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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • Honey_Bear
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    FPT and Maman - on reflection, after what you've both said and I know about myself, I think that's rather interesting. We know we can sound preachy, or that things that we say/write might be taken the wrong way, or might come across as aggresive, none of which we want to be the case. I know I spend a bit of time checking my posts before I hit Submit Reply because I want to make sure my exuberance, for want of a better word, doesn't jangle people's nerves. In real life I don't 'edit' what I actually say nearly enough, obviously!

    Well done Sukeyboo on reaching your target with quite a chunk of month left, and I hope everyone else who's coming to the end of the month either makes it, or like Eltee has had enough Low Alcohol days to count as victories.

    Woman's Hour has been doing a series this week about children of alcoholics and it's been very saluatory listening. I was never courageous enough to have kids but had I done so, with a bit of hindsight, I fear mine would have figured amongst the contributors. Narrow escapes all round.

    26/31 please, Shaggy.
    Better is good enough.
  • macpep1
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    edited 26 May 2017 at 11:46AM
    Hi All :hello:


    I have not been on much, been really busy this week. Can I have another 3 bringing my total to 7/14AF's added please Shaggy. I am not going to make my target at all but 7 days or more is unheard of for me so I am pleased & getting better every month. We have a severe weather warning for thunderstorms tomorrow :( so I will have a glass or 2 of wine tonight & enjoy what's left of the sunshine. Have a good weekend everyone.
    :TGratitude is the best Attitude :T
    Long Term Flylady
  • sukeyboo
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    Thanks HB - I am hoping to get a couple more in next week and get my 14 day smiley :)

    I must say I have never felt anyone on here comes across at preachy - it is a very positive thread and I have found it so helpful in keeping me 'on track' :D

    Well done to all those who have reached (or exceeded) target & also to those who have reduced their intake even if they haven't quite made target :T

    Have a lovely Bank Holiday weekend everyone - let's hope this lovely weather hangs around for it :j
  • Phew, well that's good to know, so thank you everyone. I shall keep posting my twaddle.

    There was a vigil at my local park for two of the Manchester attack victims this evening. I went along to that and have come home and feel a little lonely now. I was invited to go out with my OH and his work friends but I turned them down, and I'm not sure why really. But on the plus side I have stayed AF on a Friday night. Hoping for another one tomorrow too, as I'll be having a drink or two on Sunday after the Manchester Run, (which I was supposed to be running in, but I'm not now as I've been too poorly to train). Another plus is that I've had 4 days in a row of feeling well so I'm hoping that whatever the problem was, has gone.

    I think that takes me to 23/25 please.
  • Barny1979
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    20/24 AFDs
  • Poor_Single_lady
    Poor_Single_lady Posts: 1,527 Forumite
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    24/31

    Very busy weekend. Not much time for drinking so planned AF till at least Tuesday.
    Very hard trying to cut down. Trying hard but would like to be doing better.

    Thank you everyone for contributing. Every post is helpful to me- and also hope anyone reading but not joining knows that there is room for more! xx
    2017- 5 credit cards plus loan
    Overdraft And 1 credit card paid off.

    2018 plans - reduce debt
  • Wanna_Bee_Free
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    5/14 please for last night Shaggy.

    Two more for me since I last posted so 7/14 please Shaggy.

    Derailed this week. Much drunken bonding with colleagues, no cringe factor about what had been said the next day at least!
  • cathybird
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    Afternoon all, 24/21 for me please. :)
  • Barny1979
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    21/24 AFDs
  • 24/25 please.
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