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Husband declaring bankcruptsy in divorce

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  • blind-as-a-bat_2
    blind-as-a-bat_2 Posts: 4,304 Forumite
    Oh and my husband agrees my nob must be small its invisable.

    Yes isnt modern medicine wonderfull, those surgeons can work wonders cant they:p
    Thats it, i am done, Blind-as-a-Bat has left the forum, for good this time, there is no way I can recover this account, as the password was random, and not recorded, and the email used no longer exits, nor can be recovered to recover the account, goodbye all …………. :(
  • Broken_hearted
    Broken_hearted Posts: 9,553 Forumite
    MammaCas wrote: »
    BH I realise you are being 'ironic' but the OP is in distress, asked for help not for sarcastic comments about her ex going BR.....

    In fact you seem to have more of an issue about the BR than she does......

    MC
    Point taken will go back to laughing in private, it just sumed up everything I said about BR causing pain so well and all I could think was good for him.
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  • 2Loose
    2Loose Posts: 81 Forumite
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    OhCrap, so glad you have your child's interests at heart, although I doubt any other thoughts were in your mind.
    As a recently seperated father heading towards BR, I despair at some people who do not seem to value the life they helped create...and of course some posters.

    I wish you the best.
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  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,042 Forumite
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    ohcrap wrote: »
    Thank you to all those who have left me kind & supporting comments.

    I am just concerned for childs welfare. Perhaps hearted used to beat his wife & screwed her out of money & thinks this kind of behaviour is acceptable or perhaps he just has a small nob & he is taking his frustrations out on my page.

    Thanks again to all you good people who have been a huge support to me on here.

    X

    Wrong gender, but well done for coming out fighting. Sorry you had a bit of a baptism of fire. Most people on here will give you support and not judgements.

    As you gathered advice is given freely to those going BK and those who have living with the consequences of possible consequnences of someone else going BK. I

    And you are welcome on the DFW board anytime.
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  • ohcrap
    ohcrap Posts: 49 Forumite
    Hello Blindasabat

    Please accept my sincere aplogies for mis-using your name earlier. I hope you can forgive me. X

    P.S. to broken hearted ... no wonder your husband left you what ever sex you claim you are with your attitude. I do support my child btw totally ... I ex does not pay a penny towards my child, I work very hard to support my child.
  • blind-as-a-bat_2
    blind-as-a-bat_2 Posts: 4,304 Forumite
    ohcrap wrote: »
    Hello Blindasabat

    Please accept my sincere aplogies for mis-using your name earlier. I hope you can forgive me. X

    P.S. to broken hearted ... no wonder your husband left you what ever sex you claim you are with your attitude. I do support my child btw totally ... I ex does not pay a penny towards my child, I work very hard to support my child.

    As i said non needed just dont take the likes of BH seriously;)

    PS i will say it before she does her husband hasnt left her.........god only knows why though:p
    Thats it, i am done, Blind-as-a-Bat has left the forum, for good this time, there is no way I can recover this account, as the password was random, and not recorded, and the email used no longer exits, nor can be recovered to recover the account, goodbye all …………. :(
  • Rikki
    Rikki Posts: 21,625 Forumite
    If he has deliberately disposed of monies to family since the separation a good solicitor will make him account for it and if the monies have gone to family they can be made to return it. I have know this happen.

    You need legal advise and as soon as possible.

    Try to see if you have a womens refuge center. They normally have visiting solicitors. Or have a free session with a solicitor who specialise in family law.

    Also when you divorce you now go to councselling. This will be another opportunity to make solicitors aware of the deliberate miss use of family assets and self induced debt as a way of depriving you of what is rightfully yours. Judges are not very sympathetic to this type of callous act.

    Good Luck.
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  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,042 Forumite
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    BAt

    Please....

    Cool it.

    Ohcrap, please do not take all this [EMAIL="!!!!"]!!!![/EMAIL] personally. BH has a long-standing reputation for making adverse comments about people and bankruptcy.

    As far as i understand it, since she is paying her debts (or the one's run up for her husband) back, she does not approve of people going BK. So the idea of people on the BK board supporting an OP whose ex is going BK stirkes her as funny.

    Not sure the Joe-Hel got the same greeting when he came on here though.
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  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,042 Forumite
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    Its just edited my comment turned part of ohcraps name into !!!!

    Ah!
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  • Scarlett.1974
    Scarlett.1974 Posts: 2,765 Forumite
    How about supporting your child yourself rather than relying on a man. Women can you know it is allowed.

    OMG. And you have the audacity to comment to someone else about "sinking any lower"? How DARE you? Can you not read? The OP has already said she is working part time and is looking to go full time because her idiot of an ex isn't supporting their child.

    Seriously BH, where DOES this bitterness and nastiness come from? What exactly has the OP done to you? :confused:
    You can't control everything in life....... your hair was put on your head to remind you of that :p

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