boyfriend checking my web searches

marms

BritBrat wrote: »

It will soon be April the first.

Plenty of time to think of a way of getting him back.

Set up two messenger services and talk dirty to yourself then leave one of them open so he gets to see.

Talk about him to the other bloke, yes make your other name is male. tell him your boyfriend is rubbish in bed or anything else you can think of that would get him upset like he has done to you.

Start the logs now so it has an history by April the first, talk about how your boy friend does not trust you like the other guy does.

Arange to me your other half.

I think you get the idea.

Then try and record his actions and put it up on the web for all to see.

Oh I am nasty.

a good sharp kick in the nuts might get the message through? i know i wold learn s9omething if it happen'd to me lol

BritBrat

marms wrote: »

a good sharp kick in the nuts might get the message through? i know i wold learn s9omething if it happen'd to me lol

Yes I agree but have a joke on him first.

Then dump him.

mr_flibble

After a quick google of your problem and it looks like he has installed winspy on your pc.

http://www.win-spy.com/html/spyware_info_.html

I'd be very very angry if someone did this to me.

Get a good spyware checker and run it to be sure of this, or just follow the instructions on the winspy page and see if you can also log in!

So sorry for you if he has done this.

Get a new BF.

Kel.

BritBrat

After a quick google of your problem and it looks like he has installed winspy on your pc.

http://www.win-spy.com/html/spyware_info_.html

I can't open that site, I must have it blocked in hosts file or fire wall.

Just tell him to get lost.

If he is like this now never marry him.

pimpers

What a scumbag :mad:

Have a run through the add/remove programmes to see if there are any installed programmes you do not recognise, then try and remove them.
Or carry out a system restore to a point when you think your PC was turned into a spy tool.

Another option is, save all your data, files, pictures and anything else you want to keep and then re-install Windows.

Then only you to have administration rights and all others having guest accounts. Don't give in and change them, keep your password and username safe and hard to crack.

Unless you tell him your username and password, only YOU can add, remove or change programmes.

Relationships are all about trust. do you trust him, doubts? - DUMP HIM :T

It's obvious he does not trust you.

Pimpers.

wolvesinwales

I reckon its a bluff and the key is in when you say you then go and confess all your purchases.
Saying ' i was going to tell you what i bought but you obviously already know' would have a better effect.

fas3robinj

mr_flibble wrote: »

After a quick google of your problem and it looks like he has installed winspy on your pc.

There are dozens of spy progs available. Here's another .. http://www.spysureonline.com/ This one even does a screen capture every few seconds, so it's quite possible he could be monitoring everything you do.

I agree with the others. You need to talk.

Good luck

DatabaseError

you need to whisper those 3 little words in his ear, "pack your bags"

LadyMorticia

As far as I'm aware F12 doesn't do anything of the sort.

It really sounds like your boyfriend has trust issues. Have you spoken to him about it? You shouldn't have to disclose what you spend your money on. It's your money and you're free to do with it what you like.

xx

random456

I wouldn't care if my b/f looked at my sites, but he doesn't give a toss anyway, lol! I've got nothing to hide. The fact that you are bothered about what he might find (well you must be or it wouldn't be a problem) looks like you both have trust issues, but if he's so ready to tell you he can 'see' where you've been either means A) he's talking crap and teasing you or he's trying to scare you which is well out of order. Ask him what he's trying to find, perhaps he's just a bit para and the more you try and hide your stuff the more para he will get, either way, there's a serious trust issue going on!
If it's your money that you earned he's got no right to tell you what you can and can't spend (unless you both rent or something and are short on rent/bill money due to said spending) You really need to have a word with him.