Marriage over don't know where to start

gerturdeanna

Kizzy, you are going to have the kids - most times the mother gets custody anyway!! Just fu(k him off and forget him. He is a w a n k e r!! And is really messing with your head!! Don't let him!! So what if you don't meet someone for a while - you will when you are good and ready.
And if she does move nearer to you, then I'm sorry but we'll have to accept it. We could put their windows in first mind you!!
Chin up, get a glass of wine and relax!
Bet your hair looks good!!
And if you are feeling sad or lonely, I'm here at the end of a phone as is SFH and also the Samaritans.
And I really don't think its a good idea you all going to Alton Towers - take them yourself and tell him to do one!!

Tesco_points_addict

gerturdeanna wrote: »

And I really don't think its a good idea you all going to Alton Towers - take them yourself and tell him to do one!!

What a good idea, tell him hes not welcome to stay on Saturday night and leave early!!:rotfl: :rotfl:

Keeping_Motivated

Awe Kizzy I'm so so sorry that he is rubbing salt in the wound he has caused, what an absolute animal!!

Kizzy where is he now? Would you consider letting him take the kids on his own to AT? I know you won't like being on your own but the strength is it going to take to smile infront of the kids after he laughed at you tonight is going to be too much? And he does not now deserve the help with the kids, let him have a lonely/hard weekend on his won with them maybe?

KM xxxx

SuziQ

Kizzy you are a lovely young woman-with great hair!!!!!- and you will meet someone else.And dya know what?

When you meet someone else-the relationship will be based on truth,no deception and not at the expense of 2 loving spouses like theirs' is! How will they EVER trust one another not to cheat as THEY ARE BOTH LYING DECEITFUL CHEATERS!

Your hope to rekindle things and his messing around hasn't given you the best chance of 'moving on' as he put it-tell him you would have moved on very easily if he hadn't strung you along and messed with your mind.

I am very anti-men at the moment anyway with the carp I have had from my ex this week-but your husband HAS MADE MY BLOOD BOIL!!!!!!!!

Smug self centred selfish !!!!!!!

Tesco_points_addict

Actually thinking about it, you need sometime to yourself, why not let him take the kid to AT (will also let him see how hard things are with two kiddies on his own)
Take the time to relax and show off ur new hairdo!
TPAx

gerturdeanna

Exactly!! Come on Kizzy, get that fighter spirit back!! Hows SFH, not seen her around for a while?

SuziQ

Forgot to say-there is no way on this earth that I would be going to AT with him. I would wave him off happily to cope on his own for a change-having you around to take the strain will only make it a very easy weekend for him-and I just could not stand to be in a car or room with him after what he said.

gerturdeanna

Second that SuziQ - but Kizzy has got to do what she feels best and as her friends will be support her whatever..right?

Fidget21

Kizzy I'm with the other girls on this one.

He has majorly fcuk'd things up and knows it. I bet the moose isn't planning to move down at all, she probably has a nice life with her lovely, unsuspecting husband and has no intention to disrupt it at all, she is probably just stringing your husband along because she enjoys the attention. If he wants to believe her and think that he is above you and your marriage then he is stupid and deserves everything he gets when it all comes crashing down around his ears.

Kizzy, have you noticed that whenever you start to pick yourself up he knocks you back down again. You were picking up your confidence and starting to build a life without him and he has said stupid, spiteful, hurtful things to undermine everything you have done for yourself.

He's scared Kizzy. He's scared that you won't need him any more. He wants you to be the person who is weak and begging him to come home, because when he does that will make him a hero.

How can you go to Alton Towers now and pretend that everything is okay? You have to show him that behaving like this doesn't destroy your confidence, it isn'y going to change your plans for the future, but it is going to drive you further away from him.

I'm sorry if that was a bit strong, he's made me really angry and I just wish I coud give you a hug and make everything okay and then give him a kick in the 'nads!:o

gerturdeanna

Again I second that Fidget!! Kizzys to far away from me for me to do that - anyone closer who can for me?!?!