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CRB check for helping out at school
Probably a stupid question i want to help out at my childs school and need a crb check.....i'm worried as many years ago i was made bankrupt and i'd be ashamed if anyone ever found out, so will it show up? being bankrupt doesn't make me a criminal does it?
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Dating Sites Ettiquette ;)
Bit of an ettiquette problem here! For those of you who use dating sites, what do you do when you get a message from someone you're just not interested in dating? Do you reply saying "No thanks but good luck" or something similar? Or just ignore them in perpetuity? I've had a few messages that were very nice but came from…
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Sex with a new partner... turning on the pressure...
When you meet a man and start dating is it considered unreasonable to wait 3 months or so before having sex with them?
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hair dye in pregnancy
DD is 13 weeks pregnant & is desperate to dye her hair - is it safe to do? & are there any brands that are better than others
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Are these what you would call red flags or warning signs?
I've met this guy and on the surface of it he seems perfectly reasonable - intelligent, able to hold a decent conversation, responsible etc. But things keep popping up that make my skin crawl. I've known him for about 5 weeks now and he wants to have a relationship. First of all, he was talking about his ex-wife and he was…
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SAHP thread?
Hello, I am new to posting on MSE but have loved reading it for quite a while now. I am currently 24 weeks pg with dc2. I am currently working full time but hoping to have a career break for a few years after this next baby arrives. We are looking at making it work financially but I am not sure how prepared we really are.…
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what age can a child legally decide which parent to live with?
Hi people I split with my partner 8 years ago. We have 2 children now aged 11(boy) and 12(girl). They live with their mother and stay with me every other wkend and once during the wk. I have since remarried taking on 2 step children and had another another child with my wife. She is now 3yrs old. This worked fine until…
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Uapdate on my daughter....not good :o(
For those of you who have given me some great advice reagrding my dd's issues and how to get help, thought I would give an update. So as you know my dd has serious behaviour/emotional problems and learning difficulties. After months of being passed to and fro from doctor to school I finally got an e.p involved (off my own…
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Should I eat this?
I made a chilli con carne last Thursday evening. Instead of putting the leftovers in the freezer, I stupidly only put it in the fridge. It's been there since Thursday night in a tupperware tub. Should I eat it? Just being cautious as I'm preggers....... PS. And the MSE element is that I don't want to waste it, buy…
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fall out with mother in law
before I write this please do not reply if your going to be nasty and unhelpful Ive been through enough lately and just need someone to talk to without fear of being shot down by people Im sorry its so long but I want to be honest and try not to paint it as one sided and put in as much detail as I can ........ok my story…
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Tracing biological mother.
If one were never officially adopted, but instead given over to "legal guardians" to be raised from the age of ~1 year old and knew very little about their birth mother, what would be the best way to go about trying to trace their biological mother?
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Am gutted... Please help
Sorry if this is in the wrong place, feel free to move it.. Can you sign a petition to stop local council destroying our beautiful and historic fort? And selling the land off to some housing development.. ?? I am so gutted, I grew up in Milford Haven/Hubberston and have wonderful memories of this place, and so does my…
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Still not dry through the night at 6
Hi everyone, looking for some advice about my son who is 6, he still isnt dry through the night and has to wear huggies night time pants every night, ive tried no drinks after 6pm, getting him up in the night to go to the toilet and i always take him to the toilet before bed but nothing has worked, and he doesnt just do a…
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Mum lost £500 last week!
My 87 yr old Mother told me some "bad news" yesterday on the Telephone. She went down to the bank with my cousin to sort out an account and take £500 out. She put the envelope containing the money in a bag on her wheelie frame. She stood outside a shop for a while whilst my cousin went in to buy something, but she can't…
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Can i stop an abusive ex from seeing our son??
Hi there, i have recently come out of an emotionally abusive realtionship that was with a man who is also a compulsive liar and a pain killer and weed addict, after 3 years of abuse im glad to be free of him, but i dont want him to have contact with out 2 year old son either as i could never trust what he says or what he…
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Am worried now - Could we get done for stealing?
Hello, Theres probably not anything I can do about this right now due to it being a Sunday after 4:30pm so just wanted some opinions. We have been to a shop today and bought various items that should have come to about £280. We were paying at 4:35pm and the shop was meant to close at 4:30pm so everyone was in a rush and…
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help please my dads will
hi new here so hope i do this right my daddied in jan 07 and he had a will or so i was told by my sister contents were 2 grandchildren to get £1000 each the remainder to keep my mam then when she passed the remainder to go to me and my sister 50/50 well my mam got dementia and i took care of her for 2 years then she went…
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Birthday gifts for a 2 year old Girl !! Please help. Birthday upcoming!
Hi As title states, looking for some gift ideas for a 2 year old girl. Budget isn't completely endless but since a lot of us are chipping in... its substantial. I already have bought her one large gift, and then I usually buy several small ones, under £20. Does anyone have any ideas or links please I like the idea of a…
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How to gain confidence
I'm now in my late 40's, several years ago, I suffered a nervous breakdown, since then, I've never felt 100% confident, so, how does one become more confident without coming across as aggressive? I work in an office where my line director is based in another part of the Country, but the department manager is based in the…
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DIY Probate or use a solicitor?
My mum passed away last week - she has left a will which is lodged with a solicitor. The will is fairly straightforward: My brother, cousin and I are named executors. We each received a third share of her cash assets, her jewellery is left to me and my brother and I each have a third share of her house with the final third…
