Merry - Ramblings of an undischarged bankrupt!

Dez-Titute

Sorry Rich,
Can't be that serious as i know why Merry comes across so happy

Richard_S

Bl00dy h3ll Dez,

Did you have to?:rolleyes: :rolleyes: My O.H will be pestering me for a bathroom addition like that.:D

Merry_Gentry

Why thank you Richard.:D Dez, I shall say nothing!! :rotfl:

Ok update ahoy!

* H's car is exempt as well, so time to fix the Volvo and sell it on :j

* Sent in the completed SOA last week, so waiting to hear whether they'll be an IPA/IPO for either of us

* Received notification of OR's interest in the house. They put the wrong address down on the second part of the paperwork, but we're just going to cross that out, put the right address and send it back to them. :rolleyes:

* NT Tax notification received by both of us. :T

So generally speaking, a few bits of paper flying backwards and forwards, but life tootles on. Am feeling my way into life, checking my account every day so I am on top of my finances. :A

H and I are officially over - he has found a friend, and once we have been discharged from bankruptcy and gone through the year's rental we'll be going our separate ways. Need to tell the kids, and not looking forward to that. So much upheaval for them in the last six months, and this will upset them. BUT they are brilliant kids, and the fact that H and I are still friends will hopefully smooth things over for them as much as possible.

So, maybe not a happy Merry, but a growing in strength Merry which is all good! :beer:

betterlatethannever

Ohh Merry, i don't know what to say.
From your previous posts i don't think its totally unexpected, but that doesn't make it easier.

I hope your ok.. you've been through so much these last few months.

Your such a battler though and you've coped brilliantly, i hope that continues.

XX

Merry_Gentry

betterlatethannever wrote: »

Ohh Merry, i don't know what to say.
From your previous posts i don't think its totally unexpected, but that doesn't make it easier.

I hope your ok.. you've been through so much these last few months.

Your such a battler though and you've coped brilliantly, i hope that continues.

XX

Thanks BLT :grouphug:

I'm good actually. My girls are off on holiday with their dad, so missing them chunks but am just happy for this fresh start. Oh I know I'm going to have my down days, sniffle into my pillow, etc but this is the right thing to happen - I feel it, I believe it - and it means when I get out the other side I will be a better person for it. :j

dalip

Oh merry some good and bad. Get given it in one hand and taken away with the other.


How do you feel merry?. I always hoped you two would come through this and make ago of it. Always sad when a relationship ends. Not much more i can say other than better to have one happy parent than two unhappy ones. I know i remember my parents stopping together purely for myself and my sister and the atmosphere was awful at times.


There is somebody out there for you merry,your soul mate,who will appreciate you sense of humour,wit,kind heart,guts,stamina and beauty. One day you will find him or he will find you. Good luck girl. D

Merry_Gentry

Hard to say how I feel - am too busy doing to feel. Probably hit me in the middle of the night and I'll bawl my eyes out Nope, I'm doing ok!

So_Sad_Angel

Hi Merry,

Thanbks for the update & so sorry to here about you & your OH but in the end it has to be what you both feel is right.

Look forward not back sweetie.

Angexx

Merry_Gentry

So_Sad_Angel wrote: »

Look forward not back sweetie.

Angexx

Amen to that :A

blind-as-a-bat_2

Ive already said all i can sweet, but you know where we are if you need any support/help/shoulder, we will do our best, you know that;)