Weekly Flylady Thread 3rd March 2008

lil_me

AnW'sMum - Honey, not stopped thinking of you all day, there is a report with slightly more in the same paper as yesterday. Take it easy, make sure you give yourself time. You know we're all here if you need us when you are ready, don't be playing superwoman as usual please. Thinking of you all. Give the little ones a giant hug from me x

SummerMoon

Just another quick check in. Done absolutely nothing today, but hey thats ok, cos everything is ten times better since i started flying lol. Gonna go eat some food and chill for the rest of the evening.

AnW'smum, justread the news article and i just wanted to offer my support and thoughts at such a hard time. Will light a healing candle for you, your such a brave person.

Right, goodnight all.... catch up with you tomorrow

mumofjusttwo

AnW'smum. Hugs for you and your family. Wish I could say more but don't really know what to say but just want to know that we are here for you (((hugs)))

tracyg

Had a lovely afternoon, got a few bits done, treated DS to a little kitchen because he loves them when we go to playgroups, hes played lovely for an hour with all the cooking bits from it, just put it together and in his playroom, both DH and I excited to see his face in the morning.

I've seen both sides of the NHS, both sis and my dad have had major problems with op's going wrong, so much so that my sis has been left with a hand that doesn't work and successfully sued. Saying that my DS wouldn't be here without the same hospital, nearly lost him at 6 weeks old. The consultant said 'you know your baby, pay no attention to what the monitors are saying, you tell us how you think he is, we trust your instincts more than machines'. We were really lucky to have quick and brilliant doctors. Reading others experiences how made me realise how lucky I am, so sorry for the things some of you have been through.

See you all tomorrow xx

Dustykitten

Off to watch a channel 4 about call centre phorage - should be good. I've given up on Ashes to Ashes

vanilla

Well another crazy day here, went to course this morning and the woman over the whole thing called me into her office (i thought i was in big trouble:rotfl: ) turns out that the company that fund the center have a thing where if someone is doing a course there and there situation is difficult they can be nominated for an award (which is 500 pounds) and the center manager wanted to nominate me because of being a carer for hubby. The tutor then told her that DD has a disability as well which the center manager never knew. Anyway i'm being nominated, i don't think i'll get it as there is only 6 people who will receive it and over 100 be nominated but it's nice to be thought of.

Any how boys room done today because i couldn't look at it anymore, think i've pulled out a months washing.:rotfl:

Haven't had a chance to really read the tread just wee glimpse but i'll get a catch up tomorrow as i'll be at home all day.
Right gonna make a start on the kitchen and do a few loads of washing.

AnW'smum i've had my yellow jumper on all day and you've been in my thoughts, sending big ((((hugs)))) for you and your kids.

skintscotslass

soappie wrote: »

AnW'sMum

Big, big !!!!!!!!{hugs}}}}

I suspect that was the verdict you were expecting but I suspect it's been very difficult to hear it out loud, and publicly and all over the press. I suspect you're beating yourself up in that you feel you should have done more to help your man. I suspect you feel very guilty.

You shouldn't.

From what I've read, Ian was under intolerable pressure trying to do the job he loved in the way he was capable of doing. But bureaucracy intervened and pressured him too much.

Oooh, and this is sooo easy to say, but I need to say it. Now the inquest is done and the verdict is given, you can move on - slowly but surely. You have two beautiful children who need you.

I shall get a balloon on Saturday and let it free with you all in mind

AnW'sMum - Soappie has expressed what I would love to be able to say. As I'm lacking in that dept, I'm echoing her sentiments. I'm just so so sorry xx

boddy

AnWsmum Big hugs and healing thoughts for you. Been thinking of you while at work today.

No flying done at home today but plenty at work. will not really get caught up till Sunday. Tomorrow its gym, see mum and vol job. Working at paid job Saturday. Got a few shifts of overtime this month which Im pleased about. They will help get my cc card paid off.

Hugs to everyone and catch up with you all tomorrow.

skintscotslass

vanilla wrote: »

Well another crazy day here, went to course this morning and the woman over the whole thing called me into her office (i thought i was in big trouble:rotfl: ) turns out that the company that fund the center have a thing where if someone is doing a course there and there situation is difficult they can be nominated for an award (which is 500 pounds) and the center manager wanted to nominate me because of being a carer for hubby. The tutor then told her that DD has a disability as well which the center manager never knew. Anyway i'm being nominated, i don't think i'll get it as there is only 6 people who will receive it and over 100 be nominated but it's nice to be thought of.

Aw Vanilla, isnt that nice!

skintscotslass

lil_me - have you been watching 'The Woman Who Stopped Traffic?' on Channel 4. The programme is about Durham next week.