Advice please

snipzychick

savvysass wrote: »

Funny tho, she has been on the phone to me every day this week think she realises that she crossed the line

Shame that she didn't think about this before she slept with him though

playing_with_fire

I'm in a similar place, my friend broke up with her long term partner and got dumped by the bloke she was having an affair with, she decided to move to London and I arranged it so she could stay with me. I thought I could help her get out of debt trouble, about a week before moving in she let me know that she has been exchanging dirty messages with one of my exes, who happens to be the best mate of one of her exes. Pretended I was fine with it but the sense of betrayal mostly because her friendship meant so much to me whereas she was willing to risk mine for a bit of male attention and the fact that while we were making plans about living together she was doing her usual dirty email thing (she has previous). Like said before if they were genuinely in love I would be ok with it but she has been contacting other blokes and slept with one while texting my ex. Our friendship is over, I tried to have it out with her but she has instead chosen to tell everyone that I am jealous because I am still in love with my ex, which hurts because she better than anyone knows how much I love my boyfriend of 4 years.

These women are insecure, desperate and needy and well we should be glad to be rid of them. I realise now that she actually treated me quite badly over the years and was bound to do something like this at some point.

I know she will say she's sorry but if she had someone elses ex at Christmas before getting with your ex, it says to me that she has learnt nothing at all.