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In tears...thanks to MBNA!

I have just called MBNA to advise them of my forthcoming CCCS appointment.
I have already made a arrangement with MBNA about 2 months ago which I now can't pay. I am freelance and my invoices are rarely paid on time which is the main reason for getting into this mess.

My 'account manager' has just told me I have wasted their time as I am now getting CCCS involved! I told her I was not wasting her time as she was simply doing her job which involves sorting out my account problems...!

What to do now...the debt is massive £22k and is now (as i've been rudely informed) will be sold off to a DCA...it'll be sold off before my CCCS appointment next week...I am in tears now and am feeling absolutely dreadful.

Is there anyone out there who can offer any kind of support...I feel so alone.Thankyou xx
"happiness is...positive cashflow!":j
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  • immoral_angeluk
    immoral_angeluk Posts: 24,506 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    MBNA are well known for being a nasty bunch of wuckfits, so please don't let them upset you. You've done the right thing going to the CCCS.
    Total 'Failed Business' Debt £29,043
    Que sera, sera. <3
  • **Amy**
    **Amy** Posts: 2,680 Forumite
    :grouphug: For you at the minute xxxx

    Sorry they were so horrible to you.

    I would wait until you hear from a DCA. Until you hear from them there is not a lot you can do. When you do simply inform them that you are having your meeting with the CCCS and they will be contacted shortly with regards to the outcome etc.

    Try not to worry too much, you have at least taken the step and have an apopintment with CCCS.

    Sorry im not much help.

    xxx
    Debt: just my mortgage :D
  • Thankyou both for the hugs and support! Trying to get it together as I'm at work with red eyes! xxx
    "happiness is...positive cashflow!":j
  • **Amy**
    **Amy** Posts: 2,680 Forumite
    Awww i have done that many a time, most recently, last Thursday evening. :rotfl:

    It will get better i promise.

    x
    Debt: just my mortgage :D
  • newlywed
    newlywed Posts: 8,255 Forumite
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    When debts are sold to debt collection agencies the interest and charges usually stop. So it could be a really good thing ;)
    working on clearing the clutterDo I want the stuff or the space?
  • newlywed
    newlywed Posts: 8,255 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    ps. CCCS have been really great (I've just done my first year on a DMP).
    working on clearing the clutterDo I want the stuff or the space?
  • Jvic28
    Jvic28 Posts: 1,596 Forumite
    Really DO NOT WORRY!

    DCA's tend to be better to deal with than those they buy the debts off. You have done the right thing by calling CCCS. Things are going to get much better for you shortly, I'm sure.

    x
    DMP Mutual Support Thread Member No 190
    17/05/08 - Total on DMP: £10025.70
    07/05/14 - Total on DMP: £1666.20 DFD: July 2017!!
    Baby Tomos born 5th June 2009 - 6lb 5oz :j
    Weight Loss Target - to lose 60.8lb by NYE 2015 - 37.6lb TO GO
  • Determined
    Determined Posts: 97 Forumite
    Aww you poor thing! Really there are some nasty people out there!!!

    As everyone else has said, just tell them that your appointment has been made. It really doesn't matter who the debt is with CCCS will still be able to help you. Also it's more than likely just a scare tactic (as I said nasty).

    RBS 'passed' my debt to a collection agency and it too was £22,000. They passed it 2 days before my IVA went through and it really made no difference at all!

    Chin up there, you're doing the right thing.

    HUGS
    Determined x
  • tishywish
    tishywish Posts: 210 Forumite
    MBNA are a nightmare :mad: When I asked them to stop phoning me and put everything in wriiting they got quite shirty (with 2 ts!) with me to the point that I put the phone down on them. I never do that normally so they must haev got to me more than I thought :rotfl: But finally they have stopped calling and texting after I wrote 4 or 5 letters to them. They haven't accepted my DMP payments and have "threatened" to pass my account to a DCA which I'm no longer worried about - at least then the charges and interest should stop.

    Good luck - it's worth writing to them to tell them not to phone you any more so they can't upset you like this. I found them a bunch of bullies - by far the worst of all my creditors to deal with.
    LBM: March 2008
    DMP Mutual Support Thread Member No 198
  • newlywed
    newlywed Posts: 8,255 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Next time they ring and want to "go through security details" - just tell them you can't take calls as you're at work ;)
    working on clearing the clutterDo I want the stuff or the space?
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