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Marriage over don't know where to start

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  • Kizzy hope you have a good time at AT. its a fab place so I am sure you will!!

    hugs to everyone else
    xxxxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Rikki
    Rikki Posts: 21,625 Forumite
    The reason why my OH has took the kids down south to the wedding is cos DS said he would miss him. They've just phoned and DD has got a bridesmaid outfit - it looks sooooo cute - I wish I was there!! :-(
    But I know I can't and I've been to plenty of family occasions (my side) with the kids without him - just making a solitary meal for one for my tea cos I've just realised I've had no lunch and I'm starving!! Missing my kids!! Looking forward to watching X-Factor from last week - not seen it yet!!

    I think that's the bit most difficult to get used to. Being on your own. Walking into their bedrooms and realising their not there. It does get easier but it takes time.

    Its also a challenge trying to be enthusiastic about their day out or staying at daddies and doing this that and the other, all without you.

    The good bit comes when he says he didn't have fun because it was hard work and he couldn't relax. Shame!! You can do it. :)
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  • A little girl at work has all her dad's visits written in her school diary, she looks forward to them so much but sometimes they are viciously scribbled out when he doesn't show up. She always tells me its because of his girlfriend and looks broken. if you ask her anything ( are you ok? ) she clams up and gets mad - thats not when I am looking in journal just generally. It breaks my heart. bloody man.its so hard for her mum.

    sorry don't why I posted that!
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Rikki
    Rikki Posts: 21,625 Forumite
    A little girl at work has all her dad's visits written in her school diary, she looks forward to them so much but sometimes they are viciously scribbled out when he doesn't show up. She always tells me its because of his girlfriend and looks broken. if you ask her anything ( are you ok? ) she clams up and gets mad - thats not when I am looking in journal just generally. It breaks my heart. bloody man.its so hard for her mum.

    sorry don't why I posted that!

    Its shows how the children feel when their parents split. Sometimes we forget how confusing it can get for them and playing with their emotions is so unfair.

    It was a good post! :T
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  • mike425
    mike425 Posts: 44 Forumite
    ok whens she going on holiday?
  • gerturdeanna
    gerturdeanna Posts: 4,350 Forumite
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    mike425 wrote: »
    ok whens she going on holiday?
    Who are you talking about?:confused:
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
  • mike425
    mike425 Posts: 44 Forumite
    kizzy and family?
  • gettingbetter
    gettingbetter Posts: 1,449 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    hope kizzy has really good time

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  • mike425 wrote: »
    ok whens she going on holiday?

    why? excuse me arent you being a bit abrupt? if no then sorry if yes then why?
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