Husband declaring bankcruptsy in divorce

ohcrap

I will put together that timeline. Thanks for the tip!

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wherediditallgo

Broken_hearted wrote: »

Poor bloke could have had a crisis and gone on a spending spree to cope with the stress. Divorce isn't easy and he has a right to go BR just like anyone else unless going BR makes you a rat I don't see the problem.

Lord have mercy. If you give Ohcrap's situation a bit more thought, I think you'll find that they're aren't bothered about their ex going BR. What they're concerned about are the repercussions for their family, the fact that he's not attempting to support their child in any way whatsoever, either with maintenance payments or a roof over their head.

The lines you should have paid attention to were these:

ohcrap wrote: »

He is making sure that my child and myself will see nothing and will not have a roof over our heads.

Is there anything I can do to protect myself and my child from his actions.

I would really appreciate anyones advise.

rather than the one word that never fails to trigger a response from you.

Good luck ohcrap in getting something concrete sorted out for you & your child. The best advice we can offer is what you've already had - seek legal advice asap, & put together a timeline of events past, present & anything that happens in the future (including attempts at contact on either side), as the OR & the law will find that very useful in reminding your ex of his responsibilities.

Scarlett.1974

Broken_hearted wrote: »

Poor bloke could have had a crisis and gone on a spending spree to cope with the stress. Divorce isn't easy and he has a right to go BR just like anyone else unless going BR makes you a rat I don't see the problem.

Er...... BH, did you miss this:

He is making sure that my child and myself will see nothing and will not have a roof over our heads.

and this:

My husband does not support us in any way... no CSA or no contribution to the mortgage ... nothing.

Okay, we only have the OP's side of the story here, but running up a load of debt very recently and quitting a well paid job doesn't strike me as the most honourable of actions, especially when there is a child involved which needs the support of his/her father.

Best of luck to you ohcrap, I can only echo the advice you've already been given to seek legal advice as soon as you can

Scarlett.1974

Broken_hearted wrote: »

He's used a legal loophole to get out of his debts, just like every other BR it's very hypocritical to feel sorry for one creditor over the others. Just because its his ex and child doesn't make it any different to someone hiding money from a bank or CC company.

Heaven help me. His CHILD is not a creditor for goodness sake.

If you have nothing helpful to offer to the OP may I politely suggest you step away from this thread?

wherediditallgo

Broken_hearted wrote: »

He's used a legal loophole to get out of his debts, just like every other BR it's very hypocritical to feel sorry for one creditor over the others. Just because its his ex and child doesn't make it any different to someone hiding money from a bank or CC company.

This isn't about bricks & mortar, or a business, or a car, for goodness sake - this is about a child & meeting the responsibilities every parent takes on when they bring a child into the world. Even if the ex feels nothing for ohcrap, he has responsibilities towards his child. I can't begin to count the number of posts I've seen on here from those contemplating BR who worry themselves sick about the effect on their children, but you don't acknowledge that - instead, you talk about him using "a legal loophole to get out of his debts, just like every other BR". "Legal loophole" my back end - how dare you! :mad:

There's plenty more I could say to you, but I will not allow my anger at your post to give you room to take over ohcrap's thread at what is clearly a very difficult time for them. Hopefully, you will give them the same consideration & refrain from making any more useless comments in it.

blind-as-a-bat_2

Broken_hearted wrote: »

He's used a legal loophole to get out of his debts, just like every other BR it's very hypocritical to feel sorry for one creditor over the others. Just because its his ex and child doesn't make it any different to someone hiding money from a bank or CC company.

Bad day/week/month/life again BH:D

That was not one of your best replys i have to say

Broken_hearted

Nope just loving the irony.

philnicandamy

Hmm I agree....not your best form BH

blind-as-a-bat_2

Broken_hearted wrote: »

Nope just loving the irony.

Whats your ironing got to do withit




Oh sorry irony mis read it sorry:p

dalip

wherediditallgo wrote: »

Lord have mercy. If you give Ohcrap's situation a bit more thought, I think you'll find that they're aren't bothered about their ex going BR. What they're concerned about are the repercussions for their family, the fact that he's not attempting to support their child in any way whatsoever, either with maintenance payments or a roof over their head.

The lines you should have paid attention to were these:



rather than the one word that never fails to trigger a response from you.

Good luck ohcrap in getting something concrete sorted out for you & your child. The best advice we can offer is what you've already had - seek legal advice asap, & put together a timeline of events past, present & anything that happens in the future (including attempts at contact on either side), as the OR & the law will find that very useful in reminding your ex of his responsibilities.

Well said! I did wonder why BH did not want to come to the meet !. Now know! How bigoted can you get?

Scarlett . Yes don't know about broken,should be hard;)