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  • mclaren_2
    mclaren_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
    Tiff wrote:
    Hi mc:hello:
    I haven't read ahead of this post yet so I'm sure everything useful has already been said.;) Well done angel on taking that big first step and for being so totally honest to gp.WooHoo.gif
    It's the only way to get the help needed. Sometimes we don't tell the whole story in case they might think we're absolutely der.gif:D
    But drs have seen it all before hun.;) So hopefully angel, there'll soon be a lot less of this :wall: in your life. It's great that you've got a gp on the ball too who is keeping you well monitored. In a funny kind of way, be glad that your symptoms were bad at that time :o - I'm sure we've all had the experience of feeling very ill (physically/mentally) and by the time it comes to see the dr, we're feeling a bit better!:rolleyes:
    I guess the only thing I can add mc, is that there's so many options available to help you via gp, so don't ever give up hope hun - be patient and stay as honest with your dr as you already have been.hug.gif
    Much Love
    Tiff xxx
    i hate goin 2 docs lol. i have been and i just need to let these tabs give em time to work aspose :)
    Never do things tomorow when you can do them today.
  • Bunnie1982
    Bunnie1982 Posts: 1,671 Forumite
    I have literally had enough of my hubby.

    The past couple of weeks he has just had a really bad attitude and spoke to me and belittled me like other ex partners have in the past, I am sick to the teeth of it, I don't expect it from him.

    All I have had is lectures all day off him over everything, i.e. are you going to do the hoovering? what are we having for tea? are you not feeding the animals today? what are you typing?

    It is really getting on my nerves, especially as I had my works do last night and have got a huge headache and just want to chill out.

    I cannot cope anymore, we have only been married since August but he has changed, I just feel like all I am good for is sex.

    I just wanna lock myself in the bathroom and cry, anything to escape from him.

    When I am trying to do things like being on the Internet he sits staring at me.
  • mclaren_2
    mclaren_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
    Bunnie1982 wrote:
    I have literally had enough of my hubby.

    The past couple of weeks he has just had a really bad attitude and spoke to me and belittled me like other ex partners have in the past, I am sick to the teeth of it, I don't expect it from him.

    All I have had is lectures all day off him over everything, i.e. are you going to do the hoovering? what are we having for tea? are you not feeding the animals today? what are you typing?

    It is really getting on my nerves, especially as I had my works do last night and have got a huge headache and just want to chill out.

    I cannot cope anymore, we have only been married since August but he has changed, I just feel like all I am good for is sex.

    I just wanna lock myself in the bathroom and cry, anything to escape from him.

    When I am trying to do things like being on the Internet he sits staring at me.
    Why dont you go to a friends for a while - just get a little holiday break away from him and see ow youfeel hunni. Does he have stress or anything preasure in his life exaple job? I know its not an excuse but someties stress can do things to us we dont like.

    But i would advise you to take a holiday hun and get away - even for a couple of days :)
    Never do things tomorow when you can do them today.
  • blinky
    blinky Posts: 1,684 Forumite
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    mclaren wrote:
    Why dont you go to a friends for a while - just get a little holiday break away from him and see ow youfeel hunni. Does he have stress or anything preasure in his life exaple job? I know its not an excuse but someties stress can do things to us we dont like.

    But i would advise you to take a holiday hun and get away - even for a couple of days :)

    I agree, it would help. Christmas is a stressful time anyway so this is the last thing you need at the moment.

    Does your husband know you about your problems?

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    "I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell.." - Unwell by Matchbox Twenty
  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    blinky wrote:
    Sorry :o
    ROFL :rotfl: :rotfl:

    No need for hat fund yet.

    If people do want me to leave just say...

    Don't you dare!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • mclaren_2
    mclaren_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
    I just wanted to put a post before i go to bed - just to say, that i hope feely has a wonderful time at her parents, and i hope she has a wonderful christmas with them, and can relax and feel better. We want feelinggood to be feelinggood when she returns :D

    Feely - enjoy it, and have a wonderful christmas :D :kisses3:
    Never do things tomorow when you can do them today.
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    mclaren wrote:
    I just wanted to put a post before i go to bed - just to say, that i hope feely has a wonderful time at her parents, and i hope she has a wonderful christmas with them, and can relax and feel better. We want feelinggood to be feelinggood when she returns :D

    Feely - enjoy it, and have a wonderful christmas :D :kisses3:

    Hehe, thankies very much :)
    Fingers crossed, there is a chance I'll be able to get on MSE while I'm up there!
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    blinky wrote:
    Sorry :o
    ROFL :rotfl: :rotfl:

    No need for hat fund yet.

    If people do want me to leave just say...

    Good morning blinky:hello:
    Nope, I've decided - you've got to stay here and suffer like the rest of us!heh.gif
    You're family now hun - we're a bit like the Mafia in that respect...we don't like people to leave ... and don't even think about making a run for it!:naughty:funny%2520pictures%2520supercat.jpg

    I know you'll be seeing r today hun so good luck with that.;) You know I was only joking. It's nice to have some holiday cheer angel.:T Hope you're well. Have a great day blinky.hug.gif
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
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    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
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  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    Hi ethel :hello: Pull up a chair and have a :coffee: :grouphug: :think:
    Weird.. my eyes have sprung a leak and just wont stop!!! it's infuriating.. i can't stop crying and i feel like people are thinking im pathetic. as soon as anyone looks a tme or says somehing nice thts it... the euyeballs start gushing!
    Hun, if you were running around and bouncing with happiness right now, THEN I'd be worried about you.nod.gif You have got an enormous amount of stress angel from a variety of directions. What you're feeling is completely natural ethel, so try not to fret about what people might think. In fact, all they probably are thinking is 'I wonder what's upset that lady?' There won't be anything malicious at all - you said yourself, 'as soon as someone says something nice..' and also we get very sensitive when we're in crisis.
    daughter came home yesterday afternoon. I had misgivngs and I was right to.. she dcided to do a runner in themiddle of the night... had to get the police to go find her... they ventually did an brought her home at abt 4am.. she was in a bad state mentally but refuseed to go to hospsital and cos she's not been sectioned they codlnt force her.
    Oh angel, they've got to get their act together. From all you've said, she is at risk and vulnerable. A police dr or A&E dr can access the section process hun. I'm surprised that they didn't section her, especially as the police had to go out and find her. How old is she ethel?
    So thats ermmmmmmm 4 out of the last 5 nights ive been sleepless.. aybe thats why the eyes are leacking eh?
    Leaking eyes are good for you - gets rid of the stress and sets you nicely to castrate a builder or two if they mess up. Leaking eyes also show that you have a heart hun.;)
    got workmen in the house today.. they keep loking fnny at me and the support worker is coming at 2.30 or something. Daughter has had medisine so she's dead to the world now :/
    i;m tryign to clean up the house a bit but i cnat see for long enuff to finish anythng.. agghh :mad:
    When DD is asleep angel, could you lock the doors and windows and have a catnap? If you're on the couch, you'd hopefully hear her if she awoke. At least she's getting some sleep hun. Tell the woodlouse to get off his backside and get some housework done! I can't believe his attitude! Is there any family you could turn to angel? What's going to happen with DD next ethel?
    I don't know if this will be of any help. You could phone your local adult or children's Social Services as they have a 24/7 crisis team too. Wasn't there a crisis team from her hospital? Why are they letting her come home when it's obvious the girl needs intensive treatment and monitoring?!
    Ethel, I so admire your courage and strength.:T I mean this so sincerely and I'm thinking of you. If there's anything I can do let me know. I'm off to look up some info for you hun but I need her age and diagnosis. You're a real star ;) - just hang in there a bit longer angel.hug.gif
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
    ***
    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
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  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    mclaren wrote:
    i hate goin 2 docs lol. i have been and i just need to let these tabs give em time to work aspose :)

    Hi mac:hello:
    Yes hun - going to the drs is not a good idea for a day out is it?:rolleyes:
    I guess the ad's may make you a little tired and groggy hun but it'll wear off soon. Enjoy the rest while you can mac - you'll be bouncing all over the place soon. Just give it all a little time.;) Hope you're feeling okay angel - have a great Sunday.hug.gif
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
    ***
    'You just got Tiffed!' ;)
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