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Husband declaring bankcruptsy in divorce

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  • blind-as-a-bat_2
    blind-as-a-bat_2 Posts: 4,304 Forumite
    Some days bat some days everyone has a sob story even me:rolleyes:


    I already know that BH but belittleing others for theres is not going to make yours better in the long run;)
    Thats it, i am done, Blind-as-a-Bat has left the forum, for good this time, there is no way I can recover this account, as the password was random, and not recorded, and the email used no longer exits, nor can be recovered to recover the account, goodbye all …………. :(
  • Richard_S
    Richard_S Posts: 4,432 Forumite
    Some days bat some days everyone has a sob story even me:rolleyes:

    Hi Broken hearted,

    I know you've been through some really bad times recently, but you're not going to make yourself feel beter by making other people feel worse. You're not a bad person, you're actually a very good one, but you've not done anybody any favours with your posts on here; especially yourself.

    God forbid, I should be hypocritical enough to criticise anybody for posting inflammatory comments, but it does you no credit to pick easy targets.

    Richard
  • Broken_hearted
    Broken_hearted Posts: 9,553 Forumite
    My big sister is the strongest person I know yet she still ended up in a bad relationship with her first husband, she walked away shortly after he turned but it took a hell of a lot to do it. Mainly in the pride area, she always said if they'd had kids it would have been so different don't know if she would have got out at all.

    As for love wow such a big meaning for such a small world, I love my DH and I miss him everyday. It seems such a strange thing to say when he's still here but he's never going to get better and I'll grow old alone.
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  • ohcrap
    ohcrap Posts: 49 Forumite
    Is the change of tact an apology broken hearted. You might win back a bit more respect if so?
  • Broken_hearted
    Broken_hearted Posts: 9,553 Forumite
    Richard_S wrote: »
    Hi Broken hearted,

    I know you've been through some really bad times recently, but you're not going to make yourself feel beter by making other people feel worse. You're not a bad person, you're actually a very good one, but you've not done anybody any favours with your posts on here; especially yourself.

    God forbid, I should be hypocritical enough to criticise anybody for posting inflammatory comments, but it does you no credit to pick easy targets.

    Richard
    I know richard I've got myself into a fight again havn't I. :o. Must learn to think things in my head and no say them/type them. Thank you for earlier by the way it was very sweet of you.
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    Nothing to do but hibernate till spring






  • ohcrap
    ohcrap Posts: 49 Forumite
    She still wont apologise!!!
  • Broken_hearted
    Broken_hearted Posts: 9,553 Forumite
    Sorry Bat, Richard and dalip.Off to bed now as I'm getting stroppier by the second must be hormones.










    and if it matters that much sorry OP
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  • ohcrap
    ohcrap Posts: 49 Forumite
    Ok Ok Ok Ok Ok
  • boredofbeingathome
    boredofbeingathome Posts: 15,657 Forumite
    Its Oc'S thread, courtesy wouldn't go amiss!

    I hope Oc, that you continue to get the supportive advice you need, and the same for everyone else.

    Just seen the apology, so ignore above comment.
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • dalip
    dalip Posts: 7,045 Forumite
    Hey BH i got a big enough heart to say i'm sorry and it seems so have you in a round about way. Like i said there is more behind every bc story than we will ever know. Nobody wants to hear my life history, as much as i would like off load,but every body is different. If i think what i m thinking(call me miss marples, actually call me what you like:D ) try not to be bitter it eats your insides and distroys things.Goodnight and godbless X
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