PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING

Hello Forumites! However well-intentioned, for the safety of other users we ask that you refrain from seeking or offering medical advice. This includes recommendations for medicines, procedures or over-the-counter remedies. Posts or threads found to be in breach of this rule will be removed.
We're aware that some users are experiencing technical issues which the team are working to resolve. See the Community Noticeboard for more info. Thank you for your patience.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Weekly Flylady Thread 7th October 2019

Options
2456713

Comments

  • kazwookie
    kazwookie Posts: 14,244 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Natty thinking of you, like Valli has said if you are in a union get in contact with them, also if you need legal advise then see if your house ins policy offers that.
    Try a post to the employment board on this site as well, as they can offer help and advise.


    Wm is on
    Breast Cancer Now 100 miles October 2022 100 / 100miles
    D- Day 80km June 2024 80/80km (10.06.24 all done)
    Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2024 to complete by end Sept 2024. 1,001,066/ 1,000,000 (20.09.24 all done)
    Breast Cancer Now 100 miles 1st May 2025 (18.05.2025 all done)
    Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2025 to complete by end Sept 2025. 114,256/1,000,000
    Sun, Sea
  • My goodness Natty, how terrible.

    Do you work in a 'regulated' activity? (Children Or Adults at risk) if you do, don't resign during the investigation, no matter how bad it gets. They will have to do a DBS referral, but the investigation will stop, so even harder to prove your innocence.

    Happy belated birthday ASB

    I am struggling with life a bit at the moment. I'm feeling drawn very thin by all of my commitments - non individually are enough to cause issue, but clump them together and I realise I haven't got the capacity.
    Also, trying to reduce my screen time, but that has knock on effects with keeping up with things here. Arghhh why is life so complicated? But, I do count my blessings, especially when I hear of what some of your lovely people are enduring. Prayers and thoughts with you all.

    My washing basket is empty - woooohoooo all the wet stuff is hung up and all the stuff that has dried has been put away.
    House is surface tidy, but I could do with a blitz on rooms - kitchen and bathroom should be reasonably easy to sort. Maybe a job for this evening (or afternoon of Pickle will watch a film)

    Off out to run some chores now.
    Back later.

    Spoons on the side, help yourselves

    Wish.
    Outstanding mortgage: £23,181 (December 19)
    MFW 2020 Challenge Member #10 0/£2318
  • Mademoiselle
    Mademoiselle Posts: 1,363 Forumite
    Sixth Anniversary 1,000 Posts
    Backlog of ironing cleared
    Breakfast eaten (trying to make this a habit)
    Weekend bags unpacked and put away
    WM 2 on, TD on
    Bed done


    Coffee then back up to continue with dot to dot in bedroom
  • ionafan
    ionafan Posts: 4,812 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Glad you had a lovely birthday asb. Hope you get your GP appointment quickly - they're like gold dust round here.

    First thing on the list has been completed: washing machine repair man turned up at 8.30 and has been paid for telling me that the machine is fine apart from a bit of a limescale problem (we're in a soft water area so it really is only a little bit, and easily dealt with - I've already started the empty wash cycle with the descaler), but if it fails again it will be a problem with the control board and I shall have to get a new machine. I can't grumble - this one was in the house when we moved here over 6 years ago, and it was already a few years old then.

    So my list for today says:
    - WMx3
    - bathroom/study levels 1 and 2 - but I have no cluttersome bottles in the bathroom so that's one less item to do :D
    - sort 2 birthday presents
    - finish clearing my desk and sorting the piles of papers on top of the filing cabinet and the spare bed
    - pot up the geraniums and fuschias from the patio pots for overwintering before I ...
    - ... have my nails done
    - send out Toddler Group reminders (Harvest Festival this week)
    - update my work record and reflection journal
    - Rosie's walk
    - early tea because (for a change) it's DH who has a safeguarding training session this evening
    - catch up with friends at the Old Wives' Group.

    Anyone up for joining me in a HHC?
  • ska_lover
    ska_lover Posts: 3,773 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    First time on FL. I often look on here and feel inspired to sort my life out, but its my week off this week - so im onboard
    The opposite of what you know...is also true
  • Natty68
    Natty68 Posts: 3,463 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Sadly I'm not in a union as it's purely voluntary, although I'm seeing my boss this week to see how we proceed. Sadly I think it will be swept under the carpet and my reputation ruined.

