over spend and over eat

LilMissEmmylou

if u like - im sure i could pop up a little chatroom on my website for the evening for us to use

Skint_Lynne

Hi,

I'm back from my globetrotting and I think it went really well, I'll just need to wait and see, they should let me know early next week. I was really good, did not stop at the motorway services and had my own stuff, so I stuck to the plan.

I'm sorry for the hassle you are having puzzled, things will work out for the best, you are still very young so I am sure that there are some fantastic times to come for you yet!!

The party is a good idea, just let me know when it is so that I can try and 'be there'.:D

SL x

LilMissEmmylou

have just spent some time on the running club thread today. Going to go for my first ever run tomorrow providing its not raining Exciting stuff saying as ive never ran because i hate it lol, but I am quite looking fwd to it

Kmac_Edin

Puzzled - I'm so sorry to hear about things *sending HUGE hugs your way*. Men are strange creatures and within time he will realise what hes done and what a mistake he has made and thats when you have to be even stronger, you are the better person and the stronger one for sharing all of this with us.

As the ladies have said we are all here for you if you want to rant etc

love

K xx

crazychatter

Emmylou, the chat room plan soundslike a good idea! Good luck on your run!!

Fingers crossed for you Lynne!

I need to stop eating choclate but I can't! I want some nowwwwwww! xx

Puzzledbubbles

Thanks K - its nice that i can come talk to you guys while im sorting it all out in my head - im just moving on to the angry stage at the moment - on Friday it will be 2 weeks since it all went wrong and then i left last Thursday. Im going back to the house today and am leaving him a letter about the finances etc and just saying that i still dont understand.

I guess its onwards an upwards - thank goodness for my sealed pot - i am £50 into my overdraft so thought i would open the pot so that i dont get deeper into debt cause i know ill regret it later - and i had over £100 in there so im happy with that - luckily i dont need to buy anything to go on holiday with as i have clothes etc and will take the sun cream etc from the house when i go to get my holiday things - have my books an everything - ive got so much going on in my head maybe a week away from it all will do me good - and i can always go on the internet if i really want too.

Hope your run went ok Lil - i love running but never have the motivation to keep it up.

Crazy - stay away from the chocolate - or have one piece and send the rest to me lol

Hope everyone else is ok on this manky Wednesday

x

wanttobeasaver

Hi everyone.........

Hows you puzzled? Glad your getting away on your holiday you need the break:rolleyes: Is any one going with you? Get a few good boxes & relax I know easier said tha n done...........

SL .......Glad you got on ok yesterday fingers & toes crosssed........

Well my house is sparkling all cleaned today..........ironed yesterday for hour so all up to date for another we while :T :T

Ive just made myself pastnsauce im still tryin to be good went to go for a walk with a friend its lashing so no go area :mad:

Puzzledbubbles

Well done on the cleaning want to - i hate ironing, guess im gonna have to start!!!

Sorry its raining - its miserable weather here too.

He has signed the car over to me so thats one less thing to worry about and has said he will continue to pay some money into the joint account for the debt but will move everything else out so that it comes direct from his bank.

I guess its good that he is thinking of the money and that we are getting all of the financial things sorted - but i feel like poo - is this what the last 3 years have been reduced to - a few bills and a car.

Im still in the angry stage - might stay here for a few days - an angry place has to be better than a weepy messy place.

Puzzled
x

crazychatter

Puzzled, where and when are you going on holiday? I do hope you manage to have a bit of a rest, although I know your head will be spinning. Well done for being prepared with the Sealed pot.

I haven't had any choc....YET but I know I will, I just can't stop myself, I was so good for one week then all my determination went and all I can think about is how I want a twix or bourbon creams! grrrr!

LilMissEmmylou

puzzled enjoy the holiday. Will be a great time to relax and put everything in life in perspective for you - no thinking about anyone else for a while

WTBAS - well done on the pasta and sauce for lunch! i erm had wraps which was ok... till i had a magnum to wash them down LOL

CC - if u REALLY want the choc, then do a little exercise, 30 mins aerobics should burn 250ish calories so u could eat the bar and feel guilt free lol.

Went for this "run" was really a slow jog i guess to look at. Managed to run about half of the 1 mile circuit and walked the rest. Didnt really enjoy it though but guess it gets more enjoyable as u get better at it? Going to hang around the running thread for a while anyways to try and keep myself motived to keep trying again.