Single and in debt.

skint_spice

sarahb123 wrote: »

I certainly don't prefer being single, but I have just got used to it I suppose. I would like to meet someone but I can see from other people's stories that is not always the best option. It just gets lonely at times, also feel that by 36 I should be more settled than this. When all your friends are in couples and you are struggling with debt it is hard to meet people.

Snap, apart from the age. I would like to meet someone but I'm not going to stress about the fact I'm single. Like I said before I'd like to be with someone but the RIGHT someone not just someone for the sake of not being single. and I rarely meet unattached folk of my own age.

marleyboy

well youve been doing fine with the tools you have used upto now. i.e. a keyboard and mouse.

PrincessPeach_2

marleyboy wrote: »

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Im not after RIch, Super models.

One rich male model for me please :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

only kidding

rugbymum

Ossireo wrote: »

I know I would love someone who I can trust and can love me and be loved by me, I just don't seem to have the tools to be able to locate one atm

Does this mean that there is an atm out there that dispenses men?



PS welcome newbies

sarahb123_3

rugbymum wrote: »

Does this mean that there is an atm out there that dispenses men?

Does anyone know the PIN?

Ossireo

sarahb123 wrote: »

Does anyone know the PIN?

Mine is clearly blocked :mad:

dido44

me to im single 44 struggling for years with debt but next year is the pay off of the biggie £25 grand i too live with my mother whos disabled so moving isnt much of an option for me as she needs a lot of help which im glad to do because shes been a gem to me in troubled times also shes now going to put me on the deeds to the house which she wanted to do earlier but i stopped her until the debt was paid so if the worst happened she wouldnt have been involved and nothing of hers could have been touched. I know it feels like a hamster wheel sometimes but im getting there slowly who knows i just might learn something at last

Ossireo

sarahb123 wrote: »

If you find those tools, let us know immediately!

I might find them in the 7 years worth of clutter I am sorting through, I'll give ya a shout if I find anything promising!

runmichellerun

skint_spice wrote: »

Snap, apart from the age. I would like to meet someone but I'm not going to stress about the fact I'm single. Like I said before I'd like to be with someone but the RIGHT someone not just someone for the sake of not being single. and I rarely meet unattached folk of my own age.

Exactly what I think as well. I just don't know what to do / where to go to meet the men that are genuinely nice, funny, confident and intelligent (maybe it doesn't exist )

TeetersOnHeels

I work with 100 or so blokes, most of them married - completely off limits & I'm not sure going out with someone you work with can have its disadvantages.
Did try internet dating a couple of times..the first bloke told me all there was to know about the petrol consumtion of his Golf GTI - yawn, yawn... And the second, advertised himself as 5ft 9" - not that I'm heightist or anything, but he couldn't do dates in December as he was busy with Snow White & the other 6 dwarves......
Gave it up as a bad job after that. It got to the point where sorting out a babysitter and arranging to go out was more hassle than it was worth! Just spend my time stalking men in Tesco's who have a "meal for one" and a bottle of plonk in their shopping basket!!!!