitcom123 Posts: 362 Forumite
    I would seriously sit and think do you want to stay with a man who treats you like this. Do you want your daughter to see you treated like this. Over 14 years you must have contributed massively to the relationship by whatever means and no man/woman has the right to make you feel the way you do.

    do as the others say, go away if possible for a week and change your sim and let him see how it is without you and maybe when you get back you can have some reasonable discussion about how and why you have got into debt and how he can or cant help you. Whatever happened to for better for worse???

    Whatever you decide to do good luck and never forget you are who you are and worthy of better x
  • Hi Northern

    Has he started behaving himself or do I have to come 'round with my rolling pin :D
    But I'm going to say this once, and once only, Gene. Stay out of Camberwick Green :D
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