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Single and in debt.

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  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    So, we're not single, sounds like we're just independent!

    I live on my own and, like a few people have said, couldn't bear the thought of sharing even though I have a spare room and the money would be useful. I am actually a very sociable person but I am also happy with my own company

    Independent is definately the way for me! :j
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
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    Hi everybody - hope you're all having a good Saturday :beer:

    Had a really good night out last night, just got home. Got into quite a deep conversation over dinner about the directions people's lives are taking and plans for the future. Made me feel that I am drifting a bit - and using debts and being overweight as an excuse to hold me back! :o Need to re-commit to my weight loss and debt free goals and start making some progress. :rolleyes:
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • jakemuk
    jakemuk Posts: 973 Forumite
    Lula-Hula wrote: »
    Finally - a man that talks out of his mouth :A

    Evening all, glad to hear from you again bowski - how long til the holibob now ? Bet you're just :j .

    need to check up on other threads while my tonic is chilling :cool: Gordon & I will be back later :D

    Im glad you think i use my mouth :) :eek: , Hows you and gordon lol
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  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    jakemuk wrote: »
    Im glad you think i use my mouth :) :eek: , Hows you and gordon lol


    Hey jakey,

    well done for not being scared off :cool:

    I'm loving that sig :rotfl:

    Gordons hiding at the moment - my DD has a friend here so need to maintain a bit of decorum ;) ...give it half an hour & then we'll partaaaaaay :D
  • jakemuk
    jakemuk Posts: 973 Forumite
    Lula-Hula wrote: »
    Hey jakey,

    well done for not being scared off :cool:

    I'm loving that sig :rotfl:

    Gordons hiding at the moment - my DD has a friend here so need to maintain a bit of decorum ;) ...give it half an hour & then we'll partaaaaaay :D

    scare me off ? lol u can try :D , Even sarahs net doesnt scare me lol,

    Ahhh gordons time be soon :eek: , Have to keep an eye on you then lol
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  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    jakemuk wrote: »
    scare me off ? lol u can try :D , Even sarahs net doesnt scare me lol,

    Ahhh gordons time be soon :eek: , Have to keep an eye on you then lol


    Sarahs net :eek: think Wednesday Adams expressed it best : "Be afraid, be very afraid" :rotfl: off to get Gordon now.....back in a bit , why dont you :beer: :D
  • jakemuk
    jakemuk Posts: 973 Forumite
    Lula-Hula wrote: »
    Sarahs net :eek: think Wednesday Adams expressed it best : "Be afraid, be very afraid" :rotfl: off to get Gordon now.....back in a bit , why dont you :beer: :D

    afraid lol, stick and stones may break my bones, whips and chains n nets excite me :eek: :rotfl: , i am drinking wine getting ready to go out ::eek:
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  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    Ok ok - too much information :eek:

    stupid xbf wont bluddy leave me alone - please tell me what will make a guy go away , I cant be more blunt :mad:

    Hope you have fun with your going out :D
  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    Shoe_Gal wrote: »
    Hi everybody - hope you're all having a good Saturday :beer:

    Had a really good night out last night, just got home. Got into quite a deep conversation over dinner about the directions people's lives are taking and plans for the future. Made me feel that I am drifting a bit - and using debts and being overweight as an excuse to hold me back! :o Need to re-commit to my weight loss and debt free goals and start making some progress. :rolleyes:


    Hey Shoe Gal,

    glad you had a good time last night - a deep & meaningful is always revealing & in my case usually makes me feel a bit ashamed of not having any direction. I've never had any great ambitions of great wealth, expensive houses or cars or craved career success :o Drifting is what I do best :rolleyes: I just want to be me & not have control freak men try to mould me into their ideal & then get cross when they realise I'm not :confused: . Sorry - the idiot is doing my head in :mad: :mad: .

    It's very easy to use debt & weight loss as an excuse for not doing things - guilty - but recent enforced life changes have made me reevaluate what is important to me rather than what others feel should be important.

    So, what do you want ?
  • jakemuk
    jakemuk Posts: 973 Forumite
    :D
    Lula-Hula wrote: »
    Ok ok - too much information :eek:

    stupid xbf wont bluddy leave me alone - please tell me what will make a guy go away , I cant be more blunt :mad:

    Hope you have fun with your going out :D

    to much info lol :D . Just tell him u aint intrested and u moved on , :rotfl: , Or he was naff in bed lol
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