    I must admit I thought better of them especially as it was where I did my 5year therapy treatment.
    Valli wrote: »
    Aww Natty - how stressful for you. If you're in a union do contact them for support.
    kazwookie wrote: »
    Natty thinking of you, like Valli has said if you are in a union get in contact with them, also if you need legal advise then see if your house ins policy offers that.
    Try a post to the employment board on this site as well, as they can offer help and advise.
    Mortgage Free as of 20.9.17
    Declutter challenge 2023, 2024 🏅 🏅⭐️⭐️
    Declutter Challenge 2025
    DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
  • Natty68
    Natty68 Posts: 3,463 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    My goodness Natty, how terrible.

    Do you work in a 'regulated' activity? (Children Or Adults at risk) if you do, don't resign during the investigation, no matter how bad it gets. They will have to do a DBS referral, but the investigation will stop, so even harder to prove your innocence
    .
    I am volunteering as a driver for vulnerable adults that have BPD at my old therapy unit, where I completed 5 years of therapy.

    I havent resigned but the unit has said I wont be driving for them. I think they've swept it under the carpet and basically got rid of me. Although saying that I've asked for proof, dates and evidence etc..

    I have a meeting with my boss this week so we'll see where we proceed.

    The good news is we may be moving to Wales next year, instead of a few years. DH is going to retire/resign after his Birthday in January.
    Mortgage Free as of 20.9.17
    Declutter challenge 2023, 2024 🏅 🏅⭐️⭐️
    Declutter Challenge 2025
    DH declutter challenge award 🏅⭐️
  • ionafan
    ionafan Posts: 4,812 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    More (((Hugs))) Natty.

    Welcome ska lover :wave:

    Slightly off piste, but in my 2xHHC I have
    - cleaned the bath, toilet, shower
    - wiped down tiles and window sills
    - found a half bottle of something to throw away because the last time I used it, it left me gasping for air :eek:
    - cleaned the ensuite
    - cleaned the utility sink and put away several items
    - cleaned the yucky window and door frames (as far as I could reach) in the two porches
    - tidied the downstairs bedroom
    - cleaned the workmen's loo
    - found some extension leads
    - sorted the washing and started WMx1 of 3

    And DH :A made me a :coffee:

    Next: the probability of rain in the next hour has dropped from 64% to 31%, so I'm off into the wilderness that is my garden to deal with the pots. Send in the tracker dogs if I don't reappear by 2.00.
  • BadCat18
    BadCat18 Posts: 1,042 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Hugs natty so sorry to hear what you are going through

    Dailies done
    Dentist done, hygienist rebooked as she is off sick today., Arranged to go next week, fortunately the surgery is nice and close.
    Drying company been, house is dry and all the machines are gone :j:j:j
    Made bed
    Folded laundry and washed another load which is now on the airer
    Bathroom done including floor and skirtings before work

    Done a few hours of paid stuff, should be able to finish early today. Headache all cleared and at least I put my early morning to good use!

    Popping out in a moment for an early lunch and a walk before my afternoon meetings

    Back later x
  • kazwookie
    kazwookie Posts: 14,244 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Food shop done and away
    HM soup made, cooling, ready to portion up and freeze, looks about 10 portions so enough for lunches when the weather is wet and cold, the rest will be frozen until required.




    Natty make sure you take someone with you when you see your boss, and get them to take notes etc.
    Breast Cancer Now 100 miles October 2022 100 / 100miles
    D- Day 80km June 2024 80/80km (10.06.24 all done)
    Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2024 to complete by end Sept 2024. 1,001,066/ 1,000,000 (20.09.24 all done)
    Breast Cancer Now 100 miles 1st May 2025 (18.05.2025 all done)
    Diabetic UK 1 million steps July 2025 to complete by end Sept 2025. 114,256/1,000,000
    Sun, Sea
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 350.8K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 453.4K Spending & Discounts
  • 243.7K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 598.5K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 176.8K Life & Family
  • 256.9K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.6K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.