Weekly Flylady Thread 5th May 2008

Pollybear

Well done Nicki

soappie

Just logged into facebook - it really does confuse me! Hey ho, I must be old!

johanne

*trundles in for a moan*

Totally fed up. Just wanna pack DD, OH and mine things and b*gger off somwhere together far away.

Lost all motivation to do uni work.... house is a bombsite... baby is restless and so being crabby... crap weekend ahead with official appointments on sat and another mass and scattering FILs ashes on sunday... sick of everything and everyone.

*trundles off to feel sorry for self a bit more*

pigpen

Johanne.. you learn to say 'no' .. you have just had a baby you CAN be selfish you CAN refuse to do things you don't want to do/can't be bothered to do/are too tired to do. You will never get the opportuniy to behave like such a selfish bint again so make the most of it right now!!! Baby is just hot and bothered like very one else and needs millions of 15 second breastfeeds to keep her hydrated!! And in the words of someone who has had enough children to comment.. f*** the house.. it'll be there when you've done the rest of the stuff!

pigpen

soappie wrote: »

Just logged into facebook - it really does confuse me! Hey ho, I must be old!

I forgot my login.. I'm scatty..

I am also covered in a rash.. note to self.. DO NOT EAT APPLES THINKING HAYFEVER MEDS WILL PREVENT THE REACTION.. I did think it was just a reaction form the sun at first but I haven't been out in it today.. apart from school runs.. and it is on my unsunned bits..

zarazara

kitchen floor mopped. hoovering done.
more veg seeds planted
2 big bags of rubbish removed from shed
microwave ceaned
fridge cleaned
shopping list done
washing drying
bed made
bathroom swished and swiped
iam happy

soappie

I have a slight problem with one of my ebay buyers. I mentioned the other day he'd left me positive feedback - except he hadn't paid and I hadn't sent him his item!

I sent him a gentle message about it then. Still not had payment. I've just re-invoiced him with a reminder (it's now a week since he won the item). What do I do if he don't cough up?

zarazara

JOHANNE please take care of yourself and the baby. everyone and everything else can wait. its right to be "selfish" when you've a tiny one to look after. dig in your heels and say NO, please.

pigpen

soappie wrote: »

I have a slight problem with one of my ebay buyers. I mentioned the other day he'd left me positive feedback - except he hadn't paid and I hadn't sent him his item!

I sent him a gentle message about it then. Still not had payment. I've just re-invoiced him with a reminder (it's now a week since he won the item). What do I do if he don't cough up?

leave him negative as a NPB..

ChasingButterflies

soappie- If you open an unpaid item dispute then that will a. send him a reminder b. give you a credit for your final value fees if he doesn't pay (you will also get a listing fee credit when you relist)

wtg with the updated savings btw :j

(hugs) Johanne - I agree with everyone else. As hard as it is to accept you can't do everything - take care of yourself, baby and OH and everything else will get there...