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It is tough NOW. So how are we coping

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  • mags50_2
    mags50_2 Posts: 381 Forumite
    Hugs Reverbe....that must have been so disappointing for you....I don't know what else to say.
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  • ceridwen
    ceridwen Posts: 11,547 Forumite
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    Hi Reverbe

    What a bummer! Such a disappointment - not just a job, but a promising-looking one too......:mad: ..and, by the sound of it, you left another job to get it. That is VERY soon after starting the job - I'm not up on these things as to whether there would be any chance of compensation for misrepresentation or summat? Taken on under false pretences type stuff? Losing a job one has had for a while - well things have changed in the firm since then. But to lose one that one has only just started - surely they should have had some inkling whether the job would last at least a whiles when they took you on? Because of them you have deliberately given up a safe/r job and the job lasted two seconds.....I do hope that you are entitled to something. Even if you're not - I would have thought they could at least dish out a "goodwill gesture" payment. I'm presuming this is a redundancy - of the distinctly unexpected variety. It seems odd to just leave an ansafone message for you - cowards way out. Has anyone else been affected? I guess its a question of taking the chance of asking whats what when you go into the place to pick up your belongings. You do need a letter stating its a redundancy - to make it plain to the D.W.P. that this was a redundancy - and not a case of you resigning (so that you get benefit right away - rather than a disqualification period applied).

    So I guess thats plan of action for today:
    1. Go into the place - joint purpose: fetch belongings and quiz management as to the circumstances of the job going so fast and arrange to receive a suitable redundancy letter (a good idea if possible - even if its not a redundancy).

    2. Cup of coffee somewhere nice.

    3. Hit the job agencies and JobCentre.

    4. Register for unemployment benefit (think its possible to register on line now - rather than having to visit the place in person? - things have changed since I was unemployed years ago).

    5. Cook yourself a nice meal and have relaxing night in - or get husband/boyfriend if applicable to dish out the sympathy and a nice meal out.

    FOLLOWING DAY;
    1. Make a list of places to apply to on spec.

    2. Do out those applications and hand-deliver them if possible.

    3. Go for long walk somewhere nice in countryside or seaside.
  • Hi Reverbe,I can't give you any advice.I just wanted to say I feel for you.I'm sure something else will come along soon.Don't let the kick in the teeth you've just had bring you down.Things can only get better after this.I wish you the best of luck.Take care xxxxxxxx
  • retiredlady
    retiredlady Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Reverbe wrote: »
    Dreadful today I have to say. Just started the best job I have ever had with a lovely large company which has great prospects and they offered me a pay increase cos I impressed them so much. This is only halfway through my second week while I am still in training effectively. Today there was a message on my answer phone when I came home from work. I won't be required. 2 days before the Xmas Party I was invited to and felt a part of the XX company family. I had already bought some costume jewellery and a wrap to jazz up an old dress cos it was black tie too. :(

    That is just dreadful!:mad: Are you 100% certain that it wasn't a hoax call by a jealous colleague or something? Doing something like that by text is not something a large company would normally do!? (Can you imagine the headlines):eek:!

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  • taplady
    taplady Posts: 7,184 Forumite
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    reverbe - so sorry to hear about your job (((hugs))) ceridwen has given you some good advice to follow!:T
    Do what you love :happyhear
  • Yategirl
    Yategirl Posts: 839 Forumite
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    reverbe - what horrible news !!{hugs}} ceridwen has good advice :)

    Elizabunny - sorry to hear about theft... hope you managed to cancel all your cards etc..
  • Reverbe
    Reverbe Posts: 4,210 Forumite
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    mags50 wrote: »
    Hugs Reverbe....that must have been so disappointing for you....I don't know what else to say.
    x
    Thank you Mags. I am actually feeling totally worthless and gutted. I gave up the chance to work in M & S over Xmas for this job cos it was better pay and prospects. I think that the company are being totally unreasonable as by all acounts it is a massive company with so much to learn that the induction to the company alone takes 3 whole days. There are many new systems and processes and I am still in training. The company ethos is to value integrity and be an open company with communication and they have a never be afraid to raise a point/ask a q policy. I have had tech issues and issues getting access to the various online systems and also when I am trained on the job it either hasnt been given to me yet or given in like here it is , 2 mins of explanation, you know how to do it now ok type.

    I really don't know what I am going to do to keep myself going as I won't get benefits.
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  • the_cat
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    Reverbe - I have only just read this so sorry if it is advice too late.(past 9am)

    GO TO WORK ANYWAY!!!!!! Retired lady might be right. It is a very odd way for a large company to behave. Either way, pretending you didn't get the message and speaking to someone face to face and finding out the details is the way I would go with something like this
  • Reverbe
    Reverbe Posts: 4,210 Forumite
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    Thank you everyone. I am very touched. You have all set me off again. :( I think the lowest point was last night when I texted my friend in Stoke the only person I have in my life and all I really wanted was for them to sympathise and tell me that I had some value and they couldn't even reply.It is so lovely this morning to see that there are some nice people out there.
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  • Reverbe
    Reverbe Posts: 4,210 Forumite
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    the_cat wrote: »
    Reverbe - I have only just read this so sorry if it is advice too late.(past 9am)

    GO TO WORK ANYWAY!!!!!! Retired lady might be right. It is a very odd way for a large company to behave. Either way, pretending you didn't get the message and speaking to someone face to face and finding out the details is the way I would go with something like this


    I have been asked not to go in.But I am disgusted that this could have been solved by a 10 min face to face discussion rather than a behind my back termination.This is not the intergrity this company prides itself on. Also the guy who made the decision was my supposed line manager. I met this chap only twice - one yesterday and once last week and the man has not said but 10 words or so to me.He certainly does not even see how I am coping at work cos he works in another branch.
    What Would Bill Buchanan Do?
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