Marriage over don't know where to start

gettingbetter

gert
where abouts are you

you can come to me if you need too

kas xx

gerturdeanna

No - she rang him on his mobile and he said whats up , she's in the kitchen why? And then went outside to talk to her, twice.
He hasn't said anthing yet and its been 10 mins since he last spoke to her. He is moving out tomorow apparently and I'm filling for divorce asap. I don't think he has cheated on me before but I really don't know now!!
There was one time when we had an arguement when we first go together when he went off for the night -said he stopped on a friends couch but he had sand in his shoes -we lived in Spain then.
I do feel sorry for this bloke but it is better that he finds out now rather then after they are married and she is the 'office bike' - a skanky one at that!!

Buffythedebtslayer

If you are scared do not stay there hon, go to your mum's,

I hate to think of you sitting there in your own house frightened.

Go to your Mums!

xxx

gerturdeanna

Lancashire - bit far to go to Fife but cheers anyway!!

gerturdeanna

I'm okay - I've calmed down now - the adrenaline was pumping before - I knew it was her as soon as his phone rang

gettingbetter

naa probs

kas xx

gerturdeanna

Right guys, I'm going to bed. He's asleep on the sofa I can hear him snoring!!
Thanks for tonight!!
Will keep you all updated!

GeorgeUK

G'night Gert.

Don't forget to ask him for his key when he leaves tomorrow.
(Just think, tommorrow you'll be waking up without a headache )

chevalier

when you talk to this guy, don't be surprised if he is both up set at her, AND angry at you. He has just had a MASSIVE shock. Sometimes people do 'shoot the messenger' so be prepared for him to be in need of calming down, before he really listens to what you have to say.

Also if you know date and times, then tell him too.
chev

gerturdeanna

I've just been speaking to the other girls bloke - he is devasted. He wasn't angry with me, he is extremly upset though. I did give him the dates and times that I knew about, and he confirmed those dates etc. She denied it at first when he confronted her, but then she admitted it. They have had sex in our car!!! I'm disgusted - seriously disgusted. The first time apparently was the night of her leaving do from work, when they left at 1am but didn't get home till 3. I made him a bacon buttie when he got home cos he said he'd been in a fight and was worked up!! Now I know for sure why!! AAAARRRRGGGHHH - SO ANNOYED WITH THEM!!