cos i've had a drink too many And my troubles, well i ain't got any-yeh right i wish

So_Sad_Angel

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smiales

HEADACHE wrote: »

Many thanks for all your kind words.
Ive got to a point now where I am so sick of all this BR stuff.The reason is that ive opted for easy work and this is due to a massive fear of failure and ive been 'faking it' to so many people.
I had a long chat on the phone with a life coach this afternoon and she has explained where ive been going wrong and what I need to do.The fear had caused me to procrastinate for over 3 years and all the time ive gone deeper down.But hey,now I know what the problem
was,its time to look forward and start getting stuck in to the hard work,to make money and haul myself up by my boot straps.

Headache, I am so glad that you have posted again and that you have taken positive steps. Its easy to say but you will get through it. I tell myself this all the time but on some days it does not go in and you slip back down to where you were in your earlier post. Have you been to the doctor and talked to them about how you are feeling? It took me over a year to go and see someone, should have done it sooner.

I too live in fear of living, there are weeks when I literally don't leave the house because I can't face the world and feel so confused and lost. I'm getting better slowly now, sound like you - the tone of you first post compared to your second is familiar! Positive day, negative day, positive hour, negative week etc etc, over time though I reckon we will start getting more positive than negative days until eventually we are back living happy lives!

Chin up, x

Merry_Gentry

Dez-Titute wrote: »

((((((((WOW))))))))))

Did I miss something or did I score last night and can't remember(must keep off the meths).Not had a Hug like that in years,to think of it not had a hug in years.Feels great.In heaven.Another lump in the throat.LOL

((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))
((((((BIG BOOBIES))))))))

What more could a man want.:j

And there was me starting to think it was just a one off thing Now I know it's appreciated, who knows what type of hugs you might get

Merry_Gentry

SingleSue wrote: »

People keep telling me I am a strong person but I have never felt like it, more like a weakling with a strong looking exterior :rotfl:

The best thing that can be done is to talk...rage....moan to people who understand, that helps to get things off your chest and to see the wood for the trees....my problem was it took a little longer to realise that.

SO many of us hide behind these strong masks - it is fabulous to have somewhere we can put them down and just be ourselves.

And you're right, sometimes just talking about it can make so much difference.

blind-as-a-bat_2

Maybe i should rename this thread to the 'let it all out' thread which in your case Merry_Gentry might have a double meaning:o :rotfl:

So_Sad_Angel

blind-as-a-bat wrote: »

Maybe i should rename this thread to the 'let it all out' thread which in your case Merry_Gentry might have a double meaning:o :rotfl:

I agree Blind...your thread has taken on a life of its own!!!!

Perhaps MG could start her very own <<<BIG HUGS>>> thread!!! I somehow think she would be very, very popular! :rotfl: :rotfl:

blind-as-a-bat_2

So_Sad_Angel wrote: »

I agree Blind...your thread has taken on a life of its own!!!!

Perhaps MG could start her very own <<<BIG HUGS>>> thread!!! I somehow think she would be very, very popular! :rotfl: :rotfl:

really why:rolleyes:

Actually its not a bad idea, a thread just for venting, not just to do with BR but anything thats dragging you down, what do you think

Merry_Gentry

I think a venting thread would be excellent - will hold back on a ((HUGGING)) thread until Dez calms down :eek:

Merry_Gentry

blind-as-a-bat wrote: »

Maybe i should rename this thread to the 'let it all out' thread which in your case Merry_Gentry might have a double meaning:o :rotfl:

Now Blind, every woman with big boobs knows the best hugs are when they're 'contained' not hanging out!!! :rotfl::rotfl:

blind-as-a-bat_2

Merry_Gentry wrote: »

Now Blind, every woman with big boobs knows the best hugs are when they're 'contained' not hanging out!!! :rotfl::rotfl:

Im not saying anything but...............are you sure about that:o :rotfl: