Single and in debt.

eco

pink it gets me down sometimes, and those in couples are usually moaning about there other half, there's times i wonder if it's worth it.
Fiestaman did you chat on the internet?

fiestaman87

I'm single in sofar as I am currently without a partner but I've done the married with kids bit. I do miss the kids but I certainly don't miss the ex-wife. She still tries to control my life from a distance but after 2 years her grip is certainly loosening.

fiestaman87

eco wrote: »

Fiestaman did you chat on the internet?

Yes I did, thanks for asking.

She is ok but feels she met me too early.

I would like to meet her again but who knows.

eco

I'm so lucky 35 never been married no kids, how I've managed it so far I'm not sure, but single life is so boring sometimes.

pink1310

yeah i get a bit down all the people i know are with a partner and ive got no kids i think to my self if maybe i had kids i may feel better lol

eco

fiestaman87 wrote: »

Yes I did, thanks for asking.

She is ok but feels she met me too early.

I would like to meet her again but who knows.

thats a shame but at least you know, she might be a bit shy or hurt in the past and just need a bit more time, or your just going to have to move on.

fiestaman87

eco wrote: »

thats a shame but at least you know, she might be a bit shy or hurt in the past and just need a bit more time, or your just going to have to move on.

I think half my problem is that I end up with tunnel vision when it comes to potential eligable women. I don't see any further than the woman I am mostly in conversation with at that point and then maybe I become upset and uptight when things don't go any further.

eco

I'm too nosey for tunnel vision, i'm forever looking round the pub to see who's arrived, i probably give the impression i ain't interested, i read somewhere you have to go on 20 dates before you meet the one, i got a bit of practice but i don't reckon i've dated 20 yet, it's demoralising.

fiestaman87

Maybe sometimes I appear too eager.

What do women want? Someone who is keen (but not to the point of stalking obviously) or someone who doesn't give a s*** and just ignores all women hoping that the possibility if reverse psychology might work?

SmileyG_2

Hey ho guys.... What's up?

What's with all the doom and gloom?

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