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Little ways to say I love you

buzzyzoe
buzzyzoe Posts: 477 Forumite
Eighth Anniversary 100 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
Just wondering what little ways you guys have to show your partner you love them?

I leave my boyfriend notes around the house to tell him and have in the past popped little surprises in his bag if he's going away (he works away a fair bit) for him to find when he gets there :)
Mortgage received 21/12/2018
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Current mortgage - £260,276
Saving towards a loft conversion first, then to smash the mortgage down!
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  • marleyboy
    marleyboy Posts: 16,698 Forumite
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    I occasionally (quite random and not too frequently) place a little paper love heart with a little love you note into her lunchbox, usually with some chocolate hidden under the napkin.

    Its nothing much, but enough to give her a little smile whilst at work.
    :A:dance:1+1+1=1:dance::A
    "Marleyboy you are a legend!"
    MarleyBoy "You are the Greatest"
    Marleyboy You Are A Legend!
    Marleyboy speaks sense
    marleyboy (total legend)
    Marleyboy - You are, indeed, a legend.
  • gabriel1980
    gabriel1980 Posts: 317 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    occasional "I love you" texts or bring home a bunch of flowers for no reason. Cleaning the bathroom. Taking the bin out. Doing the dishes.
  • Alikay
    Alikay Posts: 5,147 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I do a special KonMari (see the thread on Old Style) fold on DH's undies. The other day I was very narked with him and just shoved them in his drawer clean but flat, spitefully telling him I couldn't be bothered to fold them.

    He went off to work looking very sad and dejected and sounded very down when I spoke to him at lunchtime.

    Marital harmony was restored later when his little face lit up at the sight of his pants drawer after I had a change of heart and folded them all pointy-upwards :rotfl::rotfl:

    He's very easy to please :)
  • System
    System Posts: 178,390 Community Admin
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    I use my sprogledite to pass on whispered messages. The cuteness factor in which he delivers my sweet nothings never fails :D
    This is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com
  • System
    System Posts: 178,390 Community Admin
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    Spinkz wrote: »
    I use my sprogledite to pass on whispered messages. The cuteness factor in which he delivers my sweet nothings never fails :D

    Your thoughtfullness never ceases to amaze me.:)
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  • marleyboy
    marleyboy Posts: 16,698 Forumite
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    Good job on your avatar Spinkz. ;)
    :A:dance:1+1+1=1:dance::A
    "Marleyboy you are a legend!"
    MarleyBoy "You are the Greatest"
    Marleyboy You Are A Legend!
    Marleyboy speaks sense
    marleyboy (total legend)
    Marleyboy - You are, indeed, a legend.
  • amistupid
    amistupid Posts: 55,997 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Photogenic I've been Money Tipped!
    Last year, whilst power washing the front path, the OH left me a romantic message.

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    In memory of Chris Hyde #867
  • Gloomendoom
    Gloomendoom Posts: 16,551 Forumite
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    If I remember, I leave the toilet seat down.
  • Georgiegirl256
    Georgiegirl256 Posts: 7,005 Forumite
    I let DH have the extra bit of scampi :p For some reason they always put 13 pieces in.
  • amistupid
    amistupid Posts: 55,997 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Photogenic I've been Money Tipped!
    I give her my last Rolo.
    In memory of Chris Hyde #867
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