Marriage over don't know where to start

dinkytwostep

erm yes.. you did when you wouldn't allow him to continue to sleep in the house in the dining room... :rotfl:

Keeping_Motivated

Kizzy is he serious about wanting to move back in? He really doesn't think things through does he, I mean what would that tell the kids? How much more would that hurt YOU especially if he was taking/making calls/texts to the Moose? And not that you care about the Moose but surely he would be sending her the wrong message too? He is so out of order he needs to start thinking.

You're not a wet fish by the way you are just human with a heart and trying your best to do the right thing, loss doesn't come with a manual for the 'correct' way to behave.

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kizzykizzywizzy

I asked him how the moose felt about us going to AT together, he said she didn't mind, I said di you tell her we slept in the same bed? he said yes! I said didn't she mind then? he said no
I said what kind of sad desperate woman wouldn't mind that then?
By the way - I definately think he's lying about her knowing.
Made sure I rubbed it in that she hasn't told her husband yet, so not commited & stringing him along - she's lost nothing - he's lost everything.
I also said if she hasn't told her husband they are obviously having sex, i bet they were at it like rabbits when she got back:rotfl: :rotfl: he said i don't mind:eek: Yuk
This was last night, by the way. he's just rung the kids asked how I was, i said how do you think?
He said you can ring to talk you know, I said - no I can't you can't be my friend & be so nasty to me - so no
he said well the offers there, I said bye then & that was it

kizzykizzywizzy

Solicitors have rung - appointment 24th September, which although a long way off , but ok as Mortgage kicks in October 1st.
Feel alright tonight, don't know what the hell happened last night / this morning, I just went bluuuughh & went crazy

SuziQ

Kizzy I really feel for you and what you're going through. It's very similar to a bereavement with all it's stages-please don't be so hard oon yourself! Your kids will be fine-we all go through times where we are doing the basics-and I sort of suspect that your opinion of basic is much better than a lot of people's best!

Can I make a suggestion?
I found St John's Wort to be really effective when I was suffering depression some years ago. My GP had prescribed strong antidepressents but I was terrified to start them-one in case they made me dopey (single parent-can't afford to be even more dopey than normal!) and two because all I could think was 'when will I know I am well enough to stop taking them?'

They are used more than normal antidepressants in Germany,and whilst they don't work for everyone,they are safe and a lot of people find they help. They really did help me to see the sunshine again.Holland and Barret seem to do the best deals on them.(own brand)
One warning-they effect the absorption of the pill,so you need to be aware of that (you could get pregnant)!

kizzykizzywizzy

SuziQ wrote: »

One warning-they effect the absorption of the pill,so you need to be aware of that (you could get pregnant)!

Hahahahaha:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

SuziQ

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

He said you can ring to talk you know, I said - no I can't you can't be my friend & be so nasty to me -

Absolutely right Kizzy.

SuziQ

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Hahahahaha:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

At least I made you smile-even if it was an ironic one!!!

kizzykizzywizzy

SuziQ - I'm sure they do the friendship thing
1. It makes them look/feel better about what they've done
2. They need a friend!!

Yes very :rotfl: :rotfl:

About the swearing, I have been so foul mouthed since all of this, I think I've shocked him ( & me ) though last night I must have called him you stupid man about 100 times & he got really wound up by it I siad it's better than what I want to call you:p

Rikki

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

SuziQ - I'm sure they do the friendship thing
1. It makes them look/feel better about what they've done
2. They need a friend!!

Yes very :rotfl: :rotfl:

About the swearing, I have been so foul mouthed since all of this, I think I've shocked him ( & me ) though last night I must have called him you stupid man about 100 times & he got really wound up by it I siad it's better than what I want to call you:p

Does your ex OH drive a lorry?

I've just seen one go up my road with his initials on. :eek:

:rotfl: