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If we could all please be nice to each other? Even if we disagree ...Signature removed for peace of mind0
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maryjanethespider wrote: »Im sure your brother is not the weak, innocent and doe eyed man you describe and neither do i believe she is the fire breathing witch from hell.
From what i can read it sounds like she's angry at him not taking much notice of the girl, she chipps her tooth, dad messes around umming and ahhing phones mum who gets peeved by him fuddy duddying around rather than using his common sense and taking her straight to the dentist or emergency dentist...
Wow you are very quick to totally ignore what an OP has said in a thread - and think that you know best what the truth actually is, when in another thread where you are the OP - "Who's fault was it?" in motoring - people are bending over backwards to defend you and what you wrote as being the truth.
And BTW it's considered good ettiquette to return to any thread you start - go to your own profile and click on threads started by you, that's where you'll find them.0 -
shortbread wrote: »My brothers ex was on income support..............she made sure that csa did not hound him...............he willingly gave her cash every month like I am sure many many many fathers do, not ever assuming that after so long it would come back and bite him in the butt!
If she was receiving money from your brother while she was claiming IS then she was breaking the law and could find that she has to repay it.0 -
I really do appreciate all the offer of support and advice! It has given me some food for thought and ways forward to talk to my brother about.
She would not allow him to see my niece this weekend, My mum and I picked up my niece and spent a few hours with her. My mum asked if it would be ok for my brother to be present and she refused point blank!
She is digging her heels in and does not care what my niece thinks............my niece misses her dad and openly said so, but we have to remain silent for fear of her mother getting at us for speaking about her dad!
I would like to think her mum is just annoyed and will come round, but I just get the feeling that this time she is trying to make him suffer!
I will keep updating as I know anything , once again really appreciate the feedback and advice !
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What a horrible woman
I think urgent legal advice is needed nowLoretta0
